i like him but i feel like i dont spend enough time with my friends anymore. when i am with him, i am bored to tears. shud i ask him to take a break? and give me space? how do i do that? right now im just sort of sick of him but i feel like deep down inside i still like him, hes just boring right now. i know if i DO break up with him, it will be very awkward becuz we have all our classes together. we have been going out for almost a month and we are sophemores.
2007-10-16 18:26:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be honest.
2007-10-16 18:30:34 · answer #1 · answered by Water 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a situation I was in. I had a boyfriend that would follow me to every class because we didn't have any together and would be with me at lunch, I never really hung with my friends anymore and I began to feel smoothered and bored so instead of telling him how I felt, i broke up with him. Biggest mistake, I missed him so much after that.
I don't think you should break up with him just yet, the relationship is still new. Just tell him how u feel, let him know you want to hang with your friends sometimes.
2007-10-17 01:41:19 · answer #2 · answered by **STAR** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself a question....
It has been just one month and you are bored at the level that you are disclosing such a personal matter over an open forum......
Do you think this matter needs a re-consideration ?? Simply gather some courage....ask him for a coffee or a lunch and talk with him in such a way that he do not feel bad and at the same time he stop expecting too much from you......
2007-10-17 02:01:03 · answer #3 · answered by AA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel like after a year, couples tend to get bored with each other. What you need to do is just tell him you need a friend week in which it's all about you and your girls b/c u feel like ur neglecting them. Then u can have fun with them, but in the back of your mind, you can reevaluate your situation with him. Figure out if you miss him or want to see him while you are with your friends. If not, then you know what to do.
2007-10-17 01:33:25 · answer #4 · answered by duckygirl606 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First talk to your friend about your poblem openly, if unable to find a solution than break up. Because relationship is good till it is not a burdon in the life.
2007-10-17 01:38:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL, IF HE'S BORING AND YOU DON'T LIKE THAT THEN MAYBE YOU SHOULD. IF YOU DO BREAK UP, MAYBE YOU CAN DATE AGAIN IN THE FUTURE... IT SHOULD BE EASY TO DO BECAUSE THERE ARE NO STRONG FEELINGS BETWEEN YOU. AND IF HE WANTS TO BE A TYPICAL GUY AND BE A JERK, JUST TURN IT AROUND ON HIM AND MAKE HIM LOOK LIKE A COMPLETE ***.... LOL....
2007-10-17 01:31:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't stay where u are not happy
2007-10-17 01:31:05 · answer #7 · answered by blkdiva360 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋