I am having the worst year!! I feel like it will never get better. I am going thru a divorce,I went to jail,I lost my house,kids etc.. I went from having it all to having it all taken away. I even still love my husband! ( even though he helped put me in jail and is the reason I lost everything!) What should I do? How do i move on??
2007-12-15 10:20:34 · 10 answers · asked by bettys5incali 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have never been on any kind of drugs!! I don't even drink!!
2007-12-15 10:59:01 · update #1
I dont smoke
2007-12-15 10:59:25 · update #2
Hang in there, things can only get better. If you are religiously inclined, turn to your faith to get you through. Lean on friends and family. Be kind to yourself.
2007-12-15 10:26:51 · answer #1 · answered by Morley 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ok, so I took a quick look through your other questions and here's what I think you should do. Stop playing the victim. Stop blaming your ex for all your problems. Either he's a genius for finding a way to both send you to jail when you did nothing, and "taking" your kids away (he got custody, right?) in California, where that almost NEVER happens, or you were actually responsible for what's happened. Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you deal with it. So deal with it! Get real, stop whining, get some help and be willing to help yourself for your kid's sake if not for your own.
2007-12-15 19:00:22 · answer #2 · answered by P 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a difficult question to answer because you had to have done something for all that to happen. I would suggest you begin by looking in a mirror. If you don't like what you see, start with that problem first.
2007-12-15 18:42:17 · answer #3 · answered by Doc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get off the drugs they make your life so much more stressful trust me when I tell you that.
2007-12-15 18:35:48 · answer #4 · answered by lisalisa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we all have really bad times, but seems you have had a hell of a year, i would recommend taking some councelling just for yourself, to try and refind your self of welbeing
2007-12-15 18:42:22 · answer #5 · answered by James S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think, what blunders, according to your husband, you have made, try to repent before him, he will come back.
2007-12-16 00:26:00 · answer #6 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take responsibility for once in your life
i am glad he made out with everything
as the divorce for so long has favored the women
justified or not
for so long
2007-12-15 18:27:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
get a hobbie,go out and enjoy life.make your kids life fun when they are with you.
2007-12-15 18:24:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no drugs....no booze....turn to God
2007-12-15 22:16:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what did u do??
2007-12-15 18:24:45 · answer #10 · answered by sarah71397 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋