Marriage & Divorce - 6 November 2007

my my fiancé was married from before and had a very possessive ex wife, who wants to know his every move.also his fiances. Even now she still does ,even though that shes assured us that I don’t have to worry about her, she fine with us.but she calls up his mother and sisters asking them if they were aware of him having another woman in his life.The worse part she wouldn’t even allow him to his son ,only for 3hrs per week.I’m very new to this kinds of lifestyle , and don’t know how to tackle it..even though I love him and just want him all to myself ..without her interfering.

2007-11-06 11:23:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

like your spouse to drink ?

2007-11-06 11:14:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

For instance, should the cheatee go out and have a fling to even the score? Would this prove anything?

2007-11-06 11:12:24 · 21 answers · asked by Angelonearth 1

buy your spouse a gift????

2007-11-06 11:10:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

have 2 kids both citizens, she is not what will happen to her.

2007-11-06 10:51:10 · 12 answers · asked by j w 1

Would it make you mad if 3 out of 5 days he didn't come home after work? Plus every Sunday was gone & works Saturdays?

2007-11-06 10:49:37 · 28 answers · asked by ♥bigmamma♥ 6

I just reciently parted ways with a emotionally abusive husband. I am heartbroken and am trying to start the healing process. Any uplifting or inspirational words to help me feel better?

2007-11-06 10:47:55 · 24 answers · asked by Christie C 2

I am 24 and getting a bald spot in the back middle of my head.. darn!

2007-11-06 10:46:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend has just made up with me sort of WOO :D:D:D:D Im happy now lol :D:D:D

2007-11-06 10:41:18 · 12 answers · asked by no name 3

ok. im not here to get judged. the situation itself is hard enough. i am 5 mos preg and my husb is physicaly, emotionally and verbally abusive. and i know it. and as stupid as it may sound i dont want him to get in trouble. he is in the army and we live a stressful life. it usually only happens when he drnks but not always. wehn i was about a month preg he threw me in the closet an shut the door and thought itwas soo funny. and another time he did the same thing after i has asked him where he was going and he got mad and said i asked too many questions i was almost 2 1/2 mos. b4 i got preg and moved in with him four states away from home, to where he is stationed we had our fallouts bc he had cheated on me with two women a few weeks after we got married. i moved with him for ALL the wrong reasons i had hope but shoul have known. one day i was going on and on about these girls bc i really had no idea what they looked liked how far they lived if they were ever in OUR house with him...

2007-11-06 10:41:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

take advantage of their wives so bad? My husband seems to treat me like a piece of furniture i swear. Doesn't know im there till he needs to use me. Im really tired of it. I do not do this to him. If anything i go out of my way to make him know i need him and want him.

2007-11-06 10:38:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-06 10:38:15 · 7 answers · asked by lindadruz 1

My wife left a month ago to live in an adulterous relationship with a guy she met online. My question is then; Is adultry still considered a sin in todays liberalised society???
How long should I be prepared to give her before I attempt to pick up the pieces of my life and move on??? Considering I still love her greatly!!!

2007-11-06 10:31:04 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

He left her and he and I met about 9 months later. We have been and lived together for over a year.
He calls to speak to the kids, if someone else is there she says loudly " I can't speak to you while you are drunk. There is no need to be abusive with me." Then she hangs up.She lied in the divorce papers, saying he has not seen the kids and he is a violent alcoholic who attacked her while she was pregnant. (The children have been to stay with us 7 or 8 times since we were together, and more before. My friend's tell me that she used to harrass and beat him, sometimes calling him 60 or 70 times whenever he went out). She uses the children, (6,5 and 2)getting them to ask their dad where his wedding ring is, and bribing them with new toys not to go and see him on his access visits (she has stopped residential access). I witness enough to know my partner is telling the truth, and see the damage she is causing the kids. Divorce and custody hearings are pending, but how can we weather this?

2007-11-06 10:26:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a male friend of many years who I just got back in contact with after some time. He is married and I recently met his wife. While over at their place having drinks she and I were chatting and she confessed to me that she has been sleeping around. During this conversation her husband walked in the room with a look on his face that can only be described as pure pain and hurt. I confronted him about the situation and he has known about his wife's acts for quite some time. It also turns out that he is very attracted to me and I to him. There has been talk of he and I having something on the side.... I just don't know what to do.

2007-11-06 10:22:23 · 29 answers · asked by Davina 1

Who is a better man...
Husband= kind hearted.caring.loving.puts his family above all.willing to compramise.fat.not so cute.very serious about life and all.treats his wife like a little girl all the time.totally makes his wife and kids a spoiled brats.have no ability to discipline and always end up being taken forgranted.never gives freedome to his wife coz he thinks that the world is not safe.so wife no malling alone or going out alone.financially not so stable.sex good.
Romeo=nice guy.financially stable.serious.very well mannered.
used to be scared of commitments.now willing and cant wait to married.educated.respectable.open minded.able to make rational decisions.have the ability to bring out the best in me as a person and human being.

2007-11-06 10:20:45 · 13 answers · asked by zelda z 1

I have just had a baby 5 months ago. I want to work from home, and start a self-business as a recruitment agency from home on my own.
I have worked in sales for 4 years before, so I think I can do it. However I have a lot of distractions and my mind is all over the place. Also I doubt myself if that's a good idea to start from now, or wait until the baby is 12 months and then start.
What do you think?
At the same time, I have problems with my husband too, mainly in the fact that he isn't interested in me sexually and we haven't slept together for 14 months. So that makes me very depressed and lowers my self-esteem. But I want to start and I believe that people can do wonders in very hard situations.

Do you think I can do it?

2007-11-06 10:18:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

abnormal sex drive? I mean I know all of that 'every couple is different' b.s., but how many of you out there actually can go without any for seventeen days, and go to bed that night without so much as mentioning it. And you're not mad at your hubby, he far from sucks in bed (in fact he does that to you every time you actually get it on, and is always full of new ways to satisfy you), and he gets hard when you just walk by. He's obviously in love with you. He does more than his share of the dishes, all of the laundry, works close to twice as much, gives the three kids their baths during the week, gets them to bed, and ready for school. Because of your work schedule, you're not home during these times, or need to sleep. He's always mindful of that, going out of his way to ensure your peacefulness.

And yet when you get the chance to be alone together, you don't mention sex, don't anticipate it, and seem to be able to go without it. Should your hubby really consider that normal?

2007-11-06 10:16:56 · 23 answers · asked by lovinglifeina69 2

I just had a baby 5 days ago and my husband has been acting less of a new father and husband. He doesn't participate in anything, i have to pratically do everything even though i'm in so much pain. He's either on the internet or watching tv, and today, during lunch a drink spilled in the car coz' i put the drink on top of the compartment and he knocked it over and he blamed me for it, the baby was crying, and i didn't have a cup holder in the back of the car to put the drink inn, so when i told him to watch for the drink he yelled at me and called me stupid and yelled at me. I feel so depress, i feel like i made a huge mistake having this baby with him. He's so impatient with me and he just doesn't realize how painful it is to have a baby, he asked me "does it really hurt"? its like he's thinking i'm faking the pain, i don't know how to deal with the physical and the mental pain he's causing me. I just want to cry... i feel so bad for my baby that he sees me crying all the time.

2007-11-06 10:15:12 · 15 answers · asked by Valerie K 1

this question is aimed towards the women who wife swap or husband swap or whatever. why wouldnt you want your husband to have sex with another woman when you want to have sex with another man?

2007-11-06 09:59:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please tell me

2007-11-06 09:42:43 · 20 answers · asked by Mr. Advice 1

Ok so here's the story... My husband and i eloped 6 months ago. I havent had contact with my inlaws since my husband and i were dating. During all 3 years off our relationship my inlaws have been very explicite about thier dislike of me and thier disaprovel of our relationship. Especially my father in law. As far as i can tell his whole family hates me for whatever reason ...my skin color, im too shy, ect. Now Thanksgiving is coming up and im expected to spend the holiday with them. Even though my inlaws have said many rude remarks to my face about my weight and my job. I would rather spend thanksgiving with my family (who is accepting) but my husband insists he wants to spend at least some thanksgiving time with his family and wants me to go. Do you think now that were married my inlaws will be nicer to me or should i get ready for some uncomfortable remarks? I am getting so tired of feeling like no matter what i do , i will never be good enough for thier son.

2007-11-06 09:39:49 · 39 answers · asked by Anne 1

This is for a school report and I would need to ask the couple some questions.

2007-11-06 09:37:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-06 09:23:49 · 6 answers · asked by denveremail 1

i learned long ago that my bf and his ex gf talk to each other from time to time, which didnt bother me because they live in different contininets but at the same time, makes me question if they still got love for each other and what not. i told this to my man and he said that to help me prove that he doesnt have feelings for her anymore, he would be upfront about it, like tell me all about it when she calls and what they talked about and so on and so forth. this came from him and he promised this was something he'd do, well i busted him the other day and saw that they'd talked for 1hr and half and when i asked him if they'd talk recently, he denied it so i told him that if he has to lie about it and hide it from me, then isn't as innocent as he says it is and i cant deal with that because obviously the trust issue has been broken, so as a result i ended a 4 year relationship. i am hurt but i feel they r doing wrong. how many of u keep in touch with an ex and hide it from ur bf/gf? y?

2007-11-06 09:21:19 · 25 answers · asked by mama2be 3

My wife has come back after visiting her home country for several months while I managed to work full time, a second job part time, mange her business and pay all bills and cope with everything. She is now saying when I try and advise her about her job prospects (and I helped her get interviews) that I can't tell her what to do. To me, she seems lazy and just wants it like when she lived with her parents. She is not acting very mature. I want to motivate her, but she rejects my help. In teh meantime I have more and more debt and it was her idea to get the house. Now I am not sure if she wants me or to live in the same country as me. Am I overreacting, or is she being difficult, lazy and immature?

2007-11-06 09:18:23 · 19 answers · asked by jonoxk 3

very sexual and enjoy sex but your wife enjoys sex but not as much as you and you get very frustrated about it what would you do?

2007-11-06 09:11:20 · 28 answers · asked by michael c 3

My husband and I split and were dating seperate people. Iwas in a relationship for 1 year he knew a girl for 2 weeks and got her pregnant. We have 1 child. Well he recently contacted me telling me how much he loved me and wanted to be with me and she found out and now he wont talk to me to answer my emails. He is in Iraq and is comming home in January and shes due anyday. He filed for divorce bec/ she made him or thats waht he told me. I Love him and want to be back with him. What should I do?

2007-11-06 09:09:23 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have kind of an odd but serious question... I know this may sound a bit egotistical but theres no other way I can ask it.. so,Im 23 and Ive had 4 serious boyfriends and dated around as well, and all my life, people always tell me that I could 'do better' than my bfs, esp. in In terms of looks. Now I know this shouldn’t get to me, but really it kind of does after a while Its true that Ive never dated a generically all-over ‘hot guy’, every bf ive had hasn’t been unattractive, but always less attractive then me.According to other people, Im “gorgeous” so people always ask why Im not with someone more attractive, and its not that I don’t want to be, but I havnt come across one that interested me and these guys were obviously attractive enough (in my eyes at least) to initially get my attention and I felt there personalities were awesome and that outweighed their looks to me, although I often have found myself noticing ther less-than-attractiveness if they don’t wear their hair right or

2007-11-06 09:09:15 · 17 answers · asked by katie colmes 1

To contantly watch football and play X-Box instead of wanting to spend time with your wife of nine years.

2007-11-06 08:52:40 · 19 answers · asked by Karmin T 2