If you are in a monogomous relationship?

Question

Why are you in a relationship w/ that person?
What made you settle down w/ that person?
What does that person do to make you want to stay w/ them?
What did that person do to even make you want to consider them over anyone else?
I'm just asking for fun, no worries!

Funny how women always know how to answer these types of questions

Answer 1

First things first- I fell in love with him. Just thought I'd cross that bridge before moving on....

Our relationship moved really fast, but he became my dearest friend not long after we met. I could (and still can) tell him anything. I've always felt comfortable enough around him to do all the things that a lot of people are afraid to do while in the company of their partners: Fart, burp, scratch my a*s... LOL... It doesn't matter. He doesn't care, and I don't either. I can lick my plate in a restaurant, and he doesn't get embarrassed. HEE! HEE! We are buddies. Sometimes I'm like "one of the guys" with him, and sometimes he's like "one of the girls" with me (at least as much as his male ego will allow, LOL).

We can be completely open with each other without having to fear that either of us is going to strike a "cultural or racial nerve" (if you know what I mean). We can talk about whatever, listen to whatever, watch whatever- It doesn't matter to him... He isn't going to be pressed. For that matter, ANYONE can be open with him without fearing that he will be offended (unless it's obvious that they intended to offend).

He's the most individualistic person I've ever met. He isn't oblivious to the state of things, but he isn't sensitive. And he never loses sight of his belief that individuals matter more than groups. Sometimes I'll get a bit worked up about something race related (or whatever), and he'll say, "Damn, Kitten... I know, but calm down. Don't give people power over your emotions." And then he'll jokingly say, "And, besides, you're giving me a f*cking headache." LOL

He's so awesome. He's down-to-earth. And he's one of the hardest workers I've ever met. He will do absolutely anything to improve himself and our life together. He worked hour after hour after hour while homeless and hungry with no cozy place to lay his head. His parents kicked him to the curb when he was really young. He decided that he would do all he could do to rise above the street life, and he struggled until he overcame it all. I was with him through some of it. There were MANY nights that he tried his damnedest to make me go home to my grandmother (whom I was living with at the time). But I wouldn't do it. I knew he was a good man who had been dealt an unfair hand, and I wanted with every bit of my heart and soul to see him through it. And, through it all, he never blamed anyone: not the system, not white people (I only mention that because so many people generalize black people as blaming whites for every hardship.), and not even his parents who had tossed him out on his a*s.

He works his butt off and always tells me that work is an option for me- that I could either do it or not- that he doesn't care as long as I'm doing what I choose. And he's always had that attitude. He just came home approximately 20 minutes ago. (It's now almost 11:30pm here.) He went to work for his employer at 5am. He got off at 3pm and went to complete a landscaping contract that he's been working on for a few days. And, then, he went to another gig (a business that he has under a janitorial contract).

My parents love him and can't get enough of him. Sometimes I joke with them by saying that I'm going to drop his behind off at their house since they like him so much. LOL! Sometimes I joke like that in hubby's presence, and then he'll respond by saying something like, "Naaa, moms and pops don't want no n*gga around them." (Jokingly, of course.) And, OH MY, my parents get so worked up by that! They get all in his mess about the "n word". No matter how harmless he says his use of it is, they always tell him, "Look, Keith... It's rooted in degradation, and we don't want to hear you refer to yourself in that manner." And he lovingly chides, "Ok, moms and pops.... Whatever you say. I appreciate that." He loves them as much as they love him. He's been cutting their grass, tending to their trees, and taking care of their pool for more than five years and has been helping my dad out with various tasks for even longer.

I can't come remotely close to listing all the reasons why I chose my husband and why I choose to remain with him. He's a wonderful person who I can't help but to love. I'm completely helpless.... I couldn't allow my heart to venture elsewhere if I tried with all my might. He's my best friend, my companion, the greatest lover I've ever had, my confidant, my world.

Answer 2

1. Because when I met this man I knew right away that he was the one for all eternity.
2. First and foremost we were best friends for 5 years.
3. He is the kindest man I have ever known, even after 18 years. He is my best friend still to this day, we can talk about anything. He is a wonderful father, and stepfather. He understands me more than anyone else could. He loves me beyond belief, because I love him the same. I trust him with all my heart and soul, he is my heart and soul. I could go on and on, I think you get the picture. Do we have fights, you betcha, thank goodness, what a boring life it would be if we got along all the time. Since the first time we made love, it was fantastic, I was in shock, he cared and still does about what I wanted in a sexual relationship. It works both ways, because he took the time to care, how great is that.
4. His friendship, his kindness, his respect for me, the way that he wanted me, the way his legs looked, the happiness I felt when I would see him, the way his face would light up when he would see me, the ability to talk to him like no other, his unconditional acceptance of me, his support of myself and at that time stepchildren, his ability to accept a package deal, not just me, but 2 children as well, hey just everything about him. He was the One and still his. Thank God we found each other, I could never imagine life without my husband.

Hey you asked!

Answer 3

I am married to my wife because after running around with a bunch of different women doing the single thing, she is the only one i met that was wife material and was a very good person , in other words, she wasn't out in the streets all the time or clubbing. She was home taking care of her kids, working, paying bills and doing what she had to do. Most of the other women I met, wanted to party , have sex with different guys all the time , not take care of responsibilities, tried to be hood rich instead of stable, be in the club, smoke weed, sell and /or smoke crack, and lots of other bad stuff, lol so when i found a good woman, i kept her. As far as keeping me, she could do some things a little differently (sometimes our sex life could be a lot better) but i won't leave her over that, but it could tempt me to step out on her ,but i probably wont do that either.

Answer 4

I met my hubby, and he was very shy, but the looks he gave me,sent fantastic chills up and down my body. He is a gentleman that has taken his time to make sure I am well pleased, he takes care of business, and I do not even try to look at anyone else. I have found a soulmate, and a life partner.

Answer 5

i can tell her anything she is the only person who knows the real me she understands me when other people dont
because i love her she loves me plus she is everything i wanted in a woman from the personility to the looks
she loves me for who i am the good parts and the bad parts she is there for me when times get tough she is my other part i wouldnt be whole without her
she said she wanted to marry me and start a family together

Answer 6

I'm in a monogamous dating with a person who was once married to a girl. Even although he was once as soon as bisexual he's now homosexual. I'm definite they are going to be devoted to you in the event that they real love you.

Answer 7

She knows and understands me.
She love me, and I love her.
She loves every part of me... the good along with the bad.
Great sex... incredible sex.
We want to experience the world together, and make it ours.