was seeing a guy for 8mths.was going thru alot of cr*p when we met think i depended on him too much emotionally and scared him away,kept calling him untill he finally changed his numba.i want to call him (leave message on old no,know he still has it) want to say sorry for being total nightmare.im in a much better place now back to my old self,feel really embarrased about the way i acted just totally out of character.want to say sorry..........please advise on what to say!! thanx.
2007-10-19 00:24:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why not just send a note saying you are sorry for appearing so aggressive, but that you have worked through your problems and realized that you where to pushy, Say your sorry , and leave it at that. Let it up to him if he calls or writes back, or you will appear to be what you apologized for to pushy.
2007-10-19 00:35:43 · answer #1 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave a message that you are embarrassed over the way you acted with him Tell him it was totally out of character for you. You realize now it was just a lot of things going on in your life. Tell him to please forgive you and you promise not to bother him again. Then don't bother him. Maybe if you prove you have changed in that way, he may come back. Don't expect it too soon though. He will need to know you aren't the clingy, possessive type and only time will heal the damage.
2007-10-19 00:34:24 · answer #2 · answered by Jodi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont call him , he changed his number he does not want to hear from you. If you must call though just say hello____ im really sorry for the way i acted towards you , it was very out of character for me and you didnt need it when you were going though crap. I wont bother you in the future. The best thing you can do is move on and leave him alone though , after all it is what he wants.
2007-10-19 00:32:07 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ MISS YELLOW DIAMOND★☺♀ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest leaving it alone, at least for a while. Trying to call him again to appologize is only going to make him think nothings changed and you are still just trying to talk to him. He probly doesnt even want to talk to you at and and doesnt care for an apology. I would wait a while until you come across him somewhere and see if he wants to talk to you. Then dont just start blurting apologies. Just keep it simple and "catch up". Then if you two talk and he doesnt seem like hes trying to get away or anything maybe bring up that your sorry. But blurting apologies is going to make him think you havent changed and will prolly scare him.
2007-10-19 00:36:56 · answer #4 · answered by tstcbunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was u I would just leave it alone. If u created alot of drama and being really needy that u scared him off than he won't come back cause if u apologize to him he won't be sure that u won't do it again. Just let things along and just leave him alone. If he sees u and he notices that u've changed than he might change his mind. But let things take care of themselves. Just be patient he might come around. But like I always say there is plenty of fish in the sea. U'll find ur true love someday just be patient.
2007-10-19 00:31:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that your life was in turmoil at the time, and you realize that you made it difficult for him, and apologize. He will probably not forgive you, and may not even listen to your message. He doesn't care. You haven't moved on, but he has.
2007-10-19 00:36:29 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋