the one that wants me to move i had a 2 year relationship with and lived with for a while. the other i am currently living with and have been with for 8 months and i would feel horrible if i just left him with the apartment, that he pretty much pays for, so he wouldnt be in any finacial bind....i just dont know....help...
2007-10-20 19:41:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get a pilot's license and purchase a very light jet dear. That would help your commute.
2007-10-20 19:44:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that U are even considering a move of 1500 miles tells me U don't love the guy U presently live with. Your concern over him was that U would feel horrible about leaving him with the apartment, then reasoned that he could handle it because he "pretty much pays for" it already & he wouldn't be in any financial bind. I think U do know. What I don't know is, why do U have no concern over him & his broken heart?
2007-10-21 02:59:59 · answer #2 · answered by Andy K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am pretty sure the heart cannot be evenly divided two ways. There has to be a preference, right? Hmmm, maybe you should take the one you are living with down to the other man and you three can be a happy triplet. Even though there is no way that would actually work. It's tough, I know, maybe you should try sitting down and making a pro vs. con chart of both decisions to help you figure things out. Hope everything works out.
2007-10-21 02:59:59 · answer #3 · answered by elemenopee. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are either in love with one and infatuated with the other or you are infatuated with both. Im telling you the truth, its not possible to really love two people. If you think you do then you dont have a clue what true love is.
2007-10-21 02:47:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick whatever one will be the most stable. Someone is going to lose in this situation. Pick the one that makes the most money lol.
Excuse me for this comment, but it feels sort of contradicting to me that a person can be in love with more then one person. How can someone be truly in love with someone.... and someone else as well...
2007-10-21 02:48:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with the guy you are with , you have moved on with your look forward , dont go back to something that didnt work. But only you know who is truly in your heart , maybe it is none of them.
2007-10-21 02:45:22 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ MISS YELLOW DIAMOND★☺♀ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that you want them both, and you can split time with them. This way you can keep it fresh, and neither of them will get sick of you.
Personally, as long as no disease threat was involved, I'd be into that kind of arrangement for as long as it suited me.
2007-10-21 02:49:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is simple, if you love them both equally, choose the one that can fu*ck the best and make you moan/brim the most.
2007-10-21 02:49:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd have to agree with fathead. which ever one can handle and accept the fact that u have told them the truth and appreciate it is the one u should more likely consider
2007-10-21 02:51:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you don't know what love is yet.
You should tell both of them about the other and see which has the more mature response.
2007-10-21 02:44:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋