Singles & Dating - 16 October 2007

ok he is a catholic and I am a jehovah witness, but i really do love him and i want to be with him but my religion requirement is to marry someone in my religion, and its so hard to let him him go cause he love me for me no matter what, he is even willing to have a personal study with a sevant of jehovah witness to be with me. so i kinda dumped him today because of my religion, but then he cried his heart to me and told me he wants to be with me and said he would do anything to be with me. so what do you think we should do about this relationship?

2007-10-16 14:30:40 · 15 answers · asked by ? 1

Okay... well, my boyfriend and I.. we've been perfect for the past few months now.. and just like yesterday he starts to avoid me and not talk to me. I've tried talking to him, texting him, calling him everything. He won't talk to me. I haven't done anything, absolutely nothing that could've upset him. I really don't know what to do. I've tried having my friends talk to him too. None of it works. He just ignores my calls and everything. I absolutely love him to death and don't know why he's treating me this way.......... Help please..

2007-10-16 14:30:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Which one, and why?

2007-10-16 14:30:17 · 10 answers · asked by <3 2

It seems like I'm judged as boring, nice, safe right from the beginning. Women, I have come to understand, don't take much time to get to know a man. The man has to be instant entertainment, and move quick, or she may lose interest. I'm just not that way. I'm cautious. The extent of my flirting is talking with a girl. I'm not all hard up for sex (most of the time). I am really nice. I don't like conflict (but will defend myself if pushed). I think highly of myself. I'm great looking (no arrogance intended). I have high expectations, and strong dreams. I play piano and sing. I feel that I'm particularly a good catch, except for maybe my present living situation, which will change. I'm not here to impress anyone, nor grovel at a beautiful girl's feet. I'm looking for mutual attraction, and a sweet, affection, long-term relationship.

2007-10-16 14:28:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please read this before making snap judgments.

My best friend, her boyfriend, my boyfriend, and I used to go on countless double dates.

Ever since my boyfriend and I broke up, nothing has changed and I'm now a third wheel for my best friend and her boyfriend.

Lately I've had some strong feelings for her boyfriend.
He's pretty much one of my best friends, too.

Now, I avoid them so I don't have to see their PDA and because I feel terrible about it.

I don't know what to do.

I've tried everything from avoiding him to going out with someone else to replace him.

The feelings just won't go away.

What would you do?

It's so hard when they talks to me about her problems with him, or how much she loves him, or vice versa.

I just don't know what to do anymore.

2007-10-16 14:26:05 · 7 answers · asked by anon 4

I got told that I should do this but I only got one answer. Make a long story short: I am a senior in college, chicks run away from me, that is they dont want to talk to me or be friends with me. i shower twice a day, use deodorant and keep myself in shape, but they im digustingly ugly. so here is a photo of me:

http://img339.imageshack.us/img339/817/img1685jj4.jpg

do i need to get plastic surgery or what?

2007-10-16 14:25:30 · 31 answers · asked by djmixah7 3

I was asked to homecoming by one of my friendsfrom another school. The dance came and went and i had a great time and he said he had fun as well.
well i was looking at his myspace [cuz he updated it] and he was talking to the girl about how he was bored at the dance becuase i was "follow-ish". idk here's what he wrote her
"but yea.
not many people knew bout her.
and yea, homecomin kinda sucked.
like, the day was fun, but the dance was boring.
my date was so..follow-ish..if you get what i mean...?
like, i like her and all, but i felt bad cause i kinda wanted to hangout with my friends, and like, when people like you saw me and said hi and gave me a hug, i really didnt mind, cause you guys are cool, but like i kinda felt bad for my date.
if you know what i mean."
i mean i dont get it. like he said he had fun. and then he said that. i mean it wasnt my school so i only knew a few people and so i guess i was followish. i havent talked to him really since my friend just died.

2007-10-16 14:25:21 · 1 answers · asked by Emilee O 2

i have been with him for 3 years...I love him and I know he loves me...we have gone through alot and have stayed together when people around us have done everything they could to tear us apart...He is a wonderful person and I want to stay the rest of my life with him and he wants to be with me for the rest of his life...
my only concern is that my mother doesn't like him...she has no actual reasons...I was thinking of moving out and then letting her know because I know that if I tell her in advanced she will do everything in her power to make me stay...I know she is my mother and I respect her concern but I would like to make my own desicions and I would like for her to understand and see what I see...how wonderful my boyfriend is...

2007-10-16 14:24:56 · 7 answers · asked by Gordita de Oro 4

not what you do after but what you do on the date?

2007-10-16 14:24:19 · 19 answers · asked by Atotalcutie 3

My friend and I have a crush on the same guy. But I know this guy inside and out, as well as he knows me inside and out. But my friend has a crush (only smaller) on the same guy. I have a class with him every day + lunch and she has a different class with him + lunch too. I take violin classes together and we're playing at the Fiddling Festival together. But I'm afraid that even though he's my good friend, my friend might take him away. He seems to be flirting with both of us a lot, and doing strange things like waiting for me at the door at the violin classes, and then doing weird and random things to my friend. I'm so confused. My friend already has another crush on a different guy, so she's pretty much all set for guys. But how do I catch this guy's attention, without the direct approach (will you go out with me; i like you) ? I need help, now!

2007-10-16 14:23:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Have you ever had predictable sex with a significant other?
I mean a sex life where you knew exactly what he or she would do next to get you to sleep with them. What did you do to change the predictability? Or did you?

I like spontaneity where I have no idea what is going to happen. It makes the day/night more exciting. Something new, something fresh, you know?

2007-10-16 14:22:16 · 4 answers · asked by no 3

ok. my friends want me to meet this guy that lives like behind me in a circle (his name is bruce), they say he is really cute and my friend has really good taste. anyway, im really shy sooo wat should i do?? i dont want to be awkward or anything...were the same age. i really want to talk to him online first. but guys, what should i do!!??

2007-10-16 14:21:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-16 14:20:40 · 7 answers · asked by Jess 1

Ok i have another question,
Well for the last question i posted up this girl said i was Crazy or whatever. well anways
This guy i met @ my school won`t leave me alone.
Yeah i used to like him alot
But then it just went away!
I want him to stop calling me and just leave me alone
But i`m afraid too because i don`t want to hurt him.
What should i do?! To make it sound not so bad about it?
Please no rude comments!

2007-10-16 14:18:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i had this mexican girlfriend a few yrs back and we dated for 6 months and not sex in that time. she's catholic and her brother told me i dated her only b/c white guys only date mexican females for sex. her brother didnt like me

2007-10-16 14:18:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean i love her with my whole heart. But i mean i hate that she has been with other dudes. i mean i have been wit other woman. but sheesh. what should i do not to worry.

2007-10-16 14:17:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Will you be my boyfriend?

2007-10-16 14:14:33 · 21 answers · asked by mabekah m 2

I got a new job and met a guy. He seemed into me; asked me for my number, said I was pretty and called me that same night and we talked until 3am. That's how it started. Off and on we text each other and at first, it was him more than me, and I liked the attention.
Then, he said I got clingy, which i can't really deny. We had only one official date before it turned into what seemed like straight booty calls. I kind of got the idea, but everytime i would stop talking to him, he'd say he missed me or something like that and made me think, O, maybe he's not just a booty call. I'd fall for it everytime too.
Then I quit my job to look for a better job and higher pay. 4 days after i quit, I came back to talk to someone about a new position that opened. Apparently, the guy i hooked up with told this girl we slept together 4x (it was 2) and i quit because of him, and I was too clingy. Why would he just tell someone that? should i confront him? get even? still be friends? I'm mad...

2007-10-16 14:13:40 · 4 answers · asked by Jane D. 2

2007-10-16 14:13:08 · 26 answers · asked by James the Just 3

if you like a girl what do u do to make sure she knows you like her?

2007-10-16 14:04:05 · 8 answers · asked by Atotalcutie 3

I'm having a first date with someone tomorrow. We're meeting for the first time over lunch. He invited and chose the place and time. What should I do or not do when the check arrives? I want things to go smoothly. PLEASE HELP.

2007-10-16 13:59:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i know everyone is first attracted to someone by their looks.
but if you get to know someone, and you really like them, but they're not good-looking...
will you not be with them?
there is absolutely no reason behind this question.
just curious.
i want to see if you will be honest or not.

2007-10-16 13:56:51 · 5 answers · asked by Jenny Jean 2

this guy and i have been friends on and off all throughout high school. we graduated. during high school though, we had a close relationship but the closest we got to being physical is hugging. we liked each other at one point but it fell through. we reconnected (after not talking for two years) a couple of months ago. i went to a college far away and he stayed at home. he has a gf. but tonight we talked and we said we loved one another. i love him not as if i want to be with him but just...idk. neither one of us could explain it. comments?

2007-10-16 13:50:45 · 10 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1

there is this girl i met while working at my old summer job a year and half ago. i never thought we would talk outside of work. We have hunged out, we have gone to parties. we have watched movies alone, she came to my soccer games. she gets upset if we cannot hang out or somethin comes up when if she cannot hang out with me. Last year she came to my formal as my date. she had a lot of fun. she is in college herself. she always takes off of work whenever i come up to visit her, and after work she will hang out with me while im there. she was pissed this summer that we didnt get a chance to hang out a lot like she wanted us to. whenever she is upset or has a problem she would call me. we talk whenever were on aim all the time. we both have recently talked about startin to date. I would like to date her and make her my gf. does she like me? what should i do? what should i say to her?

2007-10-16 13:49:19 · 15 answers · asked by tbg1982 1

If a girl is freaky in bed, in spite of being previously a virgin, and is up for experimenting, being dirty, sending dirty texts, will you not take her seriously, even if she makes you laugh, carries a decent conversation, reads the newspaper, and has a life that revolves around something other than your cock...?

Thanks! Advice is always great, I love you guys!!!

2007-10-16 13:47:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

so i have the biggest crush on this guy from my college. we're friends with benefits (minus sex) but i like him so much more. like today we had a class together and afterwards we went to lunch together and then back to his place where we just took a nap together. we didn't kiss or do anything sexual...we just held each other. he kept asking me what i was thinking about but i obviously couldn't tell him but i've told him how much i like him a bunch of times. and everytime i see him i get "butterflies". how lame is that, lol. but he says he doesn't want a serious relationship right now but i want to fight it. it's so frustrating. advice? comments?

2007-10-16 13:47:01 · 2 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1

I'm going to have a first date with someone I've just met very recently, but who could be someone I'd want to have a stable long-term relationship with. As such, I want to take things slow, meaning I want to delay the intimacy as long as possible so we can really get to know whether we're otherwise compatible first. Any tips on the best way to do that while keeping him interested?

2007-10-16 13:41:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-16 13:40:33 · 16 answers · asked by Mario11 2

i asked him if he was dating another person. he said no. but now im thinking about dating another man myself. should i update him about it? i really like him but like he said we are just dating and i want to know whats out there. any thoughts?

2007-10-16 13:39:49 · 31 answers · asked by chloë 2

There is a guy that I am kind of into. Not exactly sure though because I don't know him well enough. He seems like he is interested also though because when I am around him he acts all nervous and I see him lookin at me a lot and there are some other things also. But anyways the other day he was walking with my friend and was askin him if i liked him and my friend said yes.Then he saw me at my locker and told my friend to put his arm around him to try and make me weirded out that he seemed pretty tight with my friend. and according to my friend he got all self concious and nervous in the process (and from my point of view he looked pretty moronic) afterwards my friend asked him if he was into me also, after his little display of "coolness" and he said not really. Then today after that happend he didnt look at me at all and even moved his seat so that his back was to me instead of facing me in a class that we have together...???? I do not understand this AT ALL...

2007-10-16 13:30:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous