My friends Christine, Melissa and me all like the same guy, and were like best friends !! Christine ended up dating him and now she is dumping him because me and Melissa are sad they went out and jelouse. she said she wouldent mind if I went out with him.. but she isnt sure about melissa. should I ask him out ?
2007-10-20 13:07:35 · 7 answers · asked by Hannah C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk to your friend. that's the best answer i think you'll get .
2007-10-20 13:12:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The short, sweet, and simple answer is a capital---NO.What are you thinking and Melissa too.Are you three a group of incestuous friends or is there a shortage of guys in your town so you guys have to recycle the guys you date.Since you asked the question, I am going to assume that you recognize that there is something weird and unsavory about this sort of dating; that you have some self respect and dignity left, and that you believe you are worth more.Even if this guy was an Adonis,it does not mean that three friends should take turns dating him. Would you gals complain and blame him if he has his way with all of you and is not anyone's boyfriend, or would you start blaming all guys.While I could give you more reasons to say no, if you are not convinced by now, it would be a waste of time and energy. I just hope you all do the right thing and make the correct choices.
2007-10-20 13:29:53 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask Melissa if she would mind...
2007-10-20 13:10:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i woudn't just to be on the safe side with my friends. unless u don't like ur friends as much as that guy
2007-10-20 13:13:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, a guy should ask you out. Don't be desperate---let him choose and if he likes you the best, he'll ask you out. You need to let him do the initiating.
2007-10-20 13:10:47 · answer #5 · answered by Ida T 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Nah....she gave you the respect.....
2007-10-20 13:10:57 · answer #6 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah...if she doesn't care, and you like him...then you should go ahead.
2007-10-20 13:11:25 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Girl Liker 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋