she dose not show me attention she ignores me time to time we hardly ever have sex and she wont give me a chance to get her into having sex she always says she is sleepy or she is watching tv or somthing then when i try when we lay in bed for the night she says "why do you wait until im sleepy and want to sleep" i dont understand and she says she still wants to be with me but im trying my hardest not to break up with her she is distant from me we dont ever cudel anymore its like the only option she is giving me is to leave her alone 24/7 and not even talk to her....im a good looking guy and i know i can have somone that can trat me better and realize and understand my feelings and needs im stuck what do i do????
2007-10-12 05:24:41 · 11 answers · asked by michaelxx89 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Face it dude!!!! She is not into you at all. Time to break up with her. It's obvious she has no respect nor cares for you because if she did she wouldn't treat you that way.
Yes please use the "Check Spelling" feature. That's why it's there to help you spell correctly.
2007-10-12 05:33:38 · answer #1 · answered by conny 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What people dont realize is that typically the problem they are experiencing is actually an effect from another cause. Your GF not being being ready to go isnt because of your looks or the time you are asking to be with her. Its a much deeper underlining issue.
You have to understand for women, sex is more than the physical release and enjoyment. Its a very intimate thing. Sure, you have the various sluts that look for it but for most women in an actual relationship, its about the connection.
If she is being distant or not interested, odds are your communication has suffered for quite some time now. When a woman feels like she isnt being cared for or respected or wanted for anything more than sex, she tends to withdraw. A woman that is comfortable in the relationship and exhibiting positive vibes 9 times out of 10 will want to have sex standing on her head at 4 am. Its just a way to show that connection and intimacy.
You are taking this as a personal insult and its not. Learn to deal with this because this is the way EVERY SINGLE woman you will be in a relationship with will be from time to time. Take the time and talk to her. Bring her flowers. Take her out and laugh with her. Bridge the gap you two have and the intimacy will come right back.
Trust me on this one.
2007-10-12 05:34:48 · answer #2 · answered by catfish 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Man, Im going through the same thing, just not as serious. Me and my girl are getting along ok I guess. But she doesnt have the sex drive she had at the beginning. I hate to say it, but she wanted to have sex more than me at one point, lol. But now things are so slow. I know sometimes my girl feels like I just want sex, I dont. Sometimes u still gotta show them that u care about the person thats inside, and not just whats inside her panties.
Try thinking of the sweetest thing u could possibly do. Nothing too fancy but just let her know she still means the world to u. If she bites and loosens up then there might be hope. I think Im gonna take my own advise aswell, I'll let u know how it went for me.
2007-10-12 06:48:14 · answer #3 · answered by toomuchgame441 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give Me Attention
2016-11-12 03:56:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her. tell her upfront how you feel let her know. the best think is to talk to her you doount knnow whats goooing on with her.so take the time to find out. she mite be thinking that you only want sex bc you havent asked her why she is acting like that.
2007-10-12 05:40:27 · answer #5 · answered by Andy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would sit down with her again. Explain to her how you feel. See what she says. i think it may be about time to give her the boot
2007-10-12 05:32:01 · answer #6 · answered by pegsterh82 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its 2007,, and if a women doesnt know how to treat a guy then you better look for someone else,
I know deep inside its not about sex, its about connecting to your women, but if she doesnt understand that and treats you like a pervert then she is not respecting you enough,,,
Respect yourself by talking to her,,, dont push her just talk to her, see how she behaves towards you and if it still doesnt work out then look for someone else,,no women is worth hurting over,its better for you to give love to someone who appreciates you instead of one of those women who thinks me are just there to tell them their beautifull,give them emotional support,, help them,,those days are way over, wellcome to 2007
2007-10-12 05:35:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First maybe learn to spell. Then perhaps girls will want to sleep with you again.
You're kidding with all this right? She doesn't want to make love, doesn't want to cuddle, doesn't want to communicate...
I'm no rocket scientist but then it doesn't take a genius to figure out she's lost interest.
2007-10-12 05:30:01 · answer #8 · answered by QWERTY 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Shes done w/you, she just hasn't left yet!! Move on
2007-10-12 05:34:05 · answer #9 · answered by happywjc 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She wants to be married virgin. Ask her.
2007-10-12 05:38:31 · answer #10 · answered by dishwara 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋