Marriage & Divorce - 15 December 2007

My ex cheated on me 6 months ago... we were set to be married and everything... we still talk to each other and see each other on the by and by... he seems so happy with her... its killing me... and it hurts the most right now because we would have been together 3 years this month... any helpful words... please

2007-12-15 12:34:11 · 16 answers · asked by mercedes O 1

Should he not love them both the same but for different reasons.
HIs mom gave him life and his wife shows him a new life.

I'm asking because I"m trying to understand an ex-coworker of mine who has said his wife will always come before his mom.-because she's HIS WIFE..(hes gone though several wifes for various reasons but HIS MOM is always there to help pick up the pieces...So I don't understand why he can't just love them equally...Is it wrong ??

2007-12-15 12:32:48 · 14 answers · asked by C 4

I really want to know what others might think about this. Yesterday my husband asked me to go to a concert by a band that I did not like. I reluctantly agreed, after much cajoling. When we got there he reminded me of a very important (to me) holiday party that we were missing.

When I asked him whey he didn't mention that when we were discussing what to do, he said he thought I knew already (when he had the invitation and I never saw it). He agreed that he did not forget about that other party.

Do you think he should have mentioned the other party to me? Do you think he did this on purpose. I do. I don't want to be angry but I missed out on something he knew was really important for a really bad concert by a local DJ.

2007-12-15 12:26:40 · 14 answers · asked by CiCi 1

It's the wife fault when a man cheat am I right

2007-12-15 12:23:43 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am nice and looking nice one

2007-12-15 12:19:16 · 15 answers · asked by Fikre B 1

2007-12-15 12:07:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

...* can be a person, place or thing, YOU never want to LOSE...

for me: 1. MY WIFE 2. THE LOVE FOR MY WIFE 3. LIFE
...ALLthe above will come to be...for now, IM selfish...

2007-12-15 12:05:15 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 22 years old and my aunt is 31 years old. We are related by marrige. Our family was on vacation so i satyed at her house. At night i was watching a movie in the bedroom and i was lying down on bed. It was a 2 bedroom house. She had a tv in the bedorom and i was watching. She came n and lied down so close to me in bed watching the tv. I was always in love with her so when she lied down near me i got nervous. After 15 minutes she told me to take off my shirt because the room was hot and i did. Then she put her arms around me and she came on top of me and we were watching the movie. I fell asleep and when i woke up we were both naked. help!! what do i do?

2007-12-15 12:02:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why was it lower in the past?

2007-12-15 12:01:48 · 19 answers · asked by snakebites1989 2

I was dating a man for about a year and a half now and I always knew he looked at porn, which I was ok with but the other day I was using his computer and looked at his history and saw that he had been looking at kiddie porn!!! I love this man very much but when I found out I broke it off with him, because that is just not something I think is not right. I did not tell him that I knew what he was looking at because I just felt very uncomfortable doing so but I know that the right thing to do is to turn him in to the law about this matter, because I am afraid that if he is not stopped now of what he may do to peoples daughters if he takes this to the next level. I feel really stupid asking this question but I don't know who to turn him in to. Do I go to the local police in his area or is there a special number to call about ts kind of thing. Also does anyone know when I report him do I have to give my name or can I remain anonymous because I'm not comfortable giving my name.

2007-12-15 11:56:38 · 20 answers · asked by vanillarose_19426 1

I want to go to law school, become a lawyer and live a comfortable/rich life. Marriage is not taken seriously nowadays, and most people divorce anyways. I want a lifelong partner, but just never get married. I dont want the responsibility and fear of losing most of my money to a gold digging whore. I also want to be independent and not have to consult anyone about every decision. I dont care if it makes me selfish, but its my life after all. So my questions is, what are the chances of finding a women who wants to be a lifelong partner but not get married, and do you think that there is something wrong with me to not conform with the rest of the society?

2007-12-15 11:55:41 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I left my husband back in April of this year.I moved out of the state.He told me he wants me back and I have a feeling he is moving here in order to do that.Yes,I love him,but he has hurt me a lot in the past and I finally found the strength to leave him.Since April I have not dated anyone or had sex with anyone.He slept with 5 women and even had a gf he lived with.This is tearing me apart and I just dont know what to do.I love him and miss him very much.We are married and Id hate to get a divorce.My gut is tellin me to stay away from him and my heart is tellin me how much I love this man.I know everyone is going to tell me not to go back to him.Would it be wrong for me to give this marriage another chance??ps:we dont have kids.

2007-12-15 11:48:53 · 20 answers · asked by Rain 1

I am 21 years old and my aunt is 32 years old. She married my uncle 2 years ago but I met her this year like in April. When I saw her I thought she was really pretty and hot. When I starting knowing her I fell in love with her. She has a good personality, funny, makes me smile, and really cool. She has such a pretty face. Last week I stayed at her house while everybody else was on vacation for 3 days. On the 3rd day in her house I was sitting in the couch watching a movie and she sat next to me. The air conditioner was on and she said she was really cold but I thought it was still hot. She started hugging me and she didn't take off the AC. Then she came on top of me and really started hugging me. I liked it but I didn't know what she was doing. She kept moving and was really hugging me and couldn’t let go. She was really grabbing me and then she put 1 hand under my shirt and 1 in my pants. Then I started hugging her and was touching her butt. I was so happy. I lied down on the couch and we were making out. I never knew she liked me. After making out for couple of minutes I wanted her so much I couldn’t let go of her. She was the reason I didn’t ask anybody out the entire year because of those feelings. After making out I carried her to the bedroom. I took off all my clothes except my boxers but she took every single clothes off. I didn’t know if I should take off my boxers but she took it off from me and we had sex. I stayed with her the entire night. She is incredible in bed. When we woke up I was facing her and she was facing me. We started talking on how great that was and I told her how I was in love with her for the entire year and how strong it was. She told me she always wanted to kiss me and be with me but she never knew it would go this far but she was really happy it did. She told me that she didn’t want to tell anybody yet and I agreed. As I was about to get dresses she stopped me and told me we still have 3 hours then she was like I want to take a nice hot bubble bath and was pulling me if I wanted to join her and I said hell yeah. We did it for like an hour and a half making love. After I left because everybody will be back soon I was se excited and happy. The next time I will see her is next Tuesday and I don’t know what to do. I’m really scared and nervous. I’m in so much trouble help!! This is serious and true and I don’t care if u don’t believe me just tell me what to do. Help!! She is very special to me. I wanted this for so long. When I jerk off I think about her. Please tell me what to do? I care about her so much.Even if i dont have sex with her i dont care. i love her before even the sex. When i saw her i fell in love. I want to be with her. I want to hold her hands, talk with her, smell her she smells good, touch her hair, kiss her, touch her lips, eat with her, when i wake up the first thing i want to see is her in my arms, and etc. i care about her too much.Its not lust. U people wont probably believe me but i dont care.I fel like she is my soulmate. In my life i want her to be cooking for me, sleeping with me, going out, talking, laughing, watching tv, kissing, making love and etc. I want to be with her. i was in love with her for a year. In your eyes she may not be hot as in hot but in my eyes she is. I will choose her for a billion dollars, jessica simpson, eva longoria, and etc. I'm telling the truth.What will u do in my position?

2007-12-15 11:43:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've looked online and at Party City, but I'm not finding but one thing. Any ideas? Also I need ideas for what to say on a divorce cake!

2007-12-15 11:42:24 · 34 answers · asked by Heather 4

I just got married, my husband wants to play Warcraft all day and i was feeling ignored. Am I sick for starting to like porn.

2007-12-15 11:40:32 · 16 answers · asked by Paola D 1

If I caught a pic of him am I aloud to show it to my sister?
He thought if he threatened to wear it I would

Here is what the dress looks like
http://www1.macys.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=279120&CategoryID=14514

2007-12-15 11:35:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I both working during days, but I'm the only one who picks up after my children, I even did all the yard works. Is our marriage over, yeah I do love him, but what he doesn't made me wonder if he loves me and our son back.

2007-12-15 11:35:09 · 13 answers · asked by 結縁 Heemei 5

My wife is getting older and having problems with bleeding after sex, we use k-y type lubricants and still intense sex makes her bleed, of course she worries that I will cheat on her if she does not submit.I have no intention to cheat,I love her heart ,soul and know all her ins and outs ,ups and downs, we are a perfect fit, But, the testosterone thing drives me crazy,advise?

2007-12-15 11:17:32 · 10 answers · asked by Joel S 1

My mum has told me she and her partner are getting married this February. My Dad is still bitter and hurt about being dumped almost 20 years ago. (Yes I did say 20!). He suffers with depression.

2007-12-15 11:06:26 · 18 answers · asked by M&B 5

I got dumped today by my girlfriend. She did it by e-mail. No, there were no signs, no signals. It was like I got punched in the stomach. I was careful not to strike out. I waited a while and then made a short diplomatic response, advising her I would follow up later in more detail.

Right now I feel terribly depressed and in pain. How do you handle it. I am 31, previously divorced. My gf is 26, so maybe there was too much an an age separation. Any advice???

2007-12-15 10:57:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

why most divorces are happening now a days and boys cheat a lot they only wants money nothing else no love they says no problem if forst is not with me i will go with other wife and second wife is also with him she didnt thought that he was married before give his love to other women

2007-12-15 10:31:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok about a year and half ago i exposed myself on webcam to some random girl on the internet. now i have been feeling guilty about it. i am married and my wife is very sensitive, so she gets mad and uncomfortable about this stuff. i am a catholic so i have been trying to do better things with my life. am i overrreacting..is this really a big deal..like as bad as adultery?

2007-12-15 10:30:40 · 5 answers · asked by the guy in orient 1

last night, me and my boyfriend of almost 5 years got into a fight because i woke him up several times because of his snoring. he promised he would not get mad if i woke him but he was snappy at me and said, i am going in the van to sleep in the driveway..he has done this several times this week and i felt it was my turn to go so i said no, i will go as my friend rented a hotel for me and i was suppose to go but did not so as i procceded to take up our 22 month old son and my 9 yr old daughter to take them with me, he got all mad that i was leaving and we argured..i went in the bedroom and he got me on the floor and put him hands on my neck, i screamed for my daughter to come in, he blocked me mouth, then let go and my daughter came in..i got quickly up and told him to leave RIGHT NOW, he kept trying to look at my neck and i was getting pissed so i told him again to leave and he did...this morning he came back to take a shower and i said are you coming home tonight and he said

2007-12-15 10:28:44 · 45 answers · asked by ♥Sexy Mama of 2 cuties♥ 7

I wanted to send them to a great dinner and then put them up in a nice hotel for the night. I'm assuming something near the ocean in Laguna or San Clemente is nice. Any suggestions of restaurants and/or hotels???

2007-12-15 10:27:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am married and have been for a yr but I find myself having dreams about having sex with other men is it OK? I have been with my husband for 11 yrs and been married like I said about a yr.

2007-12-15 10:26:56 · 5 answers · asked by wculpepper8606 2

Living together before marriage

Lots of people these days Live together or shack up before getting married. What are the pros and cons of that? Do people decide not to get married then after?

To me you do get to know one another better, but then when you do get married there's nothing special to look forward to.

Staying the night

Do you think it's okay to stay the night over? Is it a better choice to make than Living together if you're deciding to get married? Does it mean anything special if a guy suggest you to stay the night over and you two don't have sex.

Just curious

2007-12-15 10:26:37 · 3 answers · asked by tc22 3

I am having the worst year!! I feel like it will never get better. I am going thru a divorce,I went to jail,I lost my house,kids etc.. I went from having it all to having it all taken away. I even still love my husband! ( even though he helped put me in jail and is the reason I lost everything!) What should I do? How do i move on??

2007-12-15 10:20:34 · 10 answers · asked by bettys5incali 2

Marriage Family Councilors and Psychologists state that those who don't live together before marriage have healthier marriages. There seems to be a better sense of commitment in that relationship than those who went for a test ride to see if it would work.

2007-12-15 10:08:28 · 27 answers · asked by Charles S 4

I buy him porn and will watch every now and then. I start looking at the history button on my computer and I am having a hard time believing all the sites that he has been going on. I really want to cry. Some are just so far out there that I am just speechless. I called him at work and comfronted him about it. He made up excuse saying that they send him these things in his emails and that if you click on one then 90 more sites pop up. He states he doesn't go on them b/c they cost money. Am I just over reating ( some were transgender and she males) They are still in the history button so I know he went onto these sites.

2007-12-15 09:56:58 · 14 answers · asked by Bilinda G 6

I hate my life right now more then ever! I want to leave my husband so bad but we have a child together and I keep feeling extremely guilty about leaving my child behind to pursue my career and leaving her behind with her dad. I hate my husband, I hate my life, and all I want to do is drive off a bridge. I want to SCREAM!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-12-15 09:53:10 · 28 answers · asked by Behave 5