Marriage & Divorce - 3 October 2007

I keep asking him, but all he says that it was something he tried to stop but couldn't until SHE text me and told me about it. Let me know your thoughts.

2007-10-03 08:52:30 · 32 answers · asked by fifi 1

I need help, my husband is emotionally and physically abusive. I live in fear, fear of him hitting me, choking me, pulling my hair, blaming me, saying things to intentionally hurt me, calling me names, etc. My heart skips a beat and not for the right reasons when I see he is calling on my phone. Its like im thinking oh god what is he going to yell at me now about. I have tried talking to him about it with no luck. He has progressively gotten worse over the past 3 years. Right now I have a huge bruise on my arm, hand imprint on my throat and a bump on the back of my head. I am not a stupid person, I have a great job, make good money and I know im not stupid but its so hard to think that with the way he is constantly putting me down. I want to leave but am afraid he will try to kill me because he has said he would. He is a very jealous person and im not allowed to do anything or talk to anyone without him knowing what im talking about. Please I need some ideas on what to do to get away.

2007-10-03 08:49:36 · 48 answers · asked by helpmeescapehim 1

I just don't feel the connection with my Significant other,,,
We are always at each others throat......we argue for almost every little minor detail ( laundry, house cleaning, money, who's wrong, who's right, ) I had it..

The only reason i haven't left its because of my kids..
don't want them to grow up without a father......
what do you suggest,,what would you do?

If i leave, How soon should I start dating?

2007-10-03 08:40:22 · 39 answers · asked by MrRight 3

My husband and me recently got married even though he lives far away. He does plan on moving out to where I live in a few months. I am nervous thinking what if he is unable to find a good job and wonder if things will work out. I love him so much and he loves me. He treats me great and is the most wonderful man I know. I want this to work. Has anyone ever been involved in moving and relocating? What pointers can you give us that worked for you? Any help will and advice will be appreciated.

2007-10-03 08:38:38 · 7 answers · asked by pictureshygirl 7

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years and have a son together. We have sex all the time, it's fun and always something different. A few different times (once was even a few days after asking me to marry him) I have seen on the history that he was looking at porn. Even paying for it. When I asked him about it he lied and I had to show him what I had found then he eventually confessed. He continued to do it knowing it hurt me. I told him it would be ok if he just told me the truth. I feel like there is something wrong with me. I have low self esteem from him cheating on me a long time ago. I wonder why he would want to look at other women like that if he loves me. I feel like I am not good enough for him. He also claims that he has never masturbated while looking at it, I'm sure that's a lie as well.

2007-10-03 08:33:19 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

ir is our first year married and he took off I thought for us and now he has been gone half the day running his mom around.She always has interfered in our lives too much and now this.I just wish her could have the balls tell her that this is our week and we want to spend it together.I don't see him doing it though.His mom sometimes feels like the
"other woman" .It has gotten much better since I got with him but things like that bug me.would it you?

2007-10-03 08:19:00 · 18 answers · asked by swtluvingcntrygirl 3

2007-10-03 08:16:30 · 16 answers · asked by Michel D Lewis 1

2007-10-03 08:07:17 · 63 answers · asked by t c 1

I let my hubby do most anything he wants. This includes watching adult films. At first it bothered me that he wanted to watch them...but soon I just got used to it. He seemed so happy when I let him. Well now its like everytime Im away from the house, He watches something. It upsets me. We have talked about it before, but he swares that he is just horny. Is this a normal thing among men?? I dont want to be a horrible wife, and be a B**** about it. I keep my 120 lb body in shape at the gym...wear hot clothes & be as sexy as I possibly can. Im just confused and need some advice. I want to make my man the happiest guy in the world!

2007-10-03 08:04:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want to marry him because i love him and dont ever wanna be without him, i only want to have one sexual partner, he is my best friend and we have a 9 year old out of our 11 year relationship. what i love about him is what is breaking us. BEST FRIENDS have a loyalty that we do share but it also allows you to dismiss someone assuming that its ok because you are friends and they understand.
the reason i am unsure....he treats me like his friend all the time, we dont go out unless its the whole crew, which is me and 4 other friends. i like to see things and do things, he likes watching t.v. and i dont watch t.v. he does friend things like getting things for me and going to the store for me but not boyfriend things like taking me out or buying me things. we are such friends he thinks its ok that i missed gifts on every holiday including my birthday and valentines day believe it or not for the last 2 years and i save for months for his expensive gifts. SEX is amazing and i need that.....

2007-10-03 08:04:27 · 8 answers · asked by badbitty101 2

2007-10-03 07:57:07 · 15 answers · asked by Di B 1

2007-10-03 07:51:43 · 22 answers · asked by Frank S 1

2007-10-03 07:50:46 · 42 answers · asked by BossLady 1

When a husband goes to lunch everyday with a female co-worker for over 5 months, all alone, and doesn't tell his wife .IS THAT CHEATING ? He says there is nothing wrong with what he is doing, but he will stop, DO YOU TRUST HIM TO NEVER DO IT AGAIN ? or do you believe he will and he will hide it better so he doesn't get caught. And if he failed to tell you about his private lunches with the female co-worker for 5 months do believe he is not telling you a lot of other things going on in his life.

2007-10-03 07:36:48 · 63 answers · asked by Anonymous

Nerds are smart people so they probably have great paying jobs which would make them great providers as husbands. However, what are the ups and downs of marrying a nerd?

Use details freely. I got the time to listen. Thank you.

2007-10-03 07:30:18 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a question about my fiancee performing. when i give him or** when he is fully er*ct*d- he loves it and is enjoying it one moment-but all of the sudden he loses his e**cti*n and it just shrinks back down. why is this happening? how can we fix it? he is getting really discourage, and i feel bad for him..

2007-10-03 07:24:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-03 07:23:35 · 7 answers · asked by juma s 1

have had a husband who passed away? I was just short of 24 when my first husband passed away as a result of a freak accident, we had no children together. We were married almost 5 years. Even though it's been 13 years later and I'm remarried and have 3 children, I still think of my first husband, look at his pictures on occasion and the odd time I even have dreamed about him. Please share with me your story. Thank you.

2007-10-03 07:19:21 · 6 answers · asked by Perkymo 3

okay so i have a problem with my hubby looking up naked girls online, he doesnt do it all the time and doesnt understand why it bothers me because i dont mind the porn but the dif to me is that the porn has a purpose when he is taking care of himself and the ladies he looks up dont because he doesnt take care of himself which means he is just looking at their bodies..i know all guys do this but it bothers me i cant help it so the other day he said he wouldnt do it..well today we got into a fight that had absolutley nothing to do with this situation..but of course he brought it up and told me that if he isnt with another women that i could just deal with it..i am so pissed off right now and dont know what to do..if something bothered your spouse that bad wouldnt you stop?? why would he say this to me and be such an ***??

2007-10-03 07:18:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-03 07:13:12 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

whats on his mind? he wants me to be the way he want.
he is like do this or do that...else get out of th ehouse because u live in my house. what is he?

2007-10-03 06:02:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm lucky enough to be married to a wonderful man who just happens to be from Mississippi. I moved here from Illinois, where I was raised. I've, for the most part, enjoyed my time here in the South (capital "s"), with a few exceptions...

My brother-in-law took every opportunity to make fun of ANYTHING north of the Mason-Dixon line since my husband and I started dating, making it pretty clear how he feels about anyone from the North (capital "n"). I've put up with this junk for over 6 years from him, and since my husband and I have gotten married, even my mother-in-law has joined in with the "Yankee" comments, most of them are pretty ugly and hard to laugh off.

I think they believe it's okay to make fun of my home, but it's gotten very old. I don't make fun of the "South" despite the fact that I would have plenty of material with which to work.

How can I remind them that the "North" is, in fact, my home, and the comments they make about the "North" really aren't funny?

2007-10-03 05:47:36 · 15 answers · asked by Love My Hubby - Hate His Mom 6

2007-10-03 05:42:32 · 14 answers · asked by farmboy 2

im asking again casue no one gave me the answer i needed
Can you get married twice?
serious question.. if you get married in las vegas is it possible to still get marreid somewhere else to someone different at a later date?


11 minutes ago
ok im guessing you want more details..
im not married.. and have no intention of getting married.
from the uk and a friend of mine said shes getting married to her other half in vegas at christmas because if you get marreid in vegas you can still get married to someoen different in the uk without having a divorce..

im sure this isnt true and would just liek to know

2007-10-03 05:40:18 · 7 answers · asked by my.name.is.... 2

my ex husband died 3years ago and had remarried we divorced in 2000

2007-10-03 05:34:04 · 12 answers · asked by kim g 1

Well Ive been going out with this guy long distance for a long time now he lives in vegas and I live in cali but I love him a lot and hes showed me hes loved me in many ways Do you think It will workout??

2007-10-03 05:33:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

When my husband is stressed out from work or upset for anything he picks a fight with me over dumb stuff. Im really starting to hate him for it. Weve had many conversations where i tell him about what he is doing and he acknowledges it but nothing has changed. I try not to fight back but he knows what buttons to push so i kinda cant avoid getting fired up. What can i do, please help me.

2007-10-03 05:32:31 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

such as fantasy or desire??????

2007-10-03 05:28:09 · 13 answers · asked by back2future 5

Across the net on a MMMORPG i have a friend who lives in butan. she is married to 2 husbands and they both live in the house as her. She has 1 child to one of them(can't remmber whcih) and when i chatted to the child(he is learning english in school) he seems okay with it.in bhuatn polygamy/yandery is very rare but socially accepted and legal.i havent talked to the husbands but i have seen pictures of them(the game gives everyone a webpage with accopunt)

i dont mind polyandery/gomy but wat r ure opinions? n why? if u post any racial stuff agaisnt bhutan it will get reporyted.

2007-10-03 05:26:39 · 26 answers · asked by possessed by insanity 3

1. Same sex couples
2. Couples who seek a term marriage (like a 1 year marriage)
3. Groups of 2 or more people
4. Faithless couples
5. Couples not able to reproduce
6. Felons
7. Sham husband-wife couples (where the husband or wife or both are are gay)
8. Mentally ill
9. Couples carrying genetic diseases
10. Mixed-race couples

2007-10-03 04:16:44 · 25 answers · asked by Jeremy B 2