ok about a year and half ago i exposed myself on webcam to some random girl on the internet. now i have been feeling guilty about it. i am married and my wife is very sensitive, so she gets mad and uncomfortable about this stuff. i am a catholic so i have been trying to do better things with my life. am i overrreacting..is this really a big deal..like as bad as adultery?
2007-12-15 10:30:40 · 5 answers · asked by the guy in orient 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
*Is Catholic*
I suggest that you don't worry about how big a deal this is. Go to confession and burry the thing in the blood of Christ. Do your penance and let this go and concentrate on your wife and your love for her.
Also I agree with the others, you have to get rid of the webcam. It is just a reminder of what occured.
If you did this while you were married then your wife will make a big deal out of this as is her right. It is not necessary to tell her, if you haven't already. Telling her depends more so on your relationship and other factors that you have not stated.
2007-12-18 07:43:25 · answer #1 · answered by Liet Kynes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not over-reacting... it is a big deal. You exposed yourself to someone other than your wife which is basically pornography... and being a catholic, I am sure you know how the catholic church sees pornography as well as infidelity. But it really doesn't matter what religion you are... or are not. I would agree that regardless of your wife's sensitivity, she has every right to be upset. Do your best to regain her trust. Get rid of the webcam... and focus on the two of you.
2007-12-15 10:44:04 · answer #2 · answered by Kim 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ur religion has nothing to do with this.. it is about morals and
character..
it is about if u get caught??? and it destroys Ur marriage or Ur family fines out.. ?????
how embarrassing..???
Forgive Ur self.. and ask Ur higher power to forgive u.. then move one.. and just pray..
that she didn't take a pic of it and save it.. if u still no her address.. u could write to her.. and kindly ask her if she did..??
I am sure everything is going to be OK..
if u still have the same address u need to change it asap..
good luck.. happy holidays.
2007-12-15 17:10:41 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Blondie ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think u have learnt your lesson if u r still worrying about 11/2 yrs later do u feel guilty b/c u enjoyed it??personally i wouldnt want anyone seeing my other half like that i like to think hes exclusivley mine in that way
2007-12-15 10:45:52 · answer #4 · answered by sarah71397 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being catholic has nothing to do with it.... You're just an idiot. In her place I'd be pretty disgusted..... juvenile
2007-12-15 10:35:18 · answer #5 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋