Who is a better man...
Husband= kind hearted.caring.loving.puts his family above all.willing to compramise.fat.not so cute.very serious about life and all.treats his wife like a little girl all the time.totally makes his wife and kids a spoiled brats.have no ability to discipline and always end up being taken forgranted.never gives freedome to his wife coz he thinks that the world is not safe.so wife no malling alone or going out alone.financially not so stable.sex good.
Romeo=nice guy.financially stable.serious.very well mannered.
used to be scared of commitments.now willing and cant wait to married.educated.respectable.open minded.able to make rational decisions.have the ability to bring out the best in me as a person and human being.
2007-11-06 10:20:45 · 13 answers · asked by zelda z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'd go for the first one, hands down. I need my man to be kind hearted and loving and able to put his family first. The wife ALLOWS him to treat her like a little girl. If she didn't like it, she would have left.
2007-11-06 10:26:32 · answer #1 · answered by katydid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Husband -as in currently your husband? Go to Marriage conseling see if you can work on the relationship and freedom issues (which - kinda weird - if you are asking about possibly leaving the husband for the romeo - maybe the husband has a good reason not to give you much freedom - oh just a thought...)
Romeo - you just never know what happens once you're married...
2007-11-06 18:26:13 · answer #2 · answered by Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I would go for the husband, but I love being spoiled, adored , and secure, but I also like men with a little more meat, and if he is the father of your family, than he deserves that reciprocation and chance.
BUT...
If Romeo brings out the best in you, and if you aren't tearing your family apart, and if he is proving that he loves you than....I still think Romeo has too many what ifs....and tigers don't change their stripes....I vote husband.
2007-11-06 18:29:25 · answer #3 · answered by Xicanista 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weel you need to find these quaklties in your husband I no you can he is the man in your life and the man that is going to be with you forever this is not fair for you. Go to couseling do it for the kids if you have any and let him know that you need to be free once in a while that you are a not a prisoner that needs to be cupt up forever. And if this does not work then leave him and date your romeo but not unless you try everything first.
2007-11-06 18:31:41 · answer #4 · answered by Lost 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Husband + Romeo training = Happy marriage.
2007-11-06 18:27:40 · answer #5 · answered by Zaferus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wasting valuable time asking here.Should be in counceling.Take husband with. Express feelings.Make things better.Dump Romeo.
2007-11-06 18:45:52 · answer #6 · answered by sunshine man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Husband. For better or for worse....when it gets to worse seek marriage counseling.
I believe your Husband was once a Romeo too right?
2007-11-06 18:26:34 · answer #7 · answered by jtease 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
put hubby on a diet and avoid romeo like vd. you should know by now that the grass isnt always greener.
2007-11-06 18:29:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Romeo, only because he doesn't seem to be controlling. Who wants to be shut in all the time?
2007-11-06 18:27:18 · answer #9 · answered by Mariah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The better man is the one that is right for you. Everyone is different, what works for one might not work for the other.
2007-11-06 18:27:28 · answer #10 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋