I got dumped today by my girlfriend. She did it by e-mail. No, there were no signs, no signals. It was like I got punched in the stomach. I was careful not to strike out. I waited a while and then made a short diplomatic response, advising her I would follow up later in more detail.
Right now I feel terribly depressed and in pain. How do you handle it. I am 31, previously divorced. My gf is 26, so maybe there was too much an an age separation. Any advice???
2007-12-15 10:57:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
26 to 31 is not a huge age gap...I'm sure that wasn't it. Getting dumped always hurt. If I were you, I would seek an honest answer for the reason she broke if off...if it's something you are doing wrong it will give you an opportunity to do a self evaluation and make any needed changes before you are in another relationship.
It's unfortunate...but sometimes it just doesn't work. Chalk it up to lessons learned, give your heart some time to heal, and then get back out there! She may not have been the right one, but somewhere out there....she's waiting!
2007-12-15 11:03:39 · answer #1 · answered by ladybug 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dude take a deep breath. The pain your feeling is natural. Yeah your hurt but if she dumped you move on. Don't go crying to her and ask the scum bag why she broke up obviously she doesn't give a rats ***. That is pretty rude to break up the way she did. Beware not to go into a depression call your friends tonight (SATURDAY NITE) and go party. #$#@ her and show her she wasn't everything in your life.
2007-12-15 11:09:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was 26 when i met my husband and he was 33 age is just a number its not like theres a massive age gap between you take a deep breath and allow your self some time you sound like you had alot riding on this realationship as u said u were divorced b4 i think it was a little insensitive to end it by e-mail though
2007-12-15 11:07:43 · answer #3 · answered by sarah71397 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at the bright side you didn't marry her> The drama is now over>Found out in time>go slower next time there are some real crushers out there>Look at the bright side you didn't get her a Christmas Gift> Then she left>>Don't think on what happened be happy it did>Move on>The age difference i don't think so>
2007-12-15 11:47:33 · answer #4 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Emotional soreness, i'd assume..... you could wipe out the actual soreness by making use of a few ability or the different, yet no longer the emotional soreness. This soreness could be healed in basic terms by making use of suggestions gadgets of individuals and by making use of no longer the rest.
2016-11-03 09:46:40 · answer #5 · answered by cracchiolo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think the age difference is too much. I think there just may be a difference in maturity levels. The fact that she would dump you by email tells alot about hers.
2007-12-15 11:04:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry you are hurting. You need to just move on. Even though it hurts now with time it Will be less. You might have jumped into this relationship to soon after your divorce. You might want to think about some counseling....
2007-12-15 11:01:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she sounds young since she left you via email - how nice!?!
age difference isnt huge but she doesnt sound like the one who appreciates ya.
personally id ignore her and not even follow up on her, and leave the ball in her court , then eventually when her anger is snuffed out and she feels for you again you can say rack off!
now whos laughing!
2007-12-15 11:07:48 · answer #8 · answered by dot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to here but may be your right you should just move on and find someone else to love you being dumped that way means she wants to avoid a confrontation with you so just move on that is the best thing you can do for your self and her obviously
2007-12-15 11:08:30 · answer #9 · answered by tashie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your looking for a long term relationship you need a women over 30 who has been divorced for a few years.
She has been single awhile and realizing there is no more green pasture!
2007-12-15 11:09:19 · answer #10 · answered by lisalisa 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋