2007-10-18 14:45:06 · 54 answers · asked by Lindsay N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave him alone, you broke up with him, it is over.
2007-10-18 14:46:55 · answer #1 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
You made the choice not him. You broke your poor boyfriend's heart and it's not good so why expect him to call you back? You must be regretting your decision that's why you expect him to call you back, isn't it?
The best advice I could give you is to give him time and space. Get over him. If you really loved the guy but things won't work out, set him free. Send him a note saying that you are sorry that things wouldn't work out with both of you and that you still wanted him to be the best of friends.
2007-10-18 15:09:21 · answer #2 · answered by Zed23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but this is very humerous. Your "Ex-boyfriend" is not talking to you because he is trying to find a new partner. Also, he could be really mad with you. If you want to talk to him, this means you probally still care for him as a significant other, which is normal. You want to still be friends. It sounds like he does not, or at least not now. Leave him alone. I do not know if you want to get back together, or if he wants to. For both of you to get back together, the break up needed to be amicable. Ask yourself this question. Did i get the things i needed when i was with him(this is not a perverted question)?
If you feel that you do not like him. Shut him out of you life and move on. If you feel you still care for him, let him come to you. Thats about all you can do.
2007-10-18 15:01:10 · answer #3 · answered by progolfer2953 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm... well maybe he is mad at you for breaking up with him! Getting dumped is never pleasant, so don't be surprised if he isn't interested in anything you have to say for awhile. Maybe one day you guys can be friends again - but for now, I say, give the guy some space.
Or next time you see him tell him you are a lunatic and you really didn't want to break up with him but you forgot to take your medication that day and so you can't be held accountable for anything you said and did that day. Be sure to let him know that you now realize the importance of staying on your medication schedule and that you promise not to break up with him again!
2007-10-18 14:54:30 · answer #4 · answered by wannabewriter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol.
That's funny. You broke up with him did you think he was going to be all smiles and giggly with you?
Guys get hurt too ya know.
Especially when you just dump us out of no where and we don't even know what we did wrong.
Maybe you should just leave him alone for a while but still be nice. I know that sounds a little conflicting.
2007-10-18 14:49:12 · answer #5 · answered by Devan! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would he want to talk to you if you just broke up with him..do you think he might be hurt????.... and he isn't your boyfriend if you broke it off!
2007-10-18 14:49:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you answered your own question! YOU broke it off with him, and he is hurt. What better reason could he have, NOT to feel comfortable talking to you right now! Why dont you try talking to him! Explain the reasoning behind the breakup! Tell him why! These are all good starters! Good Luck!!!!!!!
2007-10-18 14:50:21 · answer #7 · answered by areawiderem 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke up with him, so now you need to leave him alone. He is smart for staying away. Nothing good comes out of contact with the ex. Until it's been awhile and he's over it. Let him get over it.
2007-10-18 14:47:45 · answer #8 · answered by ugh192 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course he isn't, you broke up with him. He's probably not very happy with you right now. Give it time and eventually he might want to have a friendship with you, but that's up to him - you ended it, not him.
2007-10-18 14:48:10 · answer #9 · answered by UNITool 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he's hurt and maybe a bit angry that you broke up with him. Give it time, and he may be able to be friends with you again. Of course, he may also not want to talk to you again.
2007-10-18 14:48:37 · answer #10 · answered by tamitofu1930 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't chase after him. If he doesn't want doesn't want to talk to you, it's his problem. Be more mature than him and act the way you did before. Still make small talk and act unaffected by his behavior. Check out other guys and keep living your life. It will kill him if you seem better off with out him.
2007-10-19 13:35:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋