2007-11-06 00:21:23 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Pick not based on looks, but personality. If the girl with the better personality is cuter, then score!
You want a stable girl who doesn't freak out over little things. You want a girl who's laid back and won't ***** you out for every little thing you do.
Just choose the one that is easier to get along with, if you want a long-lasting relationship.
2007-11-06 02:25:15 · answer #1 · answered by youripmyheartrightout 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are not truly in love with two women. You may love one and be in love with the other. Which one makes your heart throb? Which do you think about the most? Which are you more compatible with? Which understands you? Which one makes you feel complete? You know these answers...now you need to be honest and let go of the one that you love, choosing the one that you are in love with because the one you are truly in love with will stick with you through thick and thin. She will be supportive at all times and understand what it is that you need. She will be in love with you just as much as you are in love with her. She will take care of you when no one else will. You know who she is and you cannot imagine what life would be like if she were not a part of it. You want to be with her yet you are afraid to end it with the other for fear that you will hurt her. You are a nice guy. But can you handle the emotional pressure and the physical and mental anguish that come into play.
There is no amount of money or material possessions that are worth risking your health.
Make the decision...
2007-11-06 08:33:13 · answer #2 · answered by tinc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's got to realize that he can't fully love either if he claims to love them both.
I'd suggest some good locks on your doors, because once they find out about each other (and karma will make sure they will), you're likely to have 2 crazy women coming after you in the night. Dump one of them asap - if not, you're just asking for trouble.
2007-11-06 09:30:15 · answer #3 · answered by Roland'sMommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he must chose which one means more to him if he lost them forever or lost them forever to someone else. whoever is in love with two women should think about there life with out the person that means more and think about how they would feel if they were gone and never came back because one of them will find out and leave or they might just kill each other over the man they love.
2007-11-07 13:46:54 · answer #4 · answered by keket 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chose. You will only hurt the other women. One of the worst things to experience is being with a guy that you have to "share."
Unless...they are into the whole sharing thing and you three could all be together.
2007-11-06 08:25:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure it's love? How well do you know each of them? If not very well, then it's either lust or infatuation...but regardless of that it's tough to have strong feelings for more than one person at a time. Unless you are all open to a polyamorous relationship, you need to choose (either or neither) and then move forward and hope to have no regrets...
2007-11-06 08:29:18 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get in a polyamorous relationship with both of them....
Or decide which one you can be with for the rest of your life feasibly and hope to whatever thing you worship that you make the correct decision. Not likely you'll be able to go back. So choose slowly and wisely.
It really sucks to fall in love with two people at once.
2007-11-06 08:28:41 · answer #7 · answered by MelancHolly 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, it doesn't hurt you to be in love with two people... just take your time and eventually your heart will know the right direction. It could take a year, or a month--who knows?
do what is best for YOU.
2007-11-06 08:27:26 · answer #8 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont really have that great advice for you, because i have had the same experiences before. uhmm..let's see lookk at your options look at how you love the women, because you might just lvoe one of them as a friend and you might love the other one more...ok ok i know its not that easy
well try to talk to both of the women and get to know them more. if you are debating between them for a girlfriend, then i would say look at yall personality and compare them.
i know its hard to love two people.......wow my advice is awful..sorry....
2007-11-06 14:38:41 · answer #9 · answered by Bri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to make a choice, coz if you keep two on the go at one time guaranteed you'll be found out and lose both.
2007-11-06 08:26:48 · answer #10 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋