My best friend D is going to move-in with a mutual friend T when she gets married. I totally disagree with D doing it. She didn't want to at first, but T convinced her to do it. D is much older than T and I personally think she looks at D as comfort. I find D's so-called not wanting to lame and think she should definitely not do it as the 2 newly weds needs to be alone, get to know each other and find themselves in their new marriage without her being around all the time. I feel she will interfere without really wanting to. D is a wonderful person and would not intentionally do any harm or anything but just the mere fact that they already feel responsibly by inviting her to come live with them proofs the burden she will place on their new marriage. The new couple hasnt been living together and only knows each other a few months- so there is a loooot of getting to know each other, to do. Am I wrong? What is your opinions/experience? Should I speak to my friend D?
2007-10-03
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