I went out with a girl for 3 years, ups and down but it was nothing but amazing!! true love it felt most of the time, and she did alot for me. but when she told her parents about me, they said no and her mum even slapped her, because she kept saying she wants 2 marry me, they didnt agree because i was much younger than her and i didnt have a real job. anyways she told me it wont happen, and cried and cried, and i cud tell she truly was hurt. anyways she stopped contacting me for months, i got nothing!! not even a miss call from her.....anways 1 day i asked her lets meet and go cinema for the last time, we went and even kissed!!!!!!!!
going home i cried in her arms saying i will miss u,she cried aswel, but after that day i didnt hear from her! its beens 2 months now but still nothing, whats going on???????
we went out for years, and i knew she cared alot,she cried alot if anything happened to me, what happened? it dont make sense to me
2007-10-19 05:38:05 · 10 answers · asked by sugarguyguy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also her dad is on depression tablets and her mum has high blood pressure, and she said she can't hurt them anymore!!! but why didnt she see if im ok, but cry and cry!! i dont wana contact her because its been months...but whats going on? I dont understand
2007-10-19 05:38:14 · update #1
You should contact her, or atleast try just to see if she's ok.
And if you can't her mom or dad either took her phone privleges, and email and told her not to go near you or even talk to you or she'd lose more. or they moved.
PS.
sorry about your lose
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2007-10-19 05:46:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, she is just doing that because she was afraid the longer you guys are together, the more painful it's going to be when you guys are separated. And you weren't helping when you CRIED IN HER ARMS. That makes her even more afraid that it's going to hurt you. What were you thinking? Show her your.... "manliness", so she can take the risks without having to worry about you when she already have her parents blocking her way. And if you really love her, find a job, prove to her parents that it is POSSIBLE. Be a man, not her little brother!
2007-10-19 05:49:19 · answer #2 · answered by pinkypencil2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know how old you are or even her but it sounds like you two are young~!(no offense) i dont really have an answer for this situation, only she truly knows whats goin on. she must love you so at least you know that. if you both are truly meant to be then you will be. if she is the type that respects her parents then if you love her then you will understand why she hasnt talked to you. its nothing against you, she just doesnt want to cause problems with her parents. a true love is hard to get over and you may not ever, but you will love again if its her or not!!! so i dont know if this helped but like i said she is the only one who truly knows!! so maybe if and when you do talk to her again, just ask!!!!
2007-10-19 05:52:19 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably doesn't talk to you because the more she does, the more she wants you and it just makes the pain worse. trust me, i've been there.
and if its anything like i am, whenever you make no effort to contact her for awhile then she gets hurt then too. so just a simply text message saying "hey whats up, haven't talked to you in awhile." is good enough. because while you're not talking to her, she might think you've moved on and are seeing other people.
also, step up and prove you can be mature to her parents. i understand, my parents are strict too. but go get a job somewhere [maybe somewhere her parents go so they'll see you.] and then drive by her house to stop and say hi. if you have a work uniform wherever you work, wear it to her house and when her parents see you just say you were stopping by on your way to work. that way they know you got a job. and be polite-yes ma'am, yes sir, thank you-all that.
everything will be okay in the end; if its not okay, then its not the end :]
2007-10-19 05:57:06 · answer #4 · answered by ihearttwirling 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but she's obviously respecting her parents wishes (even if they are wrong) and is not wanting to hurt her parents. Maybe she is worried she'll cause them lots of stress if she keeps seeing you. I think she is in a hard place right now and I don't think there's much you can do to be honest, she has made her choice...and she chose her parents.
2007-10-19 05:43:48 · answer #5 · answered by RLJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn that sucks.
try proving yourself to her parents. get a job. become something incredible that they can't say no to. then try and meet up with her again, and see if things work out. When you can live past 100 years, there's plenty of time to work things out. People don't seem to realize this.
2007-10-19 05:43:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
RLJ said it well; she had a choice to make, and she chose her parents. Depending on your ages, it may have been the right choice.
It's really hard, but move on. I won't say that "if it was meant to be, it'll happen..." but I will say that you can, and probably will, find love again.
Best wishes, to both of you.
2007-10-19 05:48:49 · answer #7 · answered by Gauffsa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go get a proper job. show her parents you will give their princess a good life. yes u can, all the best there.
2007-10-19 05:43:07 · answer #8 · answered by Curious Kills 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes playing you, thats all. Been there done that. I'm past all that. I'm now happily married
2007-10-19 05:43:40 · answer #9 · answered by SiCnGaged 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It would help to know how old you both are.
2007-10-19 05:42:33 · answer #10 · answered by Jessie H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋