Why is it good for blokes to sleep around but not very cool the other way round?

Question

Its considered good for a man to have sex with loads of diffrent women but when its the other way around the woman gets a bad reputation, how come?

Answer 1

I think that the concept goes back to the 20s or possibly even earlier (most likely). The man went out had sexual encounters with many different women (flappers) but these weren't the type of women that they'd take home to meet their moms. When they were ready to settle down, they'd find a nice virginal woman to settle down with.

Flappers were admired yet also scrutinized due to their lifestyle and dress.

To be honest, I have no clue why it is the way it is. I know that a man can be teased by his guy friends if he's straight so I'd say that that would have something to do with it. That and the need to act out their fantasies. A woman typically won't boast about it, if she has had sex with loads of men. It's something that females typically find degrading. If a woman says so it's automatically assumed that she's proud of it and that she's advertising sexual services to any man available.

Answer 2

its a bit like the pot calling the kettle black. i sleep around, i make no apologies for it, i like sex, i'm good at it, i use protection, i love men, girls bodies rock for sure and i'll dabble with them but i love men. i work at being sexy, i dress the part, i take care of my body, i have made minor changes, no-not implants, i like my ****, but i had them pierced and wear nipple rings, [that sure hurt, but for a few days my nipples were so swollen the men all but threw me on the ground to get a look], i have a tongue ring and know how to use it, i like to experiment, i love more than one partner at a time, i am not an inactive participant by any means. i've learned how to do a mean strip-tease, lap-dance, and pole dance. i know how to use props and toys, i don't mind a little rough stuff, but very little, a pinch here and there, so yes, the girls will call me a tramp but whats important is the men call me, time and time again.

Answer 3

It's not good for either the man or woman to sleep around unless you would like to contract Herpes or another STD. A guy is a stud and a girl is a whore that does that. I think it comes from the idea long ago that women were actually the possession of men. First their father, then their husband.

Answer 4

I do not agree with the statement. We have to eradicate this double standard which arises from the idea that women get pregnant and men don't. Such obsolete idea has also led to the passing of biased laws.

Answer 5

This is a tired saying, and I think its just as bad either way. Bottom line is a lack of self respect coupled with a lack of respect for others.

Answer 6

Because men are insecure bigots,and , the threat of a woman having numerous partners scares them as they then think they have to be better than any other, the less partners the less threatened the male, we are mostly a set of hypocritical , double-standard , bigoted wan??rs.

Answer 7

probably becuase people expect women to be alittle more level headed and smarter about things like this, since they dont have a 24 hour sex drive

Answer 8

Coz they think shes been tricked into it, and people think guys must be very desirable to get girls out of their modesty.

Answer 9

Sexism.

Answer 10

ummm it is good because men have dominated the political society for thousands of years...

It would be completely different if the roles had been reversed. or even better: equalized