Another Brad question.
The thing is i've dreamt of Brad Pitt4 way too long. I know it sounds stupid cause i don't even know him, and will never meet him.
I only know parts of the people he pretends to be (the characters he's acte/portrayed). But i feel innocence raw/real emotions, when i look at him (who knows it might just be animal magnetism/just a crush) .
I guess i can't really like him though. I couldn't really want someone whose real self comes across as incredibly selfish and almost wicked.. i mean look at how he left Jeniffer Aniston and continued an affair with another woman like he had not just left 7years of his life behind (there's no way he wasn't cheating on his wife.
(I know u can't stay with a person u don't want)
.I still like him:-).
i just want to know can this happen in real life, i mean, With Brad Pitt i know its fantasy, iKnow i'ma fan with a crush. But can people really love/think they love someone they don't like/know& would it really be luv?
2007-10-18 09:57:30 · 17 answers · asked by tidunia 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes it happens and that is what is called love at first sight..people believe that love at first sight is enfatuation or meeting someone that just fits ur criteria.
But i believe love can be something very spiritual and few people understand the power of it that is y they dont believe in love at first sight..it is possible to fall in love with someone u dont know because deep inside u feel he is the one for u. u have an assurance that u dont have with other types of guys, but with him u know its pure genuine love and its something u never felt before. obviously to feel such strong feelings for someone there is also fantasy, but it doesnt mean u dont love him..we all imagine things with the one we love, but for some strange reason people believe love at first sight is just fantasy..no! fantasy is part of it but it comes after love.
u say u will never meet him, now i know he is with someone else and has a kid, maybe he was the one for u, but destiny didnt allow u guys to meet...for some strange reason destiny found a way to separate ur paths. i think the best thing to do is let him go for now so u dont get ur feelings hurt and focus on having a relationship with someone else that might fit ur criteria. dont wait for him. i did that for a guy for 10 years and wasnt worth it...
But i pray u dont lose hope because it could happen that u will meet him someday. maybe u will be married too or have a kid, or maybe u both will be single, who knows. it could be in 4 years in 10 years, who knows. but whatever u do, dont give up that hope, if deep inside u feel he is the one, u will meet someday and if its meant to be, God will take care of the rest and nothing will seperate u paths. DONT stop dreaming!
2007-10-18 10:31:03 · answer #1 · answered by prettyinpink i 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A better person than I was last year, for sure. Better than you, no. I try to live my life helping anyone who asks, if I can. The poorest of the poor I try to help more. I try not to judge but I do make observations. I think we are to live our lives as Jesus did, setting the example not following blindly. I am a non-religious Christian open to any ideas from any other source. I am at the point now that I cannot lie or wilfully hurt another person. I try to be conscious of what is happening and why. There is hell but only in the minds that manifest it, when you stop believing in it, it disappears. I truly believe in a Supreme Being, that reflects unconditional and absolute love to all. I believe we are all on a separate path back to the Great Creator and it's all about the experience. So far nothing has happened as I've expected it to, it has all been out of the blue. Life is like a puzzle, it matters not where you start but in the end, and only then, shall you see the complete picture.
2016-05-23 11:18:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think it's all in your imagination. I've studied some psycology roots of the brain, theories from Piaget, Vygotsky and such. And there is a big difference between your real knowledge: the one that you acquire through learning experiences along your life and the knowledge of making things up in your mind, imagination that is.
My brother used to think he was Britney Spear's soul mate. You would have to talk to the person if ever, and after gathering and sharing memories with him, you will know if you really love him or not.
What you love right now is a figure, an idea of him and his physical confident self you watch on tv.
2007-10-18 10:01:22 · answer #3 · answered by Daniel Rodd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, you may not ever get brad but somebody was created just for you, It's okay to have a celeb fantasy but try to find somebody that you can love as much as brad
2007-10-18 10:02:09 · answer #4 · answered by Miss K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have a crush but it fizzles away when you meet someone who you really fall for. Just stay rooted and remember that this is a crush - he may not be the kind of person you imagine.
2007-10-18 10:02:03 · answer #5 · answered by jenesuispasunnombre 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes they can believe that. The same as someone can believe they "love" someone they have known for a month. The word LOVE is the most abused and over used word in the english language. Seek help. good luck.
2007-10-18 10:00:59 · answer #6 · answered by harry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You can't love someone you don't know. Because, well, you don't know them.
You know OF the "actor", you know OF the public persona that he chooses to show the public.
But you don't know Brad Pitt, the man and the person.
You can admire him, you can have a mad crush on him but that's about it.
2007-10-18 10:00:56 · answer #7 · answered by allusian_fields 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I belive that it could POSSIBLY happen to someone. For example, i seriously think adam levine from maroon 5 is really hot, cute and funny, but im never going to know him personally. i know that its just a celebrity crush. i think that it could happen in real life if you start to LIKE someone, but not love. i dont think anyone can LOVE someone without knowing them, love is not how you are attracted physically or even a little of their actions. love is more like when start to really really gain a relationship with a person and like them for the way they are putting all other things aside.
The conclusion to my spcheel.....no...i dont think that you can love someone without knowing them. a crush....or like......yes.
2007-10-18 10:04:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to find a new way to focus that energy you are putting in to this never going to happen scenario. Get over him by getting under some one new. it's an old crazy saying but it really works, find some one new that is obtainable to crush on.
2007-10-18 10:03:31 · answer #9 · answered by princessaris80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there is definatly someone that we are all meant to be with, But love is something you fall into. Love is not just apperance, or personality that you like at first glance. You fall in love with someone afetr getting to know them and everything about them . You cant fall in love with someone who you do not know.
2007-10-18 10:03:43 · answer #10 · answered by thegreatescape5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋