Now he's started calling me everyday just to chat, but it's making me think of him again. He doesn't ask me out he just talks. What should I do? Not take his calls or return them or just point blank ask why he's calling me?
2007-10-20 09:36:32 · 22 answers · asked by hi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he went with his "home town girl" on the rebound. now he's rethinking his decision to leave you in the fiorst place. Do you want to take him back? Your call. I say fck the bastard (not LITERALLY). he's made his bed, now he has to sleep in iot, even though there is some skanky whore already there.
2007-10-20 09:40:16 · answer #1 · answered by Turkmenbashi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's look at this. Your BF left you for someone else. That means either he is stupid, you are unatractive or she is more sttractive. Suddenly he "Returns" Why.
If he has done this once.... well.... But he has done this twice. He left you, now he leaves someone else. SO you get back with him - who will he run away with next.
History repeats itself. The leapord cannot change his spots.
Tell him. thanks - I prefer to to see you again. Please don't call me. I would appreciate it if you did not bother me again.
Find youself some guy who appreciates you for your head not something else. Treat him with dignity and respect and require the same from him. You are human, you have feelings, you are not some safety net to catch him - or any boy- when they fail at some other relationship.
Sure - you can ask him anything. He can reply any way he wants but that does not mean he is telling the truth. Actions speak louder than words - He actions are quite simple to interpret - He walked out on you and then he did exactly the same thing to someone else. Hey, do you know about baseball - 3 strikes and your are out - Are you throwing the 3rd pitch?
Tell him that you prefer not to talk to him. Tell him to talk to his current GF.
2007-10-20 16:46:14 · answer #2 · answered by organbuilder272 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ask me girl, i would tell him what you feel about him calling and tell him why it may annoy you and why you want him to stop. I'd say you should just tell him how you feel. If he can get a new girlfriend, you can so get a new boyfriend. Pretty much your ex boyfriend is a %$*!!@. Go out with another boy. In front of him. Make him jealous and want to come back to you. Then say no because he dumped you . Explain why.
Pete
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2007-10-20 16:50:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask why he would call you rather then his good buddies. Just ask point blank why he wants to talk to you over other people, like his girlfriend. It might be wise to just end it. The girlfriend might not be happy about it. It's not nice to be talking to an ex in any relationship, period. He might be playing you both. Maybe he just wants to create drama and turn you both against each other. If it were me, I wouldn't give him any of my valuable time. He seems like he's the type that's never satisfied anyway...
2007-10-20 16:44:42 · answer #4 · answered by Celtic Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he is thinking with his weiner. The other girl wasn't what he was looking for so he's hoping you'll take him back. Who's to say he won't leave you again if he found another girl he thought was better... Ditch him. He's an a$ s for leaving you in the first place. Move on and tell him to get over himself.
2007-10-20 16:39:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he went right back to his ex girlfriend, then he should not be contacting you. the fact that he is shows that he has no concern for your feelings. tell him to imagine how he would feel if you went back to an ex and called him. it would not feel good. it seems to me you need to cut this guy out of your life completely, as hard as it might be, and try to forget him. with time, you will, and will find someone better than him. when he calls, ignore him. talking to him will only make you hurt more.
2007-10-20 16:41:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know this has happened to me.
A boy dumped me for his ex and asked me out again after that. I was dumb enough to say yes but then he broke my heart again for the same girl. Dont let him control you, dont let him think he can have you when ever he wants. You can say no and just move on he broke your heart remember? You find someone that will make you happy.
2007-10-20 16:40:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he wants to stay friends with you, I guess.
My ex made a point of saying he wanted to stay friends, and I do get uncomfortable when he calls sometimes, but I try to deal with it.
If you don't like it, then let him know, and maybe distance yourself. It can be a bit raw, I know. Heck, my ex started dating the girl he was cheating on me with when we broke up, and he still insists on being friends!
2007-10-20 16:40:01 · answer #8 · answered by Bellicosa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dearest hi,
The key is old boyfriend tell him to leave u alone he left, left, left you for the former girl friend and why should you allow yourself to go through the old emotions. Don't let him play on you, let him go as he did you!
2007-10-20 16:55:33 · answer #9 · answered by Flowers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you don't want him calling you so much cos it hurts you. Have a clean break with him and move on. If friendship is his reason, tell him now is not a good time.
2007-10-20 16:46:26 · answer #10 · answered by Hanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋