I buy him porn and will watch every now and then. I start looking at the history button on my computer and I am having a hard time believing all the sites that he has been going on. I really want to cry. Some are just so far out there that I am just speechless. I called him at work and comfronted him about it. He made up excuse saying that they send him these things in his emails and that if you click on one then 90 more sites pop up. He states he doesn't go on them b/c they cost money. Am I just over reating ( some were transgender and she males) They are still in the history button so I know he went onto these sites.
2007-12-15 09:56:58 · 14 answers · asked by Bilinda G 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm not worried about the porn so much as the transgender crap, the she males, That has me alot worried.
2007-12-15 10:28:20 · update #1
If he actually typed in the site address, it will be in the drop down address bar at the top of the page. If it's in the history, you should be able to expand each sites section to see just how many pages he viewed from each site. If he was clicking around too long on those shemale sites, a pop up or not, he was looking. If it's a pop up and it's closed, it will only show one listing for the site, and that no other pages were viewed. If you really want to get him, go buy a strap on, put it on, and when he gets home toss him a bottle of astro glide and tell him to bend over.
2007-12-15 10:08:51 · answer #1 · answered by daeraelle 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Your husband is telling you the truth. That is how we found that our teenage boy had looked at some sites. They kept popping up after that. Watching porn is not something to get upset over. He knows that you know that he watches it and that you do not care.Someone answered you that you started his addiction. Watching porn is not an addiction. An addiction is when he does nothing but watch it and he does it instead of having sex with you. When his whole life revolves around it. Look at some of those sites. Most of them do cost money and they are trying to get you to go there. I would think that you are overreacting. Talk to him about it.
2007-12-15 18:30:20 · answer #2 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hello, he married you!! I don't think there anything to worry about, he probably was curious, there is so much crazy porn out there it's unbelievable. Women freak out when they see stuff like this but women look at woman on woman porn all the time and they aren't lesbians! It's all fantasy and image overload, that's the problem with porn, the more you watch, the easier it is to get bored and so you need more stimulus to get excited.
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He may also want to try some kinkier stuff and experiment! Still dosn't mean he is gay.
2007-12-15 18:12:47 · answer #3 · answered by Lv Dr. 4U 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
#1. the history button shows the site he's LOGGING onto. all those little adds you see as pop-ups don't go on your history menu.
#2. sit down and have a talk with him. if it's something that the two of you do together, then that's one thing. if it's something he's doing all alone, that's another.
2007-12-15 18:24:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If one is into porn, they end up looking at every unconceveable part of any porn sight. He's trying to get over on you because a part of him feels guilty, but he really shouldn't sence you say you also watch it.
are you affraid he might start sneeking off with your panties and weraing them or what? It's ok sense you like porn too all should be fair!
2007-12-15 18:16:34 · answer #5 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well u buy him porn so whats the difference?? U can't buy him porn then say porn on the comp is wrong, u need to make up ur mind. Porn or no porn. So yes I think u are considering YOU buy it!
2007-12-15 18:09:40 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Pure Evil♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dont over react i know it is kinda freaky but at least it was not kiddy porn
he does speak the truth that there are emails that say simple things like friend looking for help you open it up and the next thing you know you browser has opened 100 windows and yes it is usually porn, but even if he did look at it there is nothing wrong with just looking
keep it in perspective as long as he is sleeping inyour bed every night that is what matters
2007-12-15 18:03:02 · answer #7 · answered by justtrytobenice 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
So sorry dear, but from what you have said you have made it okay for him to view porn. If you are uncomfortable with this now, maybe you should give more thought before you open any more doors.
2007-12-15 18:16:47 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Molly 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would be concerned as well dear. Have you asked him if he "likes" the transgender "models"??? i used to have questions about my ex-hubby and his sexuality as well. Since he's my ex now, i couldn't care less, but he's also in prison so i guess if he liked men at all ~~ well, here's his chance to find his true love *bad, bad, bad sorry:) *
2007-12-15 18:47:31 · answer #9 · answered by mommy 2 4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well why would you buy him porn to begin with??? You started his addiction with porn. Once a guy is hooked he is hooked.
Sorry it's the truth
2007-12-15 18:02:28 · answer #10 · answered by conny 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋