Until you are serious with a specific individual, it is perfectly acceptable and recommended to date several different people to see which one you like best. You increase your odds of finding 'the one' in this manner,,, and really,, that is what you want.
2007-10-16 04:35:43
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answered by dynastronii 5
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I am not quite sure I understand the first question you asked. However, I do think that if you aren't dating anyone seriously then you should definitely date as much as you can. Once you find someone you really like and want to start a serious relationship with, then you can stop dating other people. Until then, have fun!
2007-10-16 04:37:11
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answered by AmberAshley 2
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Girls should always be just dating. That's how you realize which guy actually holds your interest and you might want to develop a relationship with, and if you don't want a relationship just enjoy the time that your with them as they should enjoy the time that they're with you.
What might happen is that you might enjoy seeing someone as a friend but you don't really think it'll move anything beyond that while the other person might have your signals mixed up. Just be honest from the get go, if someone told me that they just wanted to be friends then I'd be friends. I'd still look for other people to date, and technically I wouldn't pay for you anymore (sorry that's the way it works.) but I would rather hang out with a friend then be by myself.
In guy terms if you're "dating" them it means that eventually you're going to put out. That's why guys pay, and if you don't eventually guyys will move on to someone who will. That's life, guys want one thing and that's someone to be with with no restrictions, girls on the other hand want someone who will go out of their way to show how much the girls actually worth.
2007-10-16 04:40:39
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answered by munkcorp 1
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now,it depends on how u define dating.If dating means just fooling around, having fun, no commitment, ending up in bed for 1 night stand, lot of guys at the age of 20-27 thinks that way. So dont expect a commitment from just dating, and you shud do that too..you can check out with other guys..but be clear to the guy that you dont want any commitment right now
2007-10-16 04:36:52
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answered by subhashis_biswas 2
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It depends on the guy. You might date one guy who's possessive and thinks after one date, you two are an item. There's nothing wrong with dating multiple guys. Just don't go have sex with all of them - too many diseases and although I get a HUGE kick out of those women on the Maury show who hear 'you are NOT the father,' it's not something I'd recommend doing. The best solution to your problem is to be honest with these guys. Tell them none of them are exclusive and you're not looking to get serious with any of them at the moment.
2007-10-16 04:40:48
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answered by Don 7
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Yes, date other people. Don't put all your eggs in one basket. What you are describing is casual dating. No reason why you shouldn't. Sometimes dating someone casually turns into something more serious and you may decide to see them exclusively. In the mean time, have a good time!
2007-10-16 04:39:06
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answered by sleepingliv 7
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Guys will date you as long as they are interested. If they are not sure about whether or not they want a relationship with you, you'd probably know it fairly soon (no phone calls, making other plans or breaking plans they made with you etc).
If you tell him that you like him too soon, you might scare him away or he may think your taking it too seriously. Be patient...if a guy likes a woman and feels that she likes him back, he will walk a mile barefoot on broken glass to be with her.
That is until you have sex. After that he will slowly lose interest from that day on.
Just kidding!!!
2007-10-16 04:42:31
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answered by Evol 3
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it means a guy doesn't know if he wants to marry you yet on the first date or even after a few. girls often have a 'hasty heart' in that regard and say 'marriage or relationship material' pretty fast in the piece, and then get all clingy/angsty/uncool/stalkerish and then the guys go, well i liked her at first but nah. so the thing is, for the guy to want to keep it going, is he has a lot of FUN with you. if he has a lot of fun with you over and over he's gonna want to keep on having fun with you long term, who wouldn't! same goes for girls too. humans! it just means, don't put too many obligations on the guy too soon, because it will put him off. just like when the guy puts too many 'have sex with me ' obligations on the girl when she isn't ready, it puts her off.
2007-10-16 04:38:15
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answered by meteorite 3
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i think that depends on the guy....talk to him and see if it is okay for you to date other people. "Just dating and having fun" sounds like "sex without a relationship." But I would think every guy interprets that their own way...but I'm not a guy, who knows lol.
2007-10-16 04:37:08
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answered by Blair C. 2
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In guy terms, it means the field is wide open and after I sleep with you I'm going on to another one. You need to find out what his definition of that term means to him.
2007-10-16 04:39:52
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answered by coolhd2003 2
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