Marriage & Divorce - 15 December 2007

after shes 18 she needs to wait 4 yrs to have kids is this normal

2007-12-15 14:50:23 · 18 answers · asked by Katherine M 1

I got past the inital point where EVERY day was a BAD day, crying, thinking about him and the relationship EVERY WAKING SECOND, and not being able to eat or sleep.I am now at a point where I have good moments and bad moments. I don't think I've had a full good day. But maybe once every 2 hours I get sad for about 15 minutes, sometimes I cry. But I am functional for the most part.WHEN WILL THESE BAD MOMENTS STOP? WHAT SHOULD I DO TO SPEED UP MY HEALING PROCESS.HOW LONG WILL IT TAKE TO GET OVER IT.the relationship was 4.5 years long. We just broke up a week ago. I am wondering if I will have some massive relapse, because a week seems like a SHORT time to be over my crippling depression (GOD KNOWS IM NOT COMPLAINING, I AM GLAD I AM OVER IT).But this guy was my LIFE, my ALL...(not in an unhealthy obsessive way...just LOVE!!)Is it ok to be over the worse already? (IT FEELS GOOD), but is it normal? AM i even over the worse? what should I expect? What should I do? it still hurts SOO much!!!

2007-12-15 14:49:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

he is a bastard,,i just got a call from his wife and they told me its was his friend or wife who i talked to online yesterday and everytimei chated with him, his friends were with him and showed it to them,,u know what he just did to me? His wife called me and made me hear them make love,,,,i cant believe this and he even said,,cuz of me he had to dump everygirl ke played with,,,cuz he loves his wife,,,,do u think they will never divorce?? his wife says he says he will never cheat??i cant forgive these people

2007-12-15 14:45:51 · 9 answers · asked by Aiko 1

I dated my husband 11 years and I've been married for 5. Sometimes a think I finally earned her respect and some other times I'm like... man! I still have a loooong way!
Why are they like this? What's the reason?

2007-12-15 14:42:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

when you really know this is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with

2007-12-15 14:35:51 · 15 answers · asked by misstress100 1

Im suspecting my husband is having an affair with another woman or maybe the same woman again, you see he had already done this before I just found out about it and confronted him and he eventually admit it of course at first he denies it but when I handed him the simcard he is using for that woman, he had no choice but to admit it. He said it was nothing he was just infatuated then because we are far from him. And now when I log in on our computer I had seen this email address similar to the name of the girl.
Do you think she still has a relation to that woman?
How do I know if he is still seeing this woman or if he still has a communication with her. Please help im really depressed coz we have children that would be affected.
Im trying to survive our relationship though part of me wanted to quite this relationship you see he had done many mistakes which I would not mention coz its too many.

2007-12-15 14:31:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last Tueday night at about 3:30am something woke me up. My wife was laying on her pillow facing me and her eyes opened up and said "i will slit your throat while you sleep, im waiting" I jumped up and he looked at me and asked what I was doing. She thinks im making this whole thing up. The scary time is she said it in a deep voice. I dont want to sleep near her. What do I do?

2007-12-15 14:17:18 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-15 14:11:35 · 6 answers · asked by adeliofabro 1

2007-12-15 14:10:48 · 12 answers · asked by Leonidas 3

2007-12-15 13:59:51 · 24 answers · asked by Ksenia 1

2007-12-15 13:57:24 · 35 answers · asked by oncemarriednowsingleandhappy 1

I usually only ask once a week and every time she turns it into a big deal, and she has never asked for it ever and we have been married for 8 years, life is too short I think I'm going to look somewhere else and see how much she misses it when I'm gone

2007-12-15 13:48:32 · 12 answers · asked by mintman123 4

I was happy when we became engaged a few months ago, though we have been through many ups and downs in our relationship. I have experimented with women before and during our relationship a few times but nothing serious. He approved of me experiementing at the time because we are young. Now that we are going to be married, he wants us to be monogamous, and so do I.
The problem is that I met this woman (a lesbian) at work about a month ago, and I am very infactuated with her. We have become fast friends and have admitted that we are both attracted to eachother, but we are both taken so we are not going to act on it.
I realize that I don't really know her well, and it's probably just a "crush" but it's really bothering me that I have feelings for someone besides my fiance. Is this normal? Am I just afraid of committing? Should I just back off from our friendship? Help! I am too scared to admit this to any other friends or my family.
I have been open with him about my feelings for her.

2007-12-15 13:46:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

just found cousin's husband on adultfriendfinder.com
they just had a baby and his account is fresh and the pic are none too wholesome. what shld i do? i like him but you know what they say about blood...

2007-12-15 13:42:36 · 15 answers · asked by Kiome_274 1

2007-12-15 13:42:05 · 29 answers · asked by maburke71 1

My girlfriend and I have lived together for 3 years. When we first moved in together she was pretty good about helping me keep the house clean. Over time she got where she cleaned less and less and now she just sits there and reads or does cross word puzzles. If there is something she wants to do she will get up and do it. I'm not extremely picky about the house being cleaned but I don't like it when the sink overflows with dishes. There is only so much one person can do and maintain their sanity. Am I thinking about this all wrong?

2007-12-15 13:41:06 · 15 answers · asked by Tinker 2

my dad and step mom are getting a divorce because my dad drinks too much. She has been there for me my whole life basically, when my birth mother was not at all. I dont want her to stop talking to me or including me in family gatherings, when this offically happens. What should i do??

2007-12-15 13:36:11 · 10 answers · asked by ERIN B 1

knows all the details of your past and is alright with you still communicating....will continuing the communication prevent him from moving on if he feels he made the right decision to marry without love??

2007-12-15 13:35:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my partner have been together for 4 years now he is older then me and we both really love each other he was my first for many things we cant imagine life without each other my only problem is i really want to marry him but when i say anything he just laughs at me and makes a joke out of it he tells everyone else he would marry me and thats good as before he said he would never get married but now he tells everyone if he was to get married it would be with only me, when he as brought me rings ive said which finger is that for hint hint but he says IF we ever got married you would have a better ring then that but i dont want to be dangling i want to know theres nothing more i want but i dont think deep down he feels the same i think hes affraid i have told him theres nothing to be scared of i have agreed to sign saying i dont want nothing money and property wise so i dont no what the problem is please help i dont no what to do any suggestions?

2007-12-15 13:35:06 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

the human race would have died out .. i mean when they get sick.. who takes care of them.. US.. when we get sick.. it honey what for supper..lol

2007-12-15 13:30:26 · 10 answers · asked by vis 7

Many ups and downs in this marriage, I've tried to make it work. Days go by and things are fine. Are little annoyances a reason to leave?

2007-12-15 13:20:49 · 20 answers · asked by Ruairi 2

My ex was mentally abusive, having me trapped in a small village, was always leaving me for stupid reasons, despite being married, forced me into sex 8 days after a ceserean, I couldn't even roll over in bed without him questioning me,
He once tried to snatch our baby, and another time abandoned me on a dual carraigeway taking our baby with him
If I had an opinion on something it would be 'bye bi*ch'
I had to ask for permission to check my emails
I left him when he hit my daughters,
Now tonight 2 years on, I discovered he has created another baby after blanking our baby completely
I'm worried about the woman he's with,
Do they ever change, she has 2 other kids,

2007-12-15 13:20:36 · 24 answers · asked by Elle J Morgan 6

2007-12-15 13:13:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

for years when there was previously no chemistry or do think it would have been there all along???

2007-12-15 13:07:43 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-15 13:03:27 · 9 answers · asked by Wise Owl 2

In '03 her husband divorced her in the midst of being diagnosed with multiple sclerosis, although it was because he was an alcoholic and didn't want to face her and his kids. Since then he has lost 150 pounds due to surgery and still drinks, but for the past year he has been taking my aunt on vacations and she's basically living w/him.

He has told her repeatedly that he does not want to get married again, she does. She thinks he will change since he left his other girlfriend.

How can I prove to her that she's an idiot for doing this stuff?

2007-12-15 12:57:24 · 8 answers · asked by PlasticTrees 2

I want to hear from people that have been married a long time 20 plus years. Are the feelings still there? Or have you settled into a routine, comfortable with each other? Does your heart still pound and you get excited when you see the other person or they touch you?

2007-12-15 12:47:28 · 17 answers · asked by okie 2

My husband and I have been together for over 2 years. We just got married this past July. He's in the process of adopting my youngest daughter, who's 3, and I'm 4 months along with another addition. Back in September, I found out that he was masturbating to pornography behind my back and then lying about it to me. I am home all the time, so there should be no reason for it. I consider it cheating because he was doing it to the thought of another woman. We almost broke up then because he knew how I felt about it before he did it and he still did it and I don't have any tolerance for lying or cheating. I gave him a second chance. Now, I found out that he signed up for an online dating service and has been sending and receiving messages from other women, plus looking at their pictures. I said that I've had it and that it was the end of the relationship. Am I wrong for doing so? I love him so much and we have a lot together. What do you think I should do?

2007-12-15 12:43:44 · 20 answers · asked by gothmomma_2 1

Ok quick questions, who initiates sex in ur relationship? Do u find it to where one is initiating more then the other? How does that make u feel?
Who do u think should do the initiating most of the time?

I personally think it should be pretty much equal BUT the man is the one that has to have his friend at full attention. I like to do it a couple times in a row and how would I know if he could. Yes, I can get it there but how do I know how many times in a row IT can rise up for him, ya know. Some men can only "spit" once then it falls asleep, u know what I mean. Which then I think it's over. Shouldn't he initiate it if he's still able to perform?

Hmmmmm what do u think?

2007-12-15 12:43:13 · 9 answers · asked by ♥Pure Evil♥ 6

argument, before i could find out what that is....... what is it??

2007-12-15 12:40:00 · 5 answers · asked by biglou 3