hi my name is syrenna...
im in u.s. and I have a boyfriend in my country dominican republic. he is a nice guy with me but people think he is bad guy that uses drugs, drinks and do bad things. i love him and he tells me that he does too. i want your opinion......... tell me what can i do? stay with him or search for other man??????
2007-12-04 15:12:48 · 11 answers · asked by annerys d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its as simple as this if he truly loves u and u truly love him forget about those other people its your life not theirs make your own decisions about who you want to lie down with.
2007-12-04 15:39:43 · answer #1 · answered by cocoa 4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Syrenna,
If your man is really doing those bad things (drink & do drugs), then those people are right about him.
However, it all depends on what you are willing to accept as a woman.
En mi opinion, I think you are limiting yourself. If he doesn't change his life for the better then he can only bring you down. Is that what you want? In all areas of live, you should want to improve. And improvement takes putting the right people around you to help along the way.
Buena Suerte.
2007-12-04 15:32:55 · answer #2 · answered by Talkstress 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
long distant relationships are doomed to failure.
second, if everybody is saying the samething about a person, you must have to think there maybe some truth in it.
it is up to you what you should do though. just ask yourself how do you really know what he is up to being so part from each other. i am willing to bet, he has another girlfriend. stop wasting your time
2007-12-04 15:37:52 · answer #3 · answered by karMA_DAME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I do not know if he is a bad guy. But any guy that does drugs is a stupid guy. You asked if you should stay with him, the druggy, or search for another man.
If you want the truth. Dump the druggy and do not search for another man. Stay single for a while and get to know yourself and what you want.
2007-12-04 15:17:43 · answer #4 · answered by Babe 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
You shouldn't have to ask a world full of strangers what you should do with your relationship.
If you don't know, then you need to do some heavy duty THINKING about it.
2007-12-04 15:35:33 · answer #5 · answered by lady_phoenix39 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No matter how nice he is to you, if he uses drugs, then find someone else.
2007-12-04 15:41:50 · answer #6 · answered by just me 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to listen to other people who are trying to help you why ask all of us? They know you and him better than any of us. Get it?
2007-12-04 15:33:00 · answer #7 · answered by beamer 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you are a whole person, a human being, without being with him and without searching for another man.......hold your head up high....quit looking down towards the gutters and reach for your dreams......don't ever ever settle for less than.........
2007-12-04 15:21:33 · answer #8 · answered by abc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
does he do drugs? does he drink? does he show respect to authority? if he doesnt respect authority figures he'll never hold a job. if he's only nice without that is not a good sign
2007-12-04 15:21:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
You are a beautiful woman who deserves better. Accept it and settle for nothing less than you deserve.
Good luck.
2007-12-04 15:16:56 · answer #10 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋