Singles & Dating - 16 October 2007

so's here's the deal. my bf watches porn a lot. i've never given him a problem about it, because i just don't treat it like its a big deal.
HOWEVER, i'm starting to feel disgusted by it.... i feel like in our intimate moments that its not really love making, but i feel like i'm in some porn movie.. don't get me wrong i don't have a problem with my sexuality or anything
but i don't want to feel like i'm in a porn everytime, b/c porn is about getting off and not making love..
i have made some comments, but i feel like he's watched it so much, that he doesn't know there's a difference. i've tried to tell him.
has anybody else experienced this?
any suggestions?

2007-10-16 17:56:27 · 15 answers · asked by saraJ 4

What do most men look for in a lady

2007-10-16 17:56:26 · 18 answers · asked by BB 2

2007-10-16 17:53:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, there is this girl I like, but I have only talked to her a few times, every time I talk to her, I make her laugh. I need tips on how to start a good conversation that will give her signs that I like her.

2007-10-16 17:49:35 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

am a girl of 20yrs old! i have being having couple of relationships..bt non of them has worked! i loose ma appetite over guys 4 only a month or two..please help me know what 2 do 2 be stable on one guy..i really loose ma temper easly n end up breaking up with them! am ready 2 do all it takes 2 keep the next guy who comes ma way!

2007-10-16 17:34:48 · 19 answers · asked by lizzo 1

How do you know if a man really loves you are just needs you around to clean his house,care for his kid,and sex?

2007-10-16 17:33:25 · 5 answers · asked by amscrystal76 2

She is a scary looking girl and she called my boyfriend saying she's gonna fight me. I'm really scared of this girl. So what should I do to make this girl not fight me?

2007-10-16 17:27:12 · 17 answers · asked by Aimee 3

2007-10-16 17:23:29 · 13 answers · asked by Your Mom 6

I know, I know, Not a good idea but I wanna have fun. I need to get out ...

2007-10-16 17:22:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do girls look for in a guy? Do I need to be tough, nice, tall, short, have a big one, cute, ugly, active, etc. what?

2007-10-16 17:22:10 · 19 answers · asked by Jose Antonio 1

2007-10-16 17:17:22 · 7 answers · asked by Your Mom 6

One of my online friends that I dumped, IM me pretending to be someone else just so he can still talk to me.

2007-10-16 17:12:23 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy I used to know and kinda liked started sending me text msgs out of the blue, we been talking back and forth. and then he asked "if I ever wanted to date him." And "I said not really," then i asked if he wanted to date and he never responded. does this mean i ruined my chances with him? i only wanted to be friends but now i don't know what he wants.

2007-10-16 17:10:58 · 7 answers · asked by PlainJane 4

What are the chances?

ps: Am talking mature love here.

2007-10-16 17:05:04 · 8 answers · asked by ? 6

any specific websites other than tagged ..
or any other places.

2007-10-16 16:59:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and i have been dating for 5 months now and i really care about him alot... We see eachother every other day and on weekends... I have notice that when im away from him for even a day i miss him so much ...The smell of him , his touch , his kisses and the way he makes me feel ... I ask myself why do i feel this way so soon about him... There times for no reason i wanna call or text him and tell him i love him ... Whats up with me ????????? Is this normal...?

2007-10-16 16:55:13 · 22 answers · asked by L♥VIN LIFE 1

my girlfriend and i have talked about taking our realtionship to the next level- being more intimate- touching-- stuff like that

we are both okay with it, we both want it

so if i know this, how come i still get shy or embarrased when im tryiong to make a move?

before any of you say it, i will just admit it that yes, i am pretty unexpirienced. i think im just nervouse that i;ll do somehting wrong, or i wont do it right or something

what will make me not be so shy and just go for the moves? we both want it,k so whats holding me back?

2007-10-16 16:52:32 · 11 answers · asked by edger 1

well.. serious or funny.. whichever floats your boat.. and hopefully mines

2007-10-16 16:51:42 · 27 answers · asked by RjunN 1

i have a brand new bf!!!!!how can i make him crazy for me (like wat to say or wat to do?)

2007-10-16 16:47:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am a 15 year old guy, and am in grade 10. I dont know why girls dont really like me, more than friends, or come up and talk to me. I am fairly good looking, 6 feet tall, 170 pounds, muscular, short brown curly hair, blue eyes, fasionable, and i play on the school football team. I am shy, but not really shy, i talk to guys and girls. I just dont know why girls dont like me, or atleast i think they dont, they dont come and talk to me or anything. what should i do?

2007-10-16 16:38:57 · 34 answers · asked by sports_fan16 1

I'm reallllllly into this guy. We've been dating for just over a month now, but haven't really done much other than making out because we always go out on dates to shows or whatnot so we're always in public and then we just kiss in the car. (by the way i'm 20 and he's 24)

this week (i only get to see him once a week... our lives are so crazy) he suggested i stay the night at his place. Ha... well this also means sex (I know, I know, not if I don't want to, but I do!), but this is in bad timing as I'l be getting my period!

I'm afraid of staining his bed or something... and obviously screwing up all the build-up to sex. So what, do I let him kiss me and get all riled up and then tell him we can't have sex because of my period?

What should I do/what are you thoughts?
thanks!

2007-10-16 16:30:53 · 21 answers · asked by Cat K 1

skinny and tall, skinny and short, fat and short, or fat and tall

2007-10-16 16:30:40 · 14 answers · asked by ^_^ 4

Shes one of my best friends and recently she asked me to move in with her. I dont think i should because i dont want people to get the wrong impression. What should I do? How should I handle this???

2007-10-16 16:28:56 · 2 answers · asked by Nina L 1

There is this really cute boy in my class. I am very shy and I don't know how to approach him to talk. Sometimes he sits next to me and other times he does not. What do I do? Help please?

2007-10-16 16:26:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend is always talking killing himself.i cant take it anymore . he makes me cry so much at night not becausse of the whole killing thing.his the only boy i ever like alot but now every time we talk he thinks about killing himself or he gets hurt. im only 12 years old i have school and test to do an pass and i dont think my brain is on work. samething happened last year. should i break up with him or stay .

2007-10-16 16:22:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-16 16:21:21 · 3 answers · asked by christina 2

There's this guy from my school, who always talks to me when I go online, so we're kindda friends now. But it's weird, cuz well talk about who he thinks is the cutest girl, and like about his past girlfriends... Maybe he just says that cuz he wants me to think he has a life, but here's the weird thing, he tells me I'm pretty all the time, and when I see him he plays with my hair, and hugs me and stuff. But once, for no reason whatsoever, he spontainiously came up to me and said, "I don't like you, like you," wtf?? does he like me.. or not?? How important can it be that he says im pretty?? Do you think he really means I'm pretty or is he just trying to be friendly??

2007-10-16 16:21:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hello I am 13 years old and I am kind of a goofy girl! I like to have fun and focus on boys... I am trying to become more reserved and descret, and focus on studies. I can not modivate myself to change though. I really don't like who I am now... Let me give you some examples of what I do now and what I would like to do.
1. I mess around in school
2. I kind of slack around with responibilities I have
2. I am very loud and kinda weirs
I would like to be like this
1. Shy, and discreet
2. Reserved and quite
3. Respectful and organized
4. Understand how to respect my body
I know this sounds weird but I did not know what else to do... Please help me! Give me tips anything!

2007-10-16 16:20:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is a nine year age difference between myself and my friend's kid (me in my 30's, him in his 20's). We have hooked up a couple of times, unintentionally of course, and for some reason there is this awkwardness between us. I'm way over it, but I feel our past excursions has affected us. He won't talk to me unless he has to, and he'll hang out with me and his mom if he has to. I just feel he doesn't really like me, and his politeness and friendship with me feels so forced just to keep the peace between us. His mom does know we have hooked up, but she really doesn't care.

I just want this weirdness between us to be over. It wasn't always like this, and I miss the way things were. He was more flirtatious and friendly with me before, but now everything he does seems so fake. I don't know how to get passed this because it really bothers me. I enjoy his friendship but I think my poor judgments has taken its toll on our friendship. What do I do guys?

2007-10-16 16:16:48 · 1 answers · asked by yayaquack 4

never done it.
never witnessed it happening to me.
i want to break up with my first boyfriendddd.
when you're talking to him, should you first say "i want to break up" and then explain your reasons or explain your reaosns and then say "so i want to break up".

i know its a pointless question but i wanna make it as smooth as possible =/

2007-10-16 16:13:49 · 6 answers · asked by :) 3