okay...so we all went to the club like a week ago...me the guy I like, and a few of our other friends. Later that night I was freezing and he offered me his shirt & ended up wearing it home....Do you guys think I should return the shirt to his house on one of our off days or should I just bring it to work with me one day??? Remember im kinda shy but I really really like this guy!!! If I take it to his house should I try to talk about anything specificor hang out or offer to go some place???? what should I do if I do drop it off @ his house??
2007-10-12 20:24:10 · 12 answers · asked by jade_06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow...I just re-read my post & i must say, Im super ashamed!!!! Sorry for all the grammer mistakes, I typed it pretty fast and forgot to proof read :)
2007-10-12 20:33:56 · update #1
He wants the shirt back. Don't listen to Jess. Find a time to return it (not at work - avoid unnecessary embarassment) and thank him profusely for letting you wear it.
2007-10-12 20:33:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very quietly remind him at work that you still have the shirt. Ask him how he would like you to get it back to him. If he says just bring it to work...do that in a paper bag so it does not put either one of you on the spot. If he says bring it over later to his house arrange that. Don't surprise him with it...sometimes surprises ruin a pleasant memory...and ruin any possibilty of a future...be smart
2007-10-13 03:32:27 · answer #2 · answered by Thomas O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to talk to him, laugh flirt, if you have his number then call him or text chat, if you can find a way to hang out with him then talk to him more, dont mention it, wait till your having a really good time then say oh i forgot to tell you i found your sweater then laugh as if you forgotten all about it, then say well if you want its in the dryer or laundry an i can bring it by tomorrow if your free or if thats ok, then you can talk to him an ask him if he's hungry cause you are an talk maybe you guys can end up going out...
2007-10-13 03:29:52 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wash it, iron it. Wrap it neatly in tissue or a plastic bag and give it back to him at work with a package of homemade cookies. Say, "Thanks for keeping me warm." Make sure the cookies are on a plate he needs to return. Or you could just drop it by his house before lunch on Saturday and ask him to go out for coffee
2007-10-13 03:29:30 · answer #4 · answered by treebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him how he want his shirt returned. Please wash and iron it before returning (common courtesy); you'll earn an extra point. And offer him if he's up for a coffee or lunch sometime soon (you'll pay) to show your gratitude of him saving you from freezing to death. Good luck! : )
2007-10-13 03:30:32 · answer #5 · answered by vijay888 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it you silly girl. Guys like it when a girl keeps a shirt or coat of his. But only if you are for sure that he likes you too. Otherwise, just bring it the next time you see him, and say "thanks for letting me borrow the shirt, here you go".
2007-10-13 03:28:15 · answer #6 · answered by Jess 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you really like him & wish to take ur relationship to the next level then take it to his place and go with the flow rather than pre plan ur next move
all the best
2007-10-13 03:31:47 · answer #7 · answered by ravi d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should give it back to him and that way you can talk again Its like hitting two birds in one stone. but just act naturally ok..
2007-10-13 03:27:51 · answer #8 · answered by ApCyuMz_05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he shold go to ur house pretend u forgot about it and just say thanks or some people keep them and give them back when they break up but you're not going out with him yet but is kinda' similar
2007-10-13 03:29:17 · answer #9 · answered by asker? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont give too much thought about it and just be casual about it. tell him that you want to give back his shirt and if he wants to hang out with you while you give it to him, then go...
2007-10-13 03:37:24 · answer #10 · answered by brazenlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋