Do You think 20 years old is too young to get married/ And what if their is a lack of trust between us?

Answer 1

Let see i got married the 1st time at age 21 and it was good for 8 years. But if you two have no trust then why get married?
If you two can't trust then you two need to work on that before marriage.I truely wish you the best.....Follow your heart.....

Answer 2

Yes, 20 years old is too young to get married. I waited until I was 26, after doing all the things that single people do. If there are things in life that you really want to accomplish, I really suggest doing them before getting married. I should have waited a couple of more years and finished what I needed to do. If there is no trust, you have no marriage. Trust me, I am dealing with a lack of trust in my marriage just recently and it's more difficult to deal with. Please, just live your life first.

Answer 3

Age I think does not matter as long as you understand what is needed for a successful marriage. I am 21 and my husband is 18. However trust is key. I have known him for 11 almost 12 years. He is in the navy in order for us to work we have to have trust for one another with him being gone 6 months every 2 years. So if you both feel ready then I say go for it. But if you lack trust then you are not ready. The lack of trust will only cause problems in the future.

Answer 4

I don't think 20 is too young because I've seen old high school sweethearts that are still together. But if there is a lack of trust then definitely don't get married. I think trust is the number one quality in the foundation of a relationship. If you don't have that, then marriage definitely shouldn't even be in the picture.

Answer 5

If you have trust issues with each other, now is not the time to get married.. if you are 20 or 100, and have trust issues, then perhaps this isn't the person for you.

there is always pre-marital counseling, as well... learning to communicate helps.

we can be madly in love with someone; however step back and LOOK AT the person... can you stand them for the rest of your life? can you believe what they say? are they honest? do they share your goals and ambitions? do they support your decisions? do they intend to save money?

you can get married anytime to anyone... make sure it's the special one...

take care

Answer 6

I was 20 when I got married. Sorry I can't say it went well. I thought it was a way to get out of my parents house. He was ready to make children and not take care of them. He wonted to go out all the time and I was left at home for the most part wondering where he was at 3am. It last 3 years. This is my story. Wish you the best............

Answer 7

yes and yes
I don't care how old you are if you don't have trust you shouldn't even be thinking about marriage. How on earth do you have a good marriage without trust??
but yes I think even with trust 20yrs is too young to get married.

Answer 8

Yes and if their is a lack of trust then that's a HUGE RED FLAG. Don't end up divorced because you don't want to use your brain now, when the signs are there saying wait.

Answer 9

Yes, it is too young to get married. And you need to develop trust with one another before committing to get married. Really I wouldn't get married before age 22.

Answer 10

age is of no importance as longs as
1..work at least 40-45 hours a week, just to pay your rent/mortgage
2..if you have a fight..you cant go running back to mommy and daddy..you actually have to face this one
3...He's the last person you will sleep with...EVER
4. he would die for you and vice versa
5..there is no jealousy between the two of you...meaning your not jealous of him and vice versa
6...you can pay your bills on time....and with your own money...again not mom and dads.
7....you can go without sex for months at a time
8.... Loyalty, respect, trust, communication!!!!