We were very , i repeat very drunk. We've kissed before because we'r so close but im defo not a lesbian!! I am getting a divorce from my hubby because i cheated on him with our male maid... We got back to mine and started kissing like we always do but then we put on some dirty channel and we began to touch and one thing led to another....
Does this mean i fancy her? Because all i wanted was abit of fun? Has any one else had the same experience? We are talking to each other fine like it never happend...
2007-10-19 22:34:00 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry I think you are probably a bit messed up just now and perhaps even although very drunk were looking for a bit of comfort
So long as you can talk to your friend about it and then remain friends , put it down to experience and get on with your life
These sort of things happen to same sex close friends , who are normally heterosexual , but get drunk and carried away with the moment
2007-10-19 22:56:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You've kissed before, but you aren't lesbian... not something I'd expect to hear men saying. "Yeah, my bud & I swap spit from time to time, but we aren't f@gs or anything". Trust me, if you're kissing a girl, you are at least bisexual, which is what it sounds like in this case. Plus, you weren't so drunk you don't remember what happened, which tells me you let your inhibitions down & did something you've at least subconsciously considered for a while. If you were straight, the thought of even kissing someone of your gender would disgust you. I guarantee you if my best friend got drunk & tried to kiss me, he'd end up in an emergency room. I don't drink, but I could never get drunk enough to screw a man.
2007-10-19 22:49:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, it was just some fun. I don't consider myself a lesbian, or even bi, and I like to kiss girls every once in a while. And hopefully, I'll get to have sex with one eventually. :)
Anyway, no, just move on.
And, it's much different for guys. Because they're a lot weirder.
2007-10-19 22:55:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have made a mess up twice, I am just glad you are getting a divorce. No husband should have to deal with a cheating lesbian.
2007-10-19 22:43:17 · answer #4 · answered by Kimberley L 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps it wasn't supposed to. As you say, you were very drunk - but at some stage you will have to look at what happened and possibly discuss it between you. Perhaps it was just a drunken sex thing but, maybe it wasn't, you can't just pretend it didn't happen, as honesty will no longer exist in your friendship.
2007-10-19 22:44:27 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey it was abit of fun and carry on as before , but it will happen again enjoy
2007-10-19 22:54:25 · answer #6 · answered by John C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you do not fancy her in that way. Besides you were drunk. She's not bothered with it so nothing happened. You're straight!!! If you had a best guyfriend around with you who was drunk, maybe you'd have done the same thing. So chill!
2007-10-19 22:44:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2017-01-29 06:27:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with a bit of fun in the spur of the moment. Things happen, get on with it
2007-10-19 22:37:19 · answer #9 · answered by sissy 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Male maid!You having a laugh?Wishful thinking.Shallow.Get off
your back and get a life.
2007-10-19 22:43:30 · answer #10 · answered by angler 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋