if your married and you are?

Question

very sexual and enjoy sex but your wife enjoys sex but not as much as you and you get very frustrated about it what would you do?

Answer 1

Very curious how some think using the hand replaces the sex guess what....WRONG! What needs to happen is you need to sit down and really talk to your wife because you may think she enjoys sex but maybe not as much as you think. Sometimes there are simple things that can be done to fix things but you don't know until you 2 really sit down and talk about it....Those who think mr hand is the answer might find out miss neighbor might be helping.....Hmmm

Answer 2

A lot of women take some work to get stimulated. As time goes on the flame tends to dim. You need to get creative and get her fire burning again. Why not try cooking her dinner, a fire in the fireplace....have some wine?? Maybe a nice sensual back massage or a bath/shower together. I also know that continuing to do the little things can work wonders!! Tell her how beautiful she looks, notice a new outift or haircut...send flowers for no reason. Most of us women like romance and to know our men still find us attractive and interesting. If you are just pushing her for sex and offer nothing to stimulate her emotionally in return, you arent going to get anywhere!!!! Also dont try and jump into sex right away..all I have to say is FOREPLAY, FOREPLAY, FOREPLAY!!!

Answer 3

Men who are open and loving...not just when they want sex...get more sex than anyone. If you only touch or come near your wife when you want some...you won't be getting much. Do loving things for her and she'll do loving things for you. Help fold the laundry...empty out the dishwasher without being told...things like that...watch and see...if you make it part of your life to help her out, things will change. Not overnight, but they will change. Rub her shoulders from time to time. Hold her hand every now and then...basically, act like you did when you first started courting her.

Answer 4

Don't get frustrated, what might help is concentrating on pleasing her more then maybe she'll want to have sex more. The more you show frustration the more you will turn her off. Maybe you need to explore her pleasures more and not worry more about yourself. When she is being pleased, you will too.

Answer 5

I'm not married anymore. My ex wife and I had what we called dry spells, Not for months or anything like that. For maybe a week/wk and half one of us wasn't interested in sex. We did things for each other out of respect. I think that's what's key. If you know your spouse isn't in the mood why push their buttons? It goes for everything not just sex. Good Luck

Answer 6

Talk to the hand.
Unless she seldom ever wants sex, then you two need to sit down and talk about it. Problems show themselves in the bedroom very often. Clear the air between the two of you.

Answer 7

Shoot myself because you will always be miserable,if you're not sexually compatible it will never last and if it last one of you will be unfaithful during different stages of the marriage the other one may never suspect or know but you will eventually cheat... Some people wear rose colored glasses..

Answer 8

You should first talk to her about it and explain that your needs are not being met.

Also, you should look at yourself and figure out what you can do to get her in the mood more often.
Dont be a self absorbed lover, talk to her and tell her your needs and then listen to hers.

Things will get better only through communication.

Answer 9

U need to know which buttons to press to turn on ur wife and she'll make u the "happiest" man on earth !

Answer 10

Maybe you need to romance her a little. Do something special for her for no reason and it will make her heart melt, and thats what gets you play!!
If that doesn't work, you may want to invest in a good dirty mag and a bottle of astroglide. ; )