Marriage & Divorce - 4 December 2007

...lasting very long during "encounters" with my wife? If I called myself a "minute-man", I'd be lying because 60 seconds is really good for me...

Is there anything I can do to make myself last longer?

2007-12-04 17:10:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

3 months ago i found out that my husband's cheating on me with his ex girlfriend. ive read all their emails and saw all the phone calls on my husband's bill. husband apologizes, changed number,emails, etc. and even cursed the b*tch over the phone (the ex lives in another state, btw) so they never had sex its just a long distance relationship but still it was too much for me. i want the girl's husband to find out so she'll suffer too. i felt like she got away with it coz shes still ok with her husband after my husband dumped her and my family's the one that got affected. i want to get even but i don't know how. sometmes i just want to forget bout it but i just can't any advice?

2007-12-04 17:00:21 · 28 answers · asked by diamondgurl 1

I am 20 years old and currently 3 months pregnant and my boyfriend is 25. My whole thing right now is that we're in a great relationship and love each but I seriously want to get married before the baby is born in may. My question is should I press the issue of marriage on him, or should I just wait and see what happens? I don't know if by me asking him why don't we get married would put any negative pressure on it?

2007-12-04 16:59:11 · 14 answers · asked by Noodles 2

Okay me and my husband have been together for 8 years and married 2, I stoped haveing sex because it's just not good to me anymore, and feel it's a waste of my time to have sex if I'm not even into it. My husband told me he would leave me beacuse were not having sex..married men and women what do you think about this?

2007-12-04 16:51:19 · 27 answers · asked by Sunshine 2

boyfriend is having a hard time finding jobs since he has been out of jail this year (due to record) we have looked everywhere for jobs he has filled out tonss of applications. he was hooked up at a job right now earning abt 7 per hour. He struggles with rent EVERY month but still thinks he can afford to buy useless stuff which is so ANNOYING.He HAD lots of money but manage to spend it He's the type that would buy 20,000 rims and stays in an apartment on welfare(which is STUPID) im trying to be a good girlfriend staying there for him when times are hard all that good stuff but i can't see a future with him (marriage) because of his spending habits. I seriously want my kids to enjoy the good things n life instead of seeing their parents struggle, i want to afford insurance! we are both very young (im only19 hes 22) but this is just the stuff i think about. Im serious abt my "future family"( no kids at the moment) and money. Would someone's bad money habits be a deal breaker for you??

2007-12-04 16:47:23 · 31 answers · asked by Helpkwas! 2

I live in Texas and I am going through a divorce. I was looking at getting custody of both of our children when my ex dropped the bomb that she was pregnant when we got married and not by me. She actually produced the guy and we had court ordered testing done..he is her father and he has known all along. My daughter is now living with her mother and won't even talk to me stating I am not her father she wants to find out who her father is and get to know him. I have my son and we will be going to court soon to finish everything. I just would like to know what court prcedences have been set in situations like this one. I think someone owes me 14 years of back child support since I provided 100 percent of the support since she was born!

2007-12-04 16:45:44 · 16 answers · asked by Eric F 1

Hes negative all the time and no matter what i do hes always pessimistic and mad. Hes angry at the world and he always keeps things to himself. He also suffers from paranoia.WHAT DO I DO>?

2007-12-04 16:44:28 · 10 answers · asked by DEE 1

A friend of mine is 18 years old. He wants to get married to his 15 year old girlfriend. He just proposed to her and their in love. Sexual relations aside, what will it take for them to get married in Washington State, or surrounding Northwest states?

I don't want any BS replies and answers, no calling him a pervert, or child molester. No idiot comments is all I'm saying.

Is it possible for them to get married under the law? With or without parental consent?

Now please answer my question, my question is not should they, but how can they. They don't need YOUR opinion about it, or your advice relating to shoulds, and should nots, they simply want to know if it's possible, and how it's possible.

2007-12-04 16:38:45 · 22 answers · asked by Mr. Unknown 2

Ok, well my now fiance and I got engaged last Friday. We kept it to ourselves for the most part, for the first few days. We told just a few very close friends. Well its been 5 days and this is something extremely exciting for me, I wanted to tell the ppl I care about you know? So I kept asking my fiance, hey, when are you gonna tell your parents and my dad? And we just never had the right moment honestly. So tonight I said Brad, I really want to tell everyone. And he said ok, just do it. So I posted a bulletin on my myspace. My myspace is ONLY ppl I personally know! Well his sister saw it and called his mom, and his mom is freaking out. She was screaming crying, etc. I mean, shes upset that he didnt tell her before we got engaged. But thats our decision. Its not like we went out and got married. The wedding is well over a year away! Should we feel guilty? I mean its our choice to be engaged or not, it was going to happen anyway, talking to them or not. I feel so miserable now Should I?

2007-12-04 16:34:06 · 18 answers · asked by Mary 4

ilike to ask is 33 years off ageand iam 31 can she still have baby

2007-12-04 16:33:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is cute and friendly. I love him but sometimes he hurts me in ways he doesn’t understand. We have been married for 20 years with three fine boys. The problem is he has been caught with other woman in ways I don't like. Women are coming on to him when I happen to be there. The thing is I am not there that much to check up on him at his work and other places he goes. For how many times I do, (20 years), I have seen things that would make most women leave. One time my husband was in a sexual position with another, and for about all the times I have visited him there was a woman in his office making the move. The thing is I know he is the instigator. He said he is just a friendly person and I know that because he has had a lot of woman all over him. Just about wherever he goes he will meet woman. He has told me a few of these ladies’ stories and what they wanted to do to him!!

2007-12-04 16:22:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive changed my life i used to sell drugs but not anymore. god came and got me but know i need help catching up on my support

2007-12-04 16:18:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

After your divorce, is rebound sex a good thing? Before you move on to something more serious?

2007-12-04 15:51:18 · 17 answers · asked by PHP 2

is it normal to want attention from your husband or is that being needy. He thinks all i want is attention if he comes in the house and does not say a word to me. Am i asking too much

2007-12-04 15:50:48 · 33 answers · asked by Sad Eyes 2

how long does the initial passion/crazy feeling last in a new relationship? and what is replacing that feeling?

2007-12-04 15:49:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-04 15:49:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

The man I love is busy IM'm my best friend and ignoring me wtf. Do u think he's cheating w/ her?

2007-12-04 15:45:49 · 15 answers · asked by ♥Pure Evil♥ 6

2007-12-04 15:39:03 · 15 answers · asked by Fletcher G 1

i was involved in a casual sex situation for about a month. I wasnt looking for anything serious. I hung out with the guy 2 weekends in a row (initiated by him) and now i suddently havent heard from him. I did text him sat night just to say hi, he wrote back right away, but still....i sort of feel like i did something wrong or i guess he just lost interest. I will never do this again...i feel cheap and dirty. I think it's worse because he is a shady person, now i'm like what was i thinking i must be as shady as he is.

2007-12-04 15:36:18 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was wondering

2007-12-04 15:35:52 · 27 answers · asked by I dont know 1

I work in home health care i had a client today who seemed to be ok,and it was my first time working for her she also had a husband. well, i did tons of work for her and i usually work pretty fast and when i finished,which was a whole hour and 15 minutes earlier,she told me i could go home i then told her i wanted all my hours she told me she no longer needed my services and i should go.i was upset because i did above and beyond my job and all i got was attitude from her and didnt get all my hours in her husband never said a word although he seemed to really like me when i came in why do u think she did this and what way would u had handled it ?

2007-12-04 15:34:41 · 13 answers · asked by cocoa 4 3

2007-12-04 15:25:06 · 10 answers · asked by ctsanders5 3

hi my name is syrenna...
im in u.s. and I have a boyfriend in my country dominican republic. he is a nice guy with me but people think he is bad guy that uses drugs, drinks and do bad things. i love him and he tells me that he does too. i want your opinion......... tell me what can i do? stay with him or search for other man??????

2007-12-04 15:12:48 · 11 answers · asked by annerys d 1

i dont think its right and it gets under my selfesteem really badly(being kinda fluffy myself). he says its not that big of a deal and im making a mt over a mole hill and basically defends this crap to the end and yet its not that big of a deal. is it normal? should i just get over it? i really dont think its health and his big thing is the net... if it was vidio i dont think it would be such a problem but the net is too easy and is a "couple of times a week" type thing. ive herd ppl get hooked and become preditors. i dont get it and im ready for an enullment cuase if its not that big of a deal and he fights that much for it then where on the list does that leave me?

2007-12-04 15:08:55 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay maybe i might be jealous but the problem is that -to me-is that he still has feelings for his ex, and that everytime he talks about her he sounds so bitter..like he can't let go okay, so they were together for 5yrs. it's not there's any ties that are binding him to her. WE have kids together! he's been so mean to me since he's came back from deployment i'm trying to let him adjust to being back but damn it seems like we can't move on from HER

2007-12-04 15:07:49 · 10 answers · asked by Lashelle H 1

me and him are 22 years old ..i am done with my BA .. and he is still in college .. he wants to marry me now and my dad wants him to graduate first .. still two years to graduate so what can i do .. i love him to death .. i am afraid of losing him ...

2007-12-04 15:05:33 · 16 answers · asked by dodo s 1

ever wonder who your spouce has been with before you . and if there still thinking about them after all did you come in . first with them or. second while. married or divorced

2007-12-04 15:02:32 · 11 answers · asked by matthew v 3

I know you folx are probably going to laugh?

But, I had a dream that I was having sex with Denny Crane. I don't usually remember my dreams. But, this one I did. I told my husband and we had a good laugh.

However, I wonder what the heck that was all about.

What do you guys and gals think?

2007-12-04 15:01:56 · 5 answers · asked by Indypendence 3

2007-12-04 14:59:51 · 30 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2

In relationships. With the current state of things in that area. From fidelity, trust, honesty, commitment, integrity, values etc. With the current state of how things look now(and there's a lot!)

Do think this is a sign of a big social change? Now arguably, many will say. Things are the same now, as they were 50 years ago. Everything is just more out in the open. And I think I would agree with that!

But for the shake of argument. Do feel we are seeing the end of something?

And don't say marriage, because that's WEAK!!!

2007-12-04 14:56:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous