Marriage & Divorce - 6 November 2007

2007-11-06 02:11:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

He's never met her, yet he answers ?'s and believes this to be a secret admirer. It's his wife and he answers questions personally about his wife to this "online stranger". He has a big professional job w/city government and I ? his intelligence to openly continue. He sends his phone & room # when he's out of town for her to call/visit.
I refuse to talk about this dead deceptive evil deed, nor want anything to do with her (my friend/ex/friend) because of this.
Who do you think is the most evil/twisted--the wife setting up the husband or the husband that is very involved w/writing and answereing/sharing anything the "admirer (who happens to be his wife,unbeknown).He has a military career and I cannot understand how he can be so easy to pull into this arrangement. I think the husband will divorce her when he learns the truth. I think she is wicked/mental/missing major parts in her brain to start the making of divorce-just to see if he'd cheat,yet he is online.No kids & in their 40's.

2007-11-06 02:06:20 · 21 answers · asked by EvenSteven 1

I mean, I want the SAPPIEST, most SYRUPY romantic thing ever done. The story that makes me throw up inside my mouth the most willl be awarded the 10 points...

Cheers!

2007-11-06 01:51:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean as physical appearance. Do you feel this is important, or do you feel that "I'm married, I got what I want. If he don't like it, he can leave and I'll take half?"

Just curious.

2007-11-06 01:50:20 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-06 01:49:22 · 9 answers · asked by Lily 3

Before I had my son I weight 138 pounds, after having him and it's been 2 years I weight 160pounds. Every since I had my son I have been insecure about myself I think it the weight. My husband say I look good but I don't believe him. I started a diet yesterday go to try and lose 25 pounds by New Year's. Anyway, i have got to the point where I don't want to go to work b/c of my weight and afraid my husband will cheat on me one day if i don't get my size back. I am a very beautiful, attractive 5'5, 27 years old young lady but I don't know how to control my insecure issues that I never used to have. Please help serious mature answers only. Married 3 years.

2007-11-06 01:40:21 · 26 answers · asked by LivingMyLife 5

I am in an abusive relationship. We can't seem to have an argument without him hitting me, then I go crazy and hit back, and then all hell breaks loose. But the rest of the time, we are fine. I actually love him, and I believe that he loves me, altho we both agree its getting more difficult. How would you work this mess out?

2007-11-06 01:34:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I worked for my Ex-Wife's father for 9 years. When my ex-divorced me for another man, I was ordered to pay child support to my ex-wife based on what I was making working for my Ex-father in law. Two weeks after the divorce was final, he fired me. Now, the best job I've been able to find is paying me exactly half of what I was making, but I'm still having to pay the original child support amount. I'm trying to get a modification, but I'm Three months behind right now. I'm out of things to sell, I can't work any more jobs, I don't know what else to do? What are my options? I live in Georgia.

2007-11-06 01:29:49 · 10 answers · asked by frontrow0 1

ok... i know my wife has been involved in an affair & i also know that she is still text msging this jerk even though i have asked her 2 stop. i have come up with a plan of action and wanted opinions. i get paid 2 days fm 2day & when i do i am packing some things and moving bk 2 my mothers home which is about 2 hrs fm here. i cant take it anymore. when i ask her about the texting she just tries 2 lie and tell me its not happening or that it is old. i want 2 send her a clear msg that i will leave and not come bk. what does anybody think?

2007-11-06 01:29:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

This B*&!# my fiance has kids with is so crazy & jelous of our family we have, she is alwats trying to start stuff. Well I normally dont care but she is 25 yrs old and went to the extreme of calling my little boys names. They are only 6 yrs & 20 months. they are so innocent and dont know anything. She was calling them mutherf's and saying they are ugly (which I KNOW is out of jelousy0 b/c my boys are sweet & so adorable. But as a mom I just want to really flip out on this heffer or something. I dont care what she says but I dont know what to do b/c she has crossed the line but I dont want to get arrested for going to her home but I feel I need to stand up for my boys. How do I handle this in a mature way as a mother should?

2007-11-06 01:09:37 · 8 answers · asked by Yellowtulips 3

When I hear people say that, it kind of sounds like an oxymoron to me. Isn't that exactly what makes the relationship, the amount of love in it? NOT that generic relationship high. But the genuine thing.

People say that "love isn't enough," because relationship take work. But doesn't the amount work put into the relationship have to do with the amount of love you have? If "love" is real. . .

So isn't "love is not enough" a false statment?

Hell, first you gotta find out how much love was there to being with. . .if any. . .

2007-11-06 01:09:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband called me lazy today because i'd rather stay home and watch our soon then go to work. I am an abled bodied professional with a very good job (medical field0. this is also my first child, his third and i just think that I should be responsible for my son not people that i don't know at a day care. what do you think/

2007-11-06 01:00:45 · 34 answers · asked by toonice 2

2007-11-06 00:56:02 · 17 answers · asked by neuroticgirl9 1

What did you do?

2007-11-06 00:41:07 · 22 answers · asked by need2know 5

So I've been in a realtionship for a year and some months. I moved across state to be with him, I really love him it wasn't hard. We've had our ups and downs ( everyone does ). He can be cold and I can be overly emotion at times. The job market here has been rough, so I've been going to school full time. He told me last night that he is too stressed out worring about me; such as: Health care, No job, No friends. That this was alot of pressure for him. I responed with pure emotion and told him fine I'll go home, of course this lead us to fight and lead to a break-up. After alot of tears and phone calls, we calmed down, and talked about it being a break, not a break up. The bad part about being here with him is I have no faimly I have to fly across country for us to seperate.I want to stay, and be with him. But he is depressed and dealing with the loss of his mother, things spun out of controll so fast. He won't get help. He is already looking for plane tickets. Are we savable? Help plz

2007-11-06 00:40:19 · 8 answers · asked by shaunnie c 2

Sometimes old women still act like teenage girls and fail in their relationships or marriage

What makes a female sounds like a WOMAN not a girl to her man ?

2007-11-06 00:24:54 · 10 answers · asked by Maria 6

I know I should tell my husband to get lost when he comes back from 2 weeks away visiting his mother and sister who live abroad. He constantly lies to me and has no respect for me. After I caught him cheating, I was very civilised about it and didn't throw him out like he deserved. He says he doesn't like the commitment of marriage and is a free spirit whatever that means. He lives at home but has an apartment near his work which he bought 2 years ago which he initially moved into when I found out about his affair. he says he can't sell it yet because he is locked into a 2 year mortgage deal, which is true, but then on other days he says he has no intention of selling it. Now he is saying that he wants to stay there at least one day per week as he has to travel to work (25 Km) which I don't think is too far away.
The truth is that at 55 I am terrified of being on my own. Our daughter leaves for Uni next year and then what? At 42 he is younger than me so he has lots of choices

2007-11-06 00:24:09 · 11 answers · asked by Angela O 1

2007-11-06 00:21:23 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

when we were already dating,i was still married,and we talk about it many times,that as soon i had my divorce in hands,we were going to get the marriage license and everything we need to get married,thing is now that we have the date and everything,he is giving me many excuses like:"why are you rushing things so much,we havent even save good money for the rings,what im going to wear,and many others"thing is, if he dosen't wanna get married,why not telling me then?
help please,dont know what to do,since i wanna married him,but i don't wanna be married with a person that dosen't want to be with me.

2007-11-06 00:19:19 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Traditions in many cultures say yes. I am talking about a happy relationship only where the man respects the wife.

2007-11-06 00:16:12 · 25 answers · asked by Texas Cowboy 7

i got remarried in 2001 to what i thought was the perfect man. after 3 yrs stopped kissing me and telling me that he loved me. Then started find lots of porn on his computer. This summer he expressed that he wanted kids of his own. i have 2 kids from lst marriage. i cant have anymore kids and he knew this when we married. was in the middle of trying to work this problem out when he recently became disabled. i don't want to leave him with out someone to care for him but now it seems that we are both very unhappy. we don't have intimate contact anymore and rarely talk. im very loney, and guilty. just because he wasn't taking our vows as seiously as me do i leave or stay now that he needs someone. but the fact remains that he wants kids of his own, and sometimes i feel that he stays with me because he is afraid now that he is disabled no one else would want him. please only serious advice. and it is okay to be totally honest. i really need the advice.

2007-11-06 00:13:45 · 14 answers · asked by katinalln 1

I fantasize having fun with all my mom's friends and even brush my hands against their butts like it was an accident does this make me weird? Most of her friends are married as well

2007-11-06 00:11:06 · 27 answers · asked by TSIRHC 3

I 'm in a big trouble, my boyfriend insist in continue a dating that I am not happy because I feel that he doesn't love me suficient to continue with him. How can I put a finish in this situation. Help me!

2007-11-06 00:05:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok I did something that could ruin my marriage!
The thing is i don't feel bad nor do I regret what I did!
Why is it that I dont feel bad for what I have done!
Ok so y'all know I cheated on my hubby!
Is it bad that I dont regret or feel bad or feel guilty
for what I have done?

2007-11-06 00:00:43 · 28 answers · asked by boobear 2