Marriage & Divorce - 3 October 2007

2007-10-03 11:09:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have this anger that I cannot let go of. No amount of exercise helps. It's not all the time, it's comes and it goes, but when it's there, it's REALLY there. My mom and hubby think that I should get on some medication. I thinking that I probably do, but how is medication going to help the thoughts that are in my head constantly. How is it going to help that I can't even have sex with my husband without thinking that he probably wishes it were her instead of me? Anyone else feel like they were cracking up after the affair?

2007-10-03 11:02:53 · 10 answers · asked by redpeach_mi 7

He has asked for a divorce three times. I have done everything including read every book there is about relationships. He is 61 and has had a devastating blow at work due to restructuring - lesser job and less pay. He has offered all the furniture, etc. "Paying me to leave" means dipping into his retirement which I really struggle with. I've asked for counseling several time but he has never really answered or brought it up. I know I will survive this but I really love him and want to be there for him and with him for the rest of my life. There has been no financial or history misbehavior and the physical aspect of our relationship is there (not right now) but has lacked depth. I feel that there is something else, but not someone else. Any advice?

2007-10-03 10:39:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

single women.

2007-10-03 10:37:46 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-03 10:25:58 · 33 answers · asked by Sunshine 1

i love my wife very much, but do i say to her when she asks me if i mind if she brings another woman in our relationship. btw she is bi and i am straight? what would, or have you said?

2007-10-03 10:21:04 · 21 answers · asked by puppy17566 3

2007-10-03 10:15:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I learned that my boyfriend had cheated on me. I want to forgive him. I have never truely forgiven anyone for anything (I end up bringing it up again which is not true forgiveness.) I want to put the pain behind so I can move forward. How do you move forward from this and not let it effect giving the best of you love?

2007-10-03 10:14:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have never been married. Am 36 year old man.
Altogether, I have been with 6 women in attempted unions, none of which lasted very long. The longest lasted 2 years, was complicated, and ended about 15 years ago, and she was 15 years older than me. Most of the others lasted around one year or less.
Honesty has always been very important to me in my approach to personal relationships, as has sexual monogamy while of course still feeling and sharing Love in friendship and altruistic ways with friends and society. Though Ive been lovingly sexually attentive, most of my partners had affairs, often lying about it when I could feel it and asked.

So Im involved with a former partner, who had lied to me as well, and has a long history of many, many partners & leaving out of fear of truly being intimate, open & honestly revealing about truth of what she feels, thinks, is... 3 years later weve reconnected, she has made some major changes in some of her choices & addictions, though I am

2007-10-03 10:03:47 · 2 answers · asked by life 1

I really want to be able to deal with him in a nice friendly way, but i'm finding really hard to even be polite to him.

2007-10-03 10:02:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-03 10:01:10 · 3 answers · asked by george c 1

my parent separated when i was 2 and my dad lives in n.y. and i live in CT with my mom. my mom has a boyfriend and ny dad has a girlfriend. My parents still speak they dont like hate each other, but i wanna get them back together. how do i break them up with their girl/ boyfriend and get them back together?

2007-10-03 09:44:30 · 19 answers · asked by smiley 1

my parent separated when i was 2 and my dad lives in n.y. and i live in CT with my mom. my mom has a boyfriend and ny dad has a girlfriend. My parents still speak they dont like hate each other, but i wanna get them back together. how do i break them up with their girl/ boyfriend and get them back together?

2007-10-03 09:43:46 · 9 answers · asked by smiley 1

I have to much stress on my hands and to much work to do at school I've tryed allmost every thing to come down and try to do my work can you help me ?

2007-10-03 09:41:11 · 18 answers · asked by starrider 2

He is disabled, he has M.S. and fell over in the bathroom. I was out at work at the time so his son went to help him up. When I came back from work son told me about fall [which is a regular occurence btw] he was still in bathroom. When he knew I was home he went mad becos I hadn't gone to see if he was ok. Help

2007-10-03 09:36:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you start counting from the date you separte are from the date that is file, to determine your divorce date?

2007-10-03 09:35:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

once i was going through this bag of my husband's pictures (mostly of me from when we were still dating) and right in the middle of the pics of me was a pic of some other girl...actually i remember seeing the same pic when we were dating but never said anything about it...but 7 years later i find it again, even though it's at his brother's house in canada while we live in the states. he's pakistani and this girl in the pic was african american or maybe even mixed, and i know he doesn't like "dark" girls which i find offensive but anyways...she's standing in a pose that's like she's trying to look sexy and she's wearing a real short skirt. should i confront him about it? 7 years later it still bothers me even though i know he wouldn't cheat on me but makes me wonder if he was dating her before me or something.

2007-10-03 09:30:20 · 36 answers · asked by zeenat 2

My best friend D is going to move-in with a mutual friend T when she gets married. I totally disagree with D doing it. She didn't want to at first, but T convinced her to do it. D is much older than T and I personally think she looks at D as comfort. I find D's so-called not wanting to lame and think she should definitely not do it as the 2 newly weds needs to be alone, get to know each other and find themselves in their new marriage without her being around all the time. I feel she will interfere without really wanting to. D is a wonderful person and would not intentionally do any harm or anything but just the mere fact that they already feel responsibly by inviting her to come live with them proofs the burden she will place on their new marriage. The new couple hasnt been living together and only knows each other a few months- so there is a loooot of getting to know each other, to do. Am I wrong? What is your opinions/experience? Should I speak to my friend D?

2007-10-03 09:28:19 · 3 answers · asked by Dee 1

He wants to take her to the Mall of America and swimming. I don't know how long this friendship will last. We have broken up before and he took up with a female friend of his. What should I do ?

2007-10-03 09:24:28 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiancee and soon to be wife was married before. They had a child together but were only together 9 months of the childs life. She still has all there pictures, wedding and just casual pictures and says she wants to keep them to show their daughter that they were happy together. I have a problem with this because I want her to only have our pictures. Can you give me some advice.

2007-10-03 09:22:47 · 54 answers · asked by noleballplayer 1

2007-10-03 09:14:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you have a separation agreement in place with your spouse, and you are living separately from you spouse, can you start to date other people? Or, is it considered adultery until you are officially divorced? And, dating other people factor into the spouse's alimony award (specifically, the spouse is awarded more $ for catching the other one committing adultery during the marital separation)?

2007-10-03 09:12:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife insists that I put the cold foods in to the refridgerator every week after grocery shopping.

2007-10-03 09:10:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband had a picture on his laptop at 5am of this really hot 30 somehing naked on the whole screen .He said he was sorry and it was about 10 yrs old.I noticed the hotel its where he stayed for work before we married.I just dont get why he was looking at it?I dont want to ask anything and seem like a pushy jelous wife.

2007-10-03 09:08:47 · 12 answers · asked by jessy 3

I thought about making my parents a scrapbook for their 20th anniversary, but I haven't been able to collect enough pictures and things to make one yet.
It's a really special anniversary for them, so I want to do something really nice, but I don't have any ideas. I also don't really have alot of money to spend. Anyone with ideas?

2007-10-03 09:03:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am 5;9 and a size 12,but he always says im chubby,and i have a tyre round my tummy,he always says he wants me to loose weight,and do excercises,im 37 and had 3 children,he is nearly 48 with receding hair,when i ask him if he likes sex with me he says,chubbyness puts him off,butbhe has a beer belly but i love him for who he is,WHAT DO YOU THINK?

2007-10-03 09:01:01 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous

on monday,asking a question about my strokes..a young lady,gave me a brilliant answer..what was her name..????????..mary....the best answer.

2007-10-03 09:00:58 · 2 answers · asked by MARY C 4

2007-10-03 08:58:33 · 56 answers · asked by gaz 1

Is a woman entitled to any kind of benefit when her husband dies,even if they did not live togther anymore but were still legally married?
TY (_8(I)

2007-10-03 08:58:20 · 6 answers · asked by HomerJay 2

2007-10-03 08:55:47 · 25 answers · asked by jenny b 1