I just reciently parted ways with a emotionally abusive husband. I am heartbroken and am trying to start the healing process. Any uplifting or inspirational words to help me feel better?
2007-11-06 10:47:55 · 24 answers · asked by Christie C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's never easy to be hurt so badly by someone who held our hearts. Every day that passes, it will hurt a little less and in the long run you are far better off having closed that chapter in your life.
Hang in there and know you've done the right thing, even if it hurts for right now. Know and believe that it takes a STRONG person to get out of any abusive relationship, and you've done it. Be proud of that.
2007-11-06 10:53:55 · answer #1 · answered by ivy_shadowfare 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I too left an emotionally abusive husband of 10 years. Although I cannot say that I was then or am now at all heart broken. My advise to you is to try and pass beyond whatever is that has you tied to a man that wanted to treat you with disrespect and control. You will find a man that treats you with the utmost respect and cares for you in more ways than you could possibly have ever known to exist. But please live your life for about two years before letting your emotions take control. Be certain that you are not a roller coaster...be steadfast to the ground before you open up again.
Best of luck you can do it!
2007-11-06 10:57:52 · answer #2 · answered by tinc 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Psalms46 verse 1 God is our refuge and strength an ever-present help in trouble.Therefore we will not fear though the earth give way and the mountains fall into the heart of the sea. To me that means no matter what happens in our lives God will take care.Give him all your sadness and pain, it will be over soon. sometimes it helps the healing process if we talk with others that has been or is in the same situation. There are also hot lines you can call and they will tell you were they are in you area.I will pray for your peace God bless you.
2007-11-06 12:32:12 · answer #3 · answered by Back Field In Motion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go Fishing.
Get your mind full of something else.
It will take time, but you will be okay.
Isnt it funny how he was abusive, yet you are heartbroken. Well, if he was emotionally abusive, he has done it yet again without even being there.
Go Fishing. Look up an old friend.
And know like we do, that you are a great person.
2007-11-06 10:56:47 · answer #4 · answered by sunshine man 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you got out shows exactly how strong you are. Allow yourself a grieving period (a short one) and then go out and show the world exactly what you're made of. Show the world that just like you won't take any crap from him, you're not going to take any crap from the world. Only the best for you...after all you deserve only the best!! And remember in those moments when you're sad and lonely...somewhere someone is thinking of you...it might be a friend, a family member or an angel...but somewhere someone loves you and they too want only the best for you!
2007-11-06 10:53:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
its always darkest right before dawn..
what doesnt kill us.. makes us stronger...
one day at a time
this too shall pass
time does heal all wounds
remember everyone has had their heart broken, gone through a death of a spouse or lost a job or worse a child... theres always someone somewhere worse off than you... count your blessings and dwell on the things God has bless you with ( like your healthy kids.. ( some people are sitting in hospital rooms at this very moment praying their child doesnt die ) your job.. ( some people are living on the streets in this cold weather) and you have a nice warm home to talk to all of us from..:) be thankful for getting away from a abusive jerk alive and oneday share your victory with other abusive women and their children that are scared to leave... hope this helped you.... good luck and God bless
2007-11-06 10:57:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are better off without emotionally abusive people in your life. They will just continue to beat you down into the ground...until you can't take it anymore...then what?? People turn to all sorts of things to help them deal with this abuse which isn't a good thing. Be happy that he is gone...you are such a better person already! Do something for yourself to make you feel good....you deserve it after dealing with him! Good luck and congrats on your new life!
2007-11-06 10:53:07 · answer #7 · answered by Hydee 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you know what hun...i was in the same boat you are now accept it was all forms of abuse. i left my husband on sept. 29. it was a saturday night...i have never felt so many unpleasant emotions ever. but you know what, i have faith and now, i'm starting to feel like myself again. happy and normal. i defiantly am not crying all the time and i don't miss being made to feel like something i'm not. i didn't even realize that i got lost somewhere along the way, but i'm sooo grateful that i'm bouncing back.
blessings to you...you deserve so much more
2007-11-06 11:03:40 · answer #8 · answered by starting over 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just find something else to take your mind of being heartbroken;like painting etc. My motto is that if you are knocked down, get right back up and continue to live your life the way your want to. Don't let anyone get you down.
2007-11-06 10:52:04 · answer #9 · answered by AFox 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all GOOD FOR YOU! It was very difficult to make the first step and you did. I was in the same situation. I can tell you that I now am in a very loving and unabusive relationship. I couldn't be happier and I feel you will be too. Keep your faith. God will be with you.
2007-11-06 10:52:41 · answer #10 · answered by Dani Bosco 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋