Singles & Dating - 16 October 2007

ive came down to a very hard decision, i need to break up with my current boyfriend. he is very demanding and he dosnt understand that the way i was brought up is why i do the things i do too him. like i cheated on him a month ago, i felt guilty and told him, and now he BRINGS IT UP EVERYDAY. AND DOSENT DROP IT. HE CALLS ME A SLUT, A WHORE, A HOE, AND WHEN WE ARGUE HE GETS MAD AT ME AND TELLS ME TO GO **** MY EX AGAIN. HE ALSO TELLS ME TO **** OFF. and it really hurts and he knows it. and he gets mad over myspace, like, i comment a few guys's pictures and he flippes out on me and assumes im going to cheat on him.... :( i love him soo much, and i deeply regrett cheating. but he cant get over it. i cant make him see it was a mistake and im truly sorry... he's still with me. but i think i need to end it soon. any ideas on how i should?

2007-10-16 04:40:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've heard of a few bands who pulled it off; specifically Paramore.
But, we've never had any complications when it comes to fighting, and we're all reasonable people. I mean, I just want to know how to comprimise with him so that when we break up, it won't be on bad terms - for the band's sake.

2007-10-16 04:40:08 · 3 answers · asked by Pixie 4

I have posted some things bout this before but I really need some help on this one, my girlfriend of 5 years cheated on me and I am not sure what to do. She wants me to forgive her and she has been acting like nothing happend, I try and talkt o her and find out what happend or why we went down that path to begin with and she doesnt want to talk about it. Eveyone tells me that once a cheat always a cheat but I love her so much and I feel that if I leave her that I will still be hurting her and that hurts me. Now I have another problem after all this happend I met another girl through work who lives in another state and she is starting to take a liking to me in fact she wants to fly out and see me, she doesnt know that me and my girlfriend are still together and I dont want to upset her either, I dont want to tell her to get lost becuase I amnot sure if I shoudl leave my girlfriend or not I know this is kinda stupid hearing this from a "guy" but I am so confused HELP me before I loose it

2007-10-16 04:36:24 · 48 answers · asked by Zues 1

I mean average height, build, weight, black hair, brown eyes, etc. It seems like all girls are interested in above average so what do all the other average guys do?

2007-10-16 04:34:27 · 21 answers · asked by terminallyalone2007 1

sweeping her off of her feet ;o)

2007-10-16 04:33:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you are dating, just dating and having fun seeing where it goes ?

what does that mean in guys terms?

Also, just dating should I be just dating other guys too to help see which I want..

2007-10-16 04:32:59 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

last night for some unknown reason, i brought up my boyfriend's dad. it has been bugging me for awhile, i heard from my dad that his dad cheated on his mom. i asked him about it and he is furious. he wants to know who told me and who is spreading rumors about his dad... i won't tell him who it is because i know something like that could kill us. what can i do to save this??

2007-10-16 04:31:46 · 27 answers · asked by Noodle 2

I'm not trying to be perverted here but many times when I go to the club and I dance with women (grinding ) I get an erection which is quite embarrassing. Is there a way to prevent this?

Note: Thinking of baseball doesn't work.

2007-10-16 04:28:16 · 9 answers · asked by Dolce Vita 1

lastnight me and my bf were talking about our relationship in the car and it was time for me to go inside, so i got out of the car and asked him to lean over and give me a hug, well, i didnt realize he was going to put his hands down the back of my pants and i wasnt thinking, so i immediatly slapped the side of his face with my hand.....

he got sooo pissed and said **** you. i kept apologizing to him because i felt bad, but he still said he didnt want to talk and that ii should just go inside.

i feel horrible :( what should i do? he's still mad i did that.
even though it was just a reaction i had.

2007-10-16 04:21:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

If someone is going to ask u out but u don't want to go out w/ them bcuz if u broke u it porb would ruin your friendship what is the best way to let the person down??

2007-10-16 04:21:17 · 4 answers · asked by Blondie 2

I flicked my hair when I walked past this guy who is 2 years older than me in school to try and get his attention and he just stared at me for about 5 seconds like he was thinking about something and then he said "do your tie up a bit there" and he did my tie up for me.
Why did he do this?
Does it mean anything?

2007-10-16 04:21:16 · 3 answers · asked by IloveNewYork 1

2007-10-16 04:20:29 · 8 answers · asked by Allan H 1

Is flirting cheating? we are not married but have been dating for 5 years. all his friends do know that we been dating for 5 years. but stilll all his friends who are girls seems to be alittle touchy touchy. i know this becausse my bf invited me to his party. is hugging flirting? I'm very koreanized so hugging is very no-no in korean tradition but my bf was born here so he is more of twinkie... (more americanized). Can friends hug? can they touch? is flirting cheating?

my bf think flirting is not cheating because he confesses that he been dating me for 5 years. he just plays along with his friends and says that when they touch him, he claims its a friendly touch.

2007-10-16 04:17:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-16 04:17:01 · 30 answers · asked by chan 1

I really care about him, he's a wonderful person, and I'm ready to take it to the next step. Problem is, he doesn't know that I know about him being bisexual, and will he cheat? Will he always have that urge to be with a man on occassion? I don't have very much experience with things like this. I've never dated anyone bisexual, so I don't know what to expect. What are your opinions on the subject?

Thank you!

2007-10-16 04:09:52 · 39 answers · asked by ldybglv1986 1

I work as a waitress in a restaurant at the state fair. One of the waiters there keeps making suggestive remarks to me. I'm 20, he's probably around 50. He'll say he loves me, or that he wants to marry me and get me pregnant so I can have his babies. Any time I'm standing alone waiting for customers to come in, he'll come up behind me and rub my shoulders, or put his arm around me. When he leaves, he half-hugs me. I've already tried asking him to please stop touching me. I'm in a committed relationship with my current boyfriend, but he's out of town visiting family right now and won't be back until the fair is over, so he can't come ask the guy to stop too. It's getting worse every day, and today is my fourth shift there and I am really dreading going in. I know he'll be there. I feel bad though, because he's worked there for longer than I have and I think they'll take his word over mine... plus he needs the money more than I do, it's a second job for me.. I don't know, help please!

2007-10-16 04:07:57 · 6 answers · asked by peroxidekween 4

Why are you in a relationship w/ that person?
What made you settle down w/ that person?
What does that person do to make you want to stay w/ them?
What did that person do to even make you want to consider them over anyone else?
I'm just asking for fun, no worries!

2007-10-16 03:58:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have this guy friend who i have known since jr. high. And we have always been close friends....we even tried being friends with benefits before....well now he is single, and i really wanted to ask him what he thought about us trying to date...to see what it would be and where it would go, but i don't know what to do or how to approach him!!! He and I are reallllllllllll close and i don't want to mess up our friendship.

P.s. He and I can talk about anything...literally anything!!! Should I be brave and take that leap, or just stand back and let it be?

2007-10-16 03:51:44 · 4 answers · asked by Brandi Rae 1

2007-10-16 03:46:55 · 14 answers · asked by nolongerhere 4

i know he can't leave his wife even he didn't loves her.maybe he never loves me also.but i love him.i feel painful.i trying to forget future just be happy with him.but he always remind me we can't be together finally.how should i do?i am afraid about lost him.

2007-10-16 03:46:34 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got a date with this girl that I did like but not until people were telling me that she said we were going out. She has almost every feature I want when it comes to a girl but I heard she's kinda flirtatious. The only problem with going with her is that I already have my eye on someone else and I think it will mess up everything I have worked for to get to talk to her. I think I like this other girl more and I'm pretty sure she likes me 2 but I dont just wanna ask her out until I'm 100% sure.
I know the other girl is nice and fun they both are but I can't decide. What would the right thing to do be???

2007-10-16 03:32:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Everyone says that my boyfriend of nearly two years, & I are in the "perfect relationship," & we almost are. We have one major flaw, however, & that is we give each other grief over our past interests. I didn't date mine so much as I was in "underfined" (my choice). My past two lasted 6 months, & the other two and a half years. He dated a couple of the ones we talk about. Well, last night he says something snide about one of my past interests (he swears that he isn't jealous because he's with me, & they're not, but he loathes them with a passion). I admit most of my guys were arrogant, which was their ultimate downfall, but his naivete caused him to find out that one of his past interests was a drunk, drug addicted whore. The reasons I snipe about them is: he mocks my past interest and my taste for choosing them, & I think he's worth so much more yet let himself and others sell him short, & he admitted that he used to aim low, thinking that's all that he deserved. Well, he claims that

2007-10-16 03:30:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here is a little back story. I meet this girl at the casino, I didnt even talk to her i just wrote my name and number on a bingo card with the ink dabber. Walked up and set it in front of her, and walked away. 2 hours later i got a text message from her. She thought it was really cute what i did. We talked a little that night, last wednesday. We talked some friday. I asked if she had any plans that night. She said she was busy. So i told her to call me when she wasnt busy. she replied to that with "maybe I will :)". Then last night we talked about what we did over the weekend. Nothing big. So what should be my next move?

2007-10-16 03:29:42 · 5 answers · asked by Jon G 7

Hi

I have been dating two sisters, very beatiful, but very annoying, as i cant have time for myself, i date them together, as thing is it started out they both like dme, and i kinda took advantage of it, there young 18/ 23, one is very slim and cute, the other is gorgeous, built and has fine features, both blond.

I kinda want to end it, as i need my own space, but then having threesomes will come to an end.

I have dated them for 3 months, and i am scared i might get them preganant, as at times things get outa of hand.

Not much conversation takes place between us, more sex than anything, however i am getting tired as well, as i sometimes cant get up from bed i sleep so much.

how do i get my pgusycial strength and settle down with one woman and stop the bachelor life, thats the question i suppose?

by the way i dont smoke or hardley drik, so i do take of my body, but the girls are killing me .

Thanks for listening

2007-10-16 03:27:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

that's what i am doing right now. he said he was going to come home tonight (he spends 2 1/2 days at school every week) but he isn't because something school-related came up. i am tired of not being prioritized! i know school is important, but time and time again! i am important too!

i need techniques to help me not pick a fight

2007-10-16 03:18:58 · 6 answers · asked by mary tyler moo 3

Im 18. Im in college.There's this girl in my class.She's hot. She stares at me.While having an exam,and after she's done with the paper..She'll just stare. Sometimes,I just freak out.I look away. She'll continue to stare even when I catch her staring. She stares a lot.And also, If you don't like someone, will you keep staring at him/her? or you will just look away when you see him/her? (implying to the girl) could she stare because she hates me?
Its an intense stare. not smiling, but not frowning or scowling either. just normal facial gestures.But she doesn't stop staring,she continues. Why me? could she hate me or something? and no,I check there's nothing wrong with my face or anything. So why the heck is she staring? She stares straight in my eyes. Could it be an intense stare? Girls & guys would you stare at someone at a far away distance becuase you think they're so ugly. She gives me a lot of eye contact,but I look away.So,does she stare because she thinks that I'm ugly.She gives me a lot of eye contact,but I look away.So,does she stare because she thinks that I'm ugly. When she's near she wont look my way
4 days back,she was still staring.I ignored her. After a while,she stopped staring at me. Her friends stare and smile at me too.WHY???DOES SHE HATE OR LIKE ME???She stares at me everyday without fail
Out sitting arrangement has change,so today I was sitting beside her,and she stares but not as much as last time. She stares secretly. I dont know why but yeah
14 minutes ago

Im a girl btw,and she stares without frowning or any facial gesture.
SHE STARES EVERYDAY,AND I MEAN EVERYDAY..

2007-10-16 03:08:22 · 20 answers · asked by samantha g 1

but i say dust comes from a lot of things! help! who is right? please settle this 2 hour conversation we had about dust!

2007-10-16 03:06:01 · 16 answers · asked by Giggle Bear 3

please help me out

2007-10-16 03:02:11 · 19 answers · asked by shefalisharma_1992 1

Our anniversary is on october 1st and I dont know what to do. This will only be our 1 month anniversary but i've known her for a really long time and i want to do something really special.

2007-10-16 03:01:23 · 2 answers · asked by Luis Q 1

do you get turned on by the idea of another man being with your woman? would you want to watch? i have the fantasy about my bf being with another girl while i watch and it drives me crazy! but in reality i think i would be really jealous. does anyone else have these fantasies??

2007-10-16 02:59:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous