For some reason I feel bad when I'm around other couples probably since I've been single all my life. Just wondering if anyone else feels the same way.
2007-10-19 00:25:33 · 19 answers · asked by Artguy35 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Problem with me is that all my good friends are pretty much married now and I'm the only person left single so it is hard for me.
2007-10-19 00:44:57 · update #1
try not to hang out with people who make you feel uncomfortable, unless you are related to them and have no other choice
2007-10-19 00:29:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do especially around some couples that have only eyes for themselves. In my words l feel like a third wheel. However i find solutions make sure i am not the only single person or avoid hanging out with lovey dovey couples too often
2007-10-19 00:35:02 · answer #2 · answered by kags 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is normal to feel that way. I am not single and feel uncomfortable at times and it is usually when I am at a place that I really don't want to be ( tavern, bar). Maybe you should find something to do that you really enjoy, with people that have the same interests, like volunteer work, join a gym, chess club. anything that will give you a common interest. Maybe you will find that special person and maybe you won't but at least you won't feel like you are left out, and you will make new friends.
2007-10-19 00:34:48 · answer #3 · answered by ridder 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-07 05:21:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what your saying...i have never liked being around a couple even when i had a gf...2 is company 3 is a crowd....but i just became single for the first tiem ever..im 25 and i just reaslised that i have never not had a gf or 2....so now im getting used to being single and being on my own and im starting to rather enjoy it....being single can give you alot of time to figure ones self out...and i look forward to it
2007-10-19 00:28:59 · answer #5 · answered by Ispeakfreely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah thats a completely normal emotion. A person feels totally left out n lonely when he/she is different from the rest. the solution is you have to start looking out for someone who u like n has same feeling towards you. yeah i too used to then with gods grace my time came n i got married too. u too can m sure get over with this situation soon. toughen up.
2007-10-19 00:36:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The term is "third wheel". Couples are not focused on singels. They are focused on themselves.
Get some single friends. Maybe a big church has a single adults group meeting weekly.
2007-10-19 00:30:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to feel that way before I met my husband. It made me feel a little jealous too becuz everyone had someone they can always talk to, and hold hands with and stuff and I wanted that too. But I wanted it to be real. Just be yourself, and let others see the real you. Introduce yourself more to other people. Someone will eventually catch on. Good Luck!
2007-10-19 00:30:06 · answer #8 · answered by Chad's Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very uncomfortable I agree i feel in the way and just sit there thinking up good excuses to get away home as quickly as possible! I try to avoid agreeing to go out in the first place so i never get in that position x
2007-10-19 00:29:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're like that of course that's a valid feeling.. You just want to feel that yourself, which is why you do.
I'm in a relationship (but it's long distance) and I know that being around other couples or even seeing them on the street is hard - I just miss him like hell!
2007-10-19 00:28:14 · answer #10 · answered by flowerchild 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i do at times its completely normal , you feel really left out and wonder why you do not have someone in your own life. Don't get too down on yourself just remember your time will come.
2007-10-19 00:28:22 · answer #11 · answered by ♥ MISS YELLOW DIAMOND★☺♀ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋