Marriage & Divorce - 4 December 2007

My girlfriend doesnt like it if I masturbate. I think its healthy but she doesnt agree, she says "if you're fullfilled with me theres no need for porn and masturbation and that in a way its cheating in my mind"...what should I do???

2007-12-04 14:52:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am very curious about this! I always wonder, if both the husband and wife have an extremely high sex drive, that puts them into this kind of lifestyle. Or does it just take for one [husband or wife] to be extremely horny for sex all the time to enter into this type of lifestyle. Thanks guys for your honest answers.

2007-12-04 14:51:24 · 13 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2

I have been reading some posts and have come up a few times with something that needs clarifying. Let me explain. I read that a wife/husband have secret saving accounts that will not be touched till they get divorced. Please be careful because if the spouse finds out about it after the divorce, he can take you back to court and 9 times out of 10, they are awarded 100% of the assests since you did accumilate the money during your marriage and tried to hide it. If you come clean during the divorce, they will probably only get 1/2. Please be honest because when you try to cheat you will get caught one way or another.

2007-12-04 14:48:41 · 6 answers · asked by califdreamer_2000 3

Do you also feel bad and devastated? Do your conscience also haunt you, or you just don't care?

2007-12-04 14:39:55 · 12 answers · asked by carla 1

i want to know exactly my future , marriage and education

2007-12-04 14:38:16 · 7 answers · asked by Susan T 1

2007-12-04 14:38:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

And you are bored??

2007-12-04 14:36:16 · 17 answers · asked by elpackage 2

It is so difficult to find a virgin for marriage. I am very frustrated.

I am a virgin man, never done anything sexual with a girl before, so I expect my future-wife to have done the same: to have never done anything sexual with another man.

I do not want a girl who's had sex before. The fact that she's had other men before me brings about feelings of inferiority, insecurity, jealousy and resentment. That's why I wouldn't want her if she wasn't a virgin. Love wouldn't matter, because I would never love a girl who cheated me like that.

I've been waiting for her; she should likewise be waiting for me.

Why is it so difficult to find a virgin for marriage? It seems like every girl has done sexual things with other guys. Why can't I find a girl who, like me, hasn't done anything sexual with another person?

2007-12-04 14:35:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

also, i need it free. the main thing i am interested in is the exact date that they were married. i REALLY need to know. can anyone help me, PLEASE?

2007-12-04 14:31:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I get along very well, but we have problems in our marriage. He is in 60's and I'm in 20's he cares about me so much and I know he loves me. I left him and work in other state. And he is un employed. I dont know what to do. But I love him.

2007-12-04 14:25:27 · 13 answers · asked by Kc 1

in other words, why do older men like younger women?

2007-12-04 14:18:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

For years, before I met her, I was a terrible porn addict. I got over it, and am today porn-free, but she doesn't know a thing about my terrible past. Should I tell her? At this point, I'm sure she won't leave me for it. But I'm concerned about what she will think of me after I tell her.

2007-12-04 14:15:08 · 18 answers · asked by airforcewolf 4

2007-12-04 14:03:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know it's just her insecurity and guilt for having cheated on me. She won't let it go and it's really beginning to piss me off because I have always been faithful. If you check my profile you will see that honesty, integrity and character mean everything to me. Any suggestions?

2007-12-04 14:02:03 · 16 answers · asked by Rick 5

It seems that many marriages are bringing in 3 somes's, wife swapping, husband swapping, swinging and sharing the spouse around. Have lots and lots of hot sex, everywhere. But what happens to our children in this generation of computers and internet?? What will our children become from all of this??? Thanks guys for your honest answers in advance.

2007-12-04 13:44:34 · 16 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2

2007-12-04 13:44:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Stay with your husband if he told you he loves someone else and never loved you? Would you be able to stay in the marriage with him or kick him to the curb?

2007-12-04 13:34:47 · 20 answers · asked by PurplePeace 5

doesn't spy on me enough. Doesn't he love me?

2007-12-04 13:24:29 · 40 answers · asked by Daz 2

My husband and I met when I was 15....we have been together for 12 years now and married for 8. We have two beautiful little girls. He is in the Army and right now, he is on his FOURTH deployment in the past 8 years. I love him with all my heart and we were honestly happy....DON'T get me wrong...we have had our rough patches but I never doubted for a second that we would make it through. Well, I found out three weeks ago that he has been sleeping with my "friend" for the past 4 years. She is a married women with three children....and our husbands were close as well. Well, I confronted him with this about 2 weeks ago (via email) and he called me for the first time, last night. He waited TWO WEEKS to call me, claiming he "didn't know what to say." He told me that he never loved her....that it was only sex.....he loves me and he doesn't know why he does the things he does. I would love to hear from men/women who have done this to the people that they love.

2007-12-04 13:11:50 · 42 answers · asked by alk24238 2

He bought the plane ticket without telling me. Im extremely upset because he didnt tell me. Am I overeacting?

2007-12-04 13:09:02 · 29 answers · asked by sola 1

2007-12-04 13:08:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while. When we first met he told me that he was going through a divorce and that it was as friendly as can be. Being in the military he was unable to finish the divorce process until his orders were finished. But he wouldn't tell his "wife or kids". How should I feel?

2007-12-04 13:03:26 · 22 answers · asked by ??? 2

you found out your husband has been frequenting a sex site to find other women to have sex with. And he has also posted nude pictures of himself on this site, and has been emailing women & chatting with them. I found this out by accident, but it is true & I saw it with my own eyes. Should I confront him or what shoudl I do??

2007-12-04 13:02:26 · 17 answers · asked by majortravisfan 2

I haven't seen or heard from my kiwi ex for over a decade, and a lot of water has gone 'under the bridge' since then. I have married, had children, settled down, but a part of me always wonders what he is doing, and how he is doing, and sometimes i just wish i could contact him and say hi. We shared a lot of big stuff together, and i'd love to catch up for old times sake.

Is it inappropriate to do this, even though my intentions are purely innocent? Maybe you should never contact an ex if you are married, even if you know you just want to say hi?

Any thoughts would be great.

2007-12-04 13:00:28 · 12 answers · asked by harttattoo 3

My fiance and I just had a major falling out. I smashed the car today (my car) and after explaining to him it was my fault, he felt like playing video games and said he didn't want to deal with this right now. I asked for a hug, and he didn't want to give me one. So of course, i got upset... yeh, I sound needy but I really needed a hug, after all I was so upset and angry with myself, I didn't need him to be angry at me too. I said he should be supporting me and that he is not being there for me and he got REALLY angry to that. Who is in the right here?

2007-12-04 12:58:55 · 11 answers · asked by cometthegrommit 2

2007-12-04 12:58:37 · 9 answers · asked by A friendly Jihad 4

I've gained a little over 50 pounds and I like to read romance novels more than I like to talk to my spouse.

Why doesn't he love me for who I am?

2007-12-04 12:50:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a Stay at home dad and think that my wife is abusing our relationship and monetry situation because she is the sole money earner.
Before you all start sticking the knife in; I paid cash for our house and all landscaping payments approx $190K, her only input towards home was our section and that was approx half of the section costs $14K (K = $1000.00),.
Now that I don't earn a wage whenever I spend any money on little things like a bakery lunch approx $8.00 once a week, or small amounts on gardening items possibly every month, (never over $20.00) she makes me feel like I was spending our last dollar and I feel very guilty, but whenever she wants something like tickets to a concert $125.00 or new shoes $70.00, money never seems to be a problem.
She may think that it is a joke to her but when she brings it up around other people I feel like I've been kicked in the guts.
This always happens when people aren't paying her enough attention and really makes me angry? Help Please!

2007-12-04 12:42:24 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is going to sound weird, but I'm trying to figure out a place to go for a couple nights to a week. The purpose is to give my husband some time away from me and to himself to do whatever he wants to do. He never has ANY time to himself, and I'm constantly around him when he's not at work. I think a little seperartion would be healthy for our marriage and would give him a chance to actually miss me for once, ya know? The problem with that is that I can't just go to a friends house or my parents house or something and try to explain everything I just explained ... that's not really normal, lol. And plus my husband doesn't really like the idea. So I need to come up with a camp.. or a retreat... or something where I can spend a few nights away for a more legitimate reason. Does anyone have any ideas of where I could go without my husband to get away??

2007-12-04 12:40:35 · 22 answers · asked by Mary 2

Go back with the knowledge you have now, and take another shot at it, Life?

2007-12-04 12:40:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous