hello,
if your new and havent been following my whole story then ill fill u in. my first question got deleted so i ended up re wording it in the second. i was talkin about my girl friend and how im 19 and shes............kinda alot younger than me and our relationship. she loves me and i love her and she does everything that i tell her to like a girl is suppose to act toward her man. they do wat there told. but now in my third installment to my problem, the thing is i kinda hit her sometimes wen i get angry. but the thing is, she apologizes to me wen i hit her and stuff like she was wrong. is she wrong or am i wrong? or is she jus a real lady who no's her place? help please.
2007-10-12 18:12:40 · 16 answers · asked by Dread 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are so wrong.
2007-10-12 18:16:07 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In her place? does as she's told? says sorry for being hit?! She's young and vunerable and you are taking advantage!!!
Just how old is this child your conditioning? Your not the one who needs help. If your only 19 and she's (kinda alot younger) do you hit people your own size or just those who wont fight back? How long do you think she'll play the little mouse... There will come a time when she's older and more mature when she'll see you for you really are. Stop now, put it right!!! anger managment and a woman your own age who can't be moulded. You don't hit someone you love!!! never!!!
2007-10-13 01:26:46 · answer #2 · answered by Rumpleteaser 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you a sicko or something, man whoever gave you the idea that a girl's place is to do what her man tells her which century are you from and on top of that you hit her....and she apologizes for that r you crazy or is that girl crazy i don't know, but if she is a minor then i suggest you leave her alone and find some counseling session for yourself cause you need it.
2007-10-13 01:19:34 · answer #3 · answered by wiccangirl5 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you certainly have a "devoted" g/f who sounds like she's truly in love w/you. I'm not keen on your method of "hitting" her tho. I don't advocate a man/male "hitting" a female for ANY REASON. I just think it's totally uncalled for. There are other ways to get your point across other than taking the "physical" route. Things done in kindness have a much more rewarding affect than things done in anger, especially when it comes to physical involvement. That's a BIG NO NO in my book, as I've been on the receiving end of this. There's NO reason to have to resort to physical tactics. I'm afraid if they continues, someone is going to get hurt, & God forbid it ends up something permanant happens as a result of it. You don't want her to fear you. That's not a happy relationship, it's one based on fear...
2007-10-13 10:51:26 · answer #4 · answered by Sue C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your q made me cry, that somewher in this evil world, even as I type, is a poor young thing being Incredibly abused by someone she cares for.
I was beaten black & Blue by an x, & would also apologise for upsetting him.
He Physically, Emotionally, Mentally & Sexually abused me (Yes you can rape your wife). & I took it cos I was young, neive & thought I deserved it, til I met some one special & found the confidence to kick him to the kurb.
Last thing I heard he'd started beating his new wife & was last seen committing suicide down a dark alley, assisted by his wife's brother & his mates.
I hope you recieve the same assistance one day
2007-10-15 07:39:32 · answer #5 · answered by Bubbly Blonde 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is most definitely wrong for putting up with the miserable excuse for a human being that you are.
2007-10-13 02:29:06 · answer #6 · answered by derek 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you name your self dread to hit a girl you dread
your self you are pitty full you want to go a few
rounds with a man doubt you would last 2 seconds
i hate women beaters hope too meet up with you
one day and i bet my girlfreind will knock you out
before me puppy.....
2007-10-13 01:27:09 · answer #7 · answered by S Csparky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG you need a slap yourself. Leave her alone, you big bully. I bet you can't even pick on someone your own size. Your not a man your a weasel.
2007-10-13 01:22:35 · answer #8 · answered by Honey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You belong in jail..Domestic violence is wrong immoral and illegal...maybe you need a asskicking to get the point across.
2007-10-13 01:19:19 · answer #9 · answered by Aymee L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are so wrong. You have NO RIGHT to lay your hands on her like that. What's this about "knowing her place", are you for real? Sick.
2007-10-17 00:28:39 · answer #10 · answered by Tia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need help and so does tht poor girl if you 'love' her you would never 'tell' her what to do or hit her. you would love her for who she was not who you want her to be.
2007-10-13 01:47:24 · answer #11 · answered by Star1001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋