ok, big problem. I have a boyfriend of 3years love him so much but there are many things that he does or doesn't do that bother me not just little silly things but things that are important to me. Other guy is new very cute, does the things my boyfriend doesn't has the same interests as me etc. i have made the mistake of sleepin with this guy and that has made things even more difficult i know, im a bad person but now i don't know what to do. i love my boyfriend but there are so many downs and this other guy and i really click.. please give me advice as to what i should do.....PLEASE
2007-10-18 06:46:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave your boyfriend for the other guy
2007-10-18 06:48:48 · answer #1 · answered by Fiona NYC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, if you even had a slight interest in this other guy, you should have dumped your b/f. Now that you've cheated on him, do you really think that he'll trust you? If he's a nice guy and really cares for you, of course he will. But the simple fact that you don't care for him anymore should be a big red flag to you. You should seriously consider dumping him, just simply because he doesn't deserve to be treated that way.
2007-10-18 13:49:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Take up the banjo and pretend nothings happened.
This will take your mind off things.
It will also give you an edge.
2. Drop this boyfriend and claim that you are too "emotionally intertwined" with this banjo you discovered to carry on with this relationship. Then wait around for a few minutes and go to the other one.
3. Keep falling asleep with this guy and pretend nothings happened.
2007-10-18 13:56:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sure you know what the answer is deep down. have u talked to your boyfriend about your problems and tried to resolve them? either way u need to make a decision its not fair on your boyfriend.
But from your post it does seem like you don't want be with him anymore and want something different.
Good luck
2007-10-18 13:51:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
screw that, the best advice for you is DON'T CHEAT EVER AGAIN...you don't love your boyfriend cause you cheated on him, and when you brought up this other guy the first thing you said was that he wast cute, so not only are you unfaithful but shallow too. tell your boyfriend the truth, and that he deserves better and deal with it. i have no remorse for people that cheat I'm sorry.
2007-10-18 13:50:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anthony C 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you cheated on your bf for a reason. it doesnt JUST happen. you probably subconsciencly know that you and your bf arent ment to be.
but on the other hand, if this guy knows you have a bf and slept with you, then you really have to think is this a guy you want? one that doesnt care about the boundries of a relationship? and if he knows you have a bf and that you cheated on him, then he might wonder if you're going to be one of those girls that doesnt know what she wants and will cheat on him too.
2007-10-18 13:55:39 · answer #6 · answered by mickey g 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date the new guy take a break away from ur bf
2007-10-18 13:49:57 · answer #7 · answered by Healing for My Soul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does your heart want? do you think this other guy is sincere? it would be a shame to get rid of your bf and then have this other guy blow you off. also, maybe it is just time to move on from your bf. if you can't see the future with him then...
2007-10-18 13:49:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
brake up with boyfriend here and go out with cute new guy
2007-10-18 13:49:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump them both, and then go hide in your room for 2 years...
By then they will have given up, and found new girlfriends...
2007-10-18 13:49:40 · answer #10 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋