My husband had a picture on his laptop at 5am of this really hot 30 somehing naked on the whole screen .He said he was sorry and it was about 10 yrs old.I noticed the hotel its where he stayed for work before we married.I just dont get why he was looking at it?I dont want to ask anything and seem like a pushy jelous wife.
2007-10-03 09:08:47 · 12 answers · asked by jessy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Too late.
2007-10-03 09:11:57 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is obviously regretting his youthful and happy past life or he is having ana ffair with that woman. I don't think ti's normal for a married guy to be looking at naked woman he knew personally before. Looking at naked woman online ok that could be acceptable but surely not someone he knows. You have to confront him about it an dhim getting mad, storming off the room, ignoring you and calling you names can be interpreted as a big fat lie about his real thoughts
2007-10-03 16:14:50 · answer #2 · answered by Midzbaby G 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he saw the file on his computer and opened it up, reminiscing.
Or, maybe he was rubbing one out in the morning, and wanted whatever images he had handy to help him.
If you know the picture is old, then what is there to be jealous of? You are still attracted to men, right? You still please yourself every now and again, right? It's natural. It doesn't say anything negative about you.
2007-10-03 16:14:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is an evil thing. You need to communicate openly about every aspect of your lives together. Ask him, sit down & talk about it.She was his past you are his present & future.
2007-10-03 16:19:22 · answer #4 · answered by vickinilla 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not make more of it than is there. If you can do it without getting angry or jealous, you can tell him how it made you feel to see it and ask him not to do it in the future.
2007-10-03 16:14:56 · answer #5 · answered by bill_in_il 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are his WIFE and if something is bothering you ,you have every right to ask him what is going on. I cant understand why you ,his wife, would ask strangers about this situation and not your husband. ASK YOUR HUSBAND.
2007-10-03 16:18:16 · answer #6 · answered by Julius C 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to ask in fear of the answer you're going to get.
2007-10-03 16:15:16 · answer #7 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you weren't jealous, then you don't love him. You have that right. He just needs to let the past be the past......Probably just reminiscing.........Doesn't make it right though......
2007-10-03 16:15:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Miss Jessy, He is cheating emotionaly by revisiting his past ! That is clearly wrong !
2007-10-03 16:14:49 · answer #9 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Jessy, Jessy, Jessy.....We are men, and there is no other rhyme or reason for the stupid sh*t we do! You know this by now....I hope!
2007-10-03 16:15:59 · answer #10 · answered by Jim M 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋