Me and my boyfriend have this trust issue and he said he could not trust me because of what his dad put his mom through when he was younger but i told him i trusted him with everything i had ok.............well i told him if he didnt have anything to hide to give me his password to his myspace and he gave me one similiar to it but it wasnt the write one was he hiding something? well i got his paasword off the internet because i am reallly smart and can get anyones password but anyways i went on to his myspace he was talking to some girl and i wasnt aware but he cheated on me with her and i found that out after i read them emails but he found out i knew some how and he asked me through our myspaces ( so what are we through now or what )and i told him no but after i told him i might be pregnant with his kid he is now trying to denie it and i wont see him till saturday wich is our 3 month anniversary so waht should i do believe hm , just forgive him and talk it over and just let me know.
2007-10-18 11:15:08 · 12 answers · asked by lovergirl_82 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ditch him honey ....once a cheater always a cheater...leopards never change their spots. They may fade a little from time to time but eventually show their true colours again & again. You can do & deserve better & as for the pregnancy issue- there are plenty of women out there who raise great kids on their own...some are even partnered & may as well be on their own. Trust, fidelity, honesty & loyalty are huge issues in any relationship & if you are having a problem with them this early in the piece I would personally cut my losses & bail out, as with out them love will not last...you will end up hating eachother and belive me that is not something you want or any child from that kind of relationship to live through. - the scars it leaves run deep and last a life time.
LIfe is too short to be made that complicated.
Take care, be brave, be strong, & what ever you decide I wish you all the best.
source - my heart my life.
2007-10-18 11:37:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I won't lecture you on how "checking is messages, hacking etc, etc" is wrong because almost every girl would do it and I think you know it was wrong. But, there are bigger issues at hand. Come clean. Tell him what you did. Apologize for invading his privacy. BUT he has some explaining to do. Ask him what all of this cheating/girl stuff this is. If he is cheating on you, dump him. If you told him you were pregnant with his kid and then he denies cheating on you, ask him again. There's a good chance that if he said he cheated on you the first time then denied it the second time that he really did cheat. Trust your instinct. Figure out the baby situation (keep, adopt, whatever). If he's no good, dump him. You and the baby can do better. Good luck.
2007-10-18 11:23:10 · answer #2 · answered by MBEAR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FYI: Your boyfriend may only be doing this because he learned from his father, in that case you need to talk to this guy and ask him who cares about more...... the girl on myspace or his pregent girlfriend...... if he chooses the girl on myspace don't fight back it isn't worth your breath. If he says this, this means the guy never really cared about you he just wanted someone to have sex with and leave her pregnent with his child. Also ask him about his past relationships..... they might not have went well either.... and that probabaly means he isn't the right guy. He might be ignoring you because he knows he got you pregnent and isn't ready to take on this much responsiblity...... ASK HIM THE QUESTIONS I HAVE LISTED AND GET TO THE BOTTOM OF THIS CRAP! YOU GO WITH YOUR GUT FEELING AFTER YOU GET THE REASON HE DID THIS!
2007-10-18 11:28:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to take a good long break from your boyfriend, most likely, a permanent break. Please, go out into the world and experience life. I don't think you know what you are missing. There are a lot of guys out there, who will treat you well. You need to learn how to identify them. You can always go back to your boyfriend. If he won't have you back, you know, you made the right decision leaving.
2007-10-20 11:35:10 · answer #4 · answered by Larry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she lies to you approximately that then i dont think of giving her yet another threat is the splendid element to do. yet once you the two rather love one yet another then stay at the same time if this form of element takes place returned then im sorry theres no different advice i've got been given on the 2nd i wish you the better of luckk :DDDDD
2016-12-29 17:14:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. If he wont give u anything that is true than u cant trust him. im sry but he doesnt sound like some1 u can really trust. (P.S.-u must be really smart). Hope this helps :)
2007-10-18 11:24:33 · answer #6 · answered by Avery 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off take a pregnancy test.......... if you are pregnant talk it out and at least be friends, if not for you guys for the baby if you plan on keeping it. you can get a dna test to prove that he is the baby's father. if you are not pregnant i would dump him.
good luck
2007-10-18 11:25:34 · answer #7 · answered by auggiebetrue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cheated on you.
You might be pregnant with his kid.
You have only been dating for 3 months.
If you are not pregnant, dump him. If you are, talk it out & try to figure something out.
2007-10-18 11:20:36 · answer #8 · answered by Fiona NYC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT give him another chance.
DONT dump him on your anniversary, call him b/4 and dump him.
but if you really are pregnate, then DONT break up with him, try to talk it out.
2007-10-18 11:25:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him.
He doesn't respect you so get rid of him. He'll just bring you down. You don't need him. You deserve better.
2007-10-18 11:25:24 · answer #10 · answered by aak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋