i like this one guy but he has a gf but i like this other guy to but hes single. who should i go for??? ( i like the boy that has a gf more)
2007-10-18 10:11:36 · 38 answers · asked by A.p.H.r.O.d.I.t.E 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The one you like more.
Follow your instinct.
If he has a girlfriend it is up to him to either say no to you or to dump her.
Don't settle for the other unless you take a chance on the one you like best first, or you'll regret it.
2007-10-18 10:22:25 · answer #1 · answered by munchkin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to lose either way. I would try to be friends with the guy who's single, but if you really like the guy with the gf, then chances are their relationship will be short depending on the age. Otherwise, become the single guy's gf and be friends with the guy who already has a gf.
2007-10-18 10:14:54 · answer #2 · answered by Cheaze 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT go for the guy with the gf! Put yourself in her shoes, you would not want some girl hitting on your guy. And if you're not that crazy about the other guy, keep the friendship going a little longer you might find out you like him more than you know.
Good luck!
2007-10-18 10:15:58 · answer #3 · answered by texicangirl 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you want a ex GF tring to constantly spit you up like you did her an always driveing a wedge in your relationship then take the guy with a GF. Also he will never trust you cause you intentionaly went after him when he had a GF an will think you will do it again just this time to him.
2007-10-18 10:15:30 · answer #4 · answered by Elvis O 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
pick the single guy see how it goes if it doesnt work out see where you stand with the guy with the gf. No point destroying someones relationship on a crush when its not your only option.
2007-10-18 10:15:31 · answer #5 · answered by molly8485 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well see how the other girl would feel too if you just stole him away from you, it wouldnt be fair at all wouldnt it ? well or you can just put yourself in her position if some one were to steal your bf. but anyways just wait if you like the boy with the gf till it doesnt work out. or get to know the other guy more and then see what up with it.
2007-10-18 10:18:24 · answer #6 · answered by ashyeee [; 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If the roles were reversed and this 1st guy was your boyfriend, would you want another girl to try to steal him away simply because she likes your boyfriend better than she likes another guy??
If this guy leaves his girlfriend for you, you can pretty well be sure he'd be willing to leave you for the next model up.
That's an answer you don't want to find out, you want a guy with a bit more integrity.
So, either the 2nd guy or neither.
2007-10-18 10:26:13 · answer #7 · answered by brettj666 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you should tell the guy with the gf you like him but then go or the other one.
see what happens
2007-10-18 10:15:44 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
the fact that the first guy has a gf should tell you right away. go for the single guy. if you try to get them to break up you run the risk of making the other guy dislike you. (which would defeat the purpose of trying to get them to break up)
2007-10-18 10:15:06 · answer #9 · answered by god_of_the_accursed 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
be friends with both, but go after the single--he is available. Then, if the one with gf breaks up, go after him too, and play the field.
2007-10-18 10:16:00 · answer #10 · answered by Mike 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋