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am a boy at 17 years and i got a problem with girls.
there is a girl i like who works at the kebab store.
how can i ask her out. plsss give me some good advice.
am gonna die loooool!!

2007-10-19 06:32:06 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

21 answers

tip 1: well, the internet's not the best place to go for dating advice.
tip 2: by some kebab items, and using this as an example to strike up a short conversation with her. Find out what interests her outside of work if you can, and find a common interest. Use this common interest as an excuse to ask her out. For instance (this is an example), if she likes roller coasters, take her to the carnival. If she's into animal rights, take her to a vegetarian dinner.
tip 3: while you're talking to her, be CONFIDENT. you'll get nowhere if you're not. Rejection isn't that big of a deal, so dont worry about it.
tip 4: if you have a sense of humor, also use. girls like that.

2007-10-19 06:37:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well I'de start out with a "hey whats up?" and then take things from there. You really don't want to make any sudden movements towards her to soon or she might get creeped out. Sometimes girls like it when you stare at them and then look away when they look at you. If you start a conversation though, things will really start to move in your direction. You'll be able to find out what she likes, dislikes etc. After that, you can make a choice on wheather or not the dating thigns would work and if shes into it or not.

2007-10-19 06:37:53 · answer #2 · answered by pK 2 · 0 0

Just play it cool.... keep going there for kebobs. Be coy... throw out some simple jokes... if she laughs... she doesnt think your a jerk! Play it cool like that for a while... really try to be her friend, before you try to be her boyfriend... that will gain you a lot of repsect and let her know that you are interested in more than her bottom half :)

After you gain a friendly relationship just ask her out... "You wanna go catch a movie tonight?"

"You wanna go grab dinner tonight?"

Etc...

more than anything i can stress is BE CONFIDENT!

Confidence is a mans best friend, whether is in business or girls....

2007-10-19 06:42:05 · answer #3 · answered by davidanthonyrich 2 · 0 0

Just start a conversation with her! Say hi! Get to know her a Little. Feel her out then when the time is right just ask her out on a date. Maybe for lunch to get to know her and show her you're a nice guy. Good luck. "--#)

2007-10-19 06:36:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Just go to her, smile and ask for a kebab and her number. If she'll give you her number, call her and ask her out. If not, don't eat kebab anymore. Try shaorma.

2007-10-19 06:36:23 · answer #5 · answered by KLAUDYU 4 · 0 0

ok first, you don't need so many O's in your lol.
Second, why is this a problem with womens in general?
Ok, you are scared to ask this girl who you like out, you are worried that she will reject you and/or you won't know what to say.

Ok, heres your advice, get your courage up but don't get cocky.

List it:
make a list of all the reasons/things you like about her.
Make a list of all the reasons you would be good to her and HOW you would be good to her and what you could offer her (I'm not talking a white picket fence or anything)

list should include:
For you-
I will not pressure you ever
I will treat you with incredible respect
I will always stand up for your honor
I will always look you in the eyes when I talk to you
I will always think of you first
I will always value your opinion
I will always care
I'm sure you can think of a few more

ok, for her:
I love the way you smile
I love the way you look when your mad
I love the way you care about people
I love the things you say when you talk to people
I love your opinion and I want to hear more of it
....
Those were EXAMPLES
...
ok so something like that,
then I want you to study them.
Think about them
When you go up to her tell her some of the reasons you like her for (NOT HER BODY, but you can mention she is beautiful as long as its along with other things)
Then tell her that (if you are asking her to be your girlfriend) you would like to be blah blah blah for her and you would like to.... you get the picture.

Make sure you know her and its not creepy

And your not going to die, you are excited, you care for her, I hope.

BTW if you DO just want her for her body, please don't use my ideas.

Thank you,

Jess

2007-10-19 06:41:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

St art a little to way talk, then ask her if would like to go out skating ,put-put golf. The reason I chose activities , you both have to interact having fun .

2007-10-19 06:47:31 · answer #7 · answered by Miss cookie 2 · 0 0

just go up and ask for some napkins or something. say thnx and act ur gunna walk away. but then turn around and ask for her name. if she says she doesnt wanna give u her name then ask why not. you should know hot to so the rest. GOOD LUCK.

2007-10-19 06:36:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well I suppose u come from a conservative place, like India or Pakistan, so don't just make a fool of urself, get someone whose easy.

2007-10-19 06:36:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

keep going back to her like 2 a week and talk to her. dont act liek a stalker or else she will really hate you. maybe once you get used to talking and flurting with her ask her out.

2007-10-19 06:36:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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