doesn't spy on me enough. Doesn't he love me?
2007-12-04 13:24:29 · 40 answers · asked by Daz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
LOL...you have to be joking...right????
2007-12-04 13:26:53 · answer #1 · answered by pissy_old_lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need your husband to spy on you in order to love you. That is what trust is all about.
Maybe you both need to look at your relationship and talk about ways to help each other feel loved. It sounds as if there is some underlying problems in your home.
2007-12-04 13:28:19 · answer #2 · answered by L S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would definitely be weird if your husband was spying on you. Maybe you want to be worshipped by him and that is why if he doesn't have to know every waking minute what you are up to, then you don't feel validated? YOU need some counseling, in a hurry, and with a psychiatrist, NOT a psychologist, because you definitely will need some MEDS. Good luck.
2007-12-04 13:28:52 · answer #3 · answered by know it all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spy or watch? If it's actually spying, that seems odd. If it's just watching you, not everyone does. Try doing something out of the ordinary if you want him to watch you.
2007-12-04 13:29:52 · answer #4 · answered by GJax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you need to be spy ed on sounds like you have a few insecurities that you need to work on maybe you can try including your husband let him know how you feel that you need lots of attention but spying is not what you need
2007-12-04 13:29:45 · answer #5 · answered by been there and know now 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want him to spy on you? Sounds like he Trusts You, and That my dear, is a hard quality to find in people these days. You are Blessed !!!
2007-12-04 13:28:15 · answer #6 · answered by casper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He either trusts you very much, or he is cheating and dont have time to spy. Hopefully the first.
2007-12-04 13:28:11 · answer #7 · answered by dannah1129 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want him to spy on you? He loves you and he trusts you. Consider yourself lucky.
2007-12-04 13:36:50 · answer #8 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't really say that he loves you only he can say that but what I will say is some men just don't feel like being bothered with all those childish games that some women tend to want to play! Maybe you should stop doing things to test his ivestigating and cuddle up with paop-corn and a movie and ask him does he love you?
2007-12-04 13:48:26 · answer #9 · answered by Hunnie Bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course! Your husband probably just thinks that if he spied on you it would be a violation of your privacy. If you are realy not sure, I would talk to him myself. Try to be clear on one thing though, your love for each other. In the end that's what truly matters most.
There are plenty of fairytales that do'nt end happily ever after so make sure this love story lasts.
Hope that helps.
-O'Livi a
2007-12-04 13:31:18 · answer #10 · answered by .~.♥.~. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing worse than a woman who needs her husband to be jealous about her, is a jealous husband.
Both people are showing tremendous insecurity.
2007-12-04 13:27:57 · answer #11 · answered by karate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋