Marriage & Divorce - 28 September 2007

how did your divorce change you ?? good / bad ??

2007-09-28 07:27:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi, i want ask do i have responsibilty about my seph son he dont live with us my husband forcing me to do evrything for him and he always fight with me for his son?

2007-09-28 07:25:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hypothetically say you're in a relationship and you really truly love the other person more than anything. Say something happened to you and you weren't able to please that person anymore sexually but because you loved each other, your mate wouldn't want to stop being with you. Would you be willing to let another person sexually please your mate out of love? As long as you didn't have to deal with that other person directly?

2007-09-28 07:24:15 · 30 answers · asked by Kitten 4

How and at what point does a woman know hes not playing hard to get and he really doesnt like you?

2007-09-28 07:11:24 · 15 answers · asked by mario 1

Example: Whenever there's any issues, or big decisions, reasons, explanations or just about anything that comes up within your houshold...that you the husband, or the wife was able to find the best solution or answer.....what do you feel when your wife or husband had to always call their father or mother to have the final say on any matter?

Shouldn't one should just respect and trust one's decision especially if one knows more about it?

2007-09-28 07:00:23 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

please regard this question with some level of maturity cause it is not a question to be answered by some 16 yr old without any expirience.

i live with my fiancee, before the move, we did have sex rather often though most the time i initiated. sometimes she was into it, other times, a bit like a chore, but she would get some enjoyment out of it.

we've been together for 6 yrs, and over the last 8 months have bought a house together to display some sort of real commitment between us. in that 6 yrs, i never cheated, but i got caught twice doing some online flirting on some free websites...she never did any of that. but i have felt we have moved passed that all.
now that we share a house, i have done all that i can reasonably do to do my part in cleaning and taking care of things, she does some too. she just started a stressful job, i have had one for 6 yrs.
i have endless passion for her, she has absolutely non for me. sex almost never happens, and when it does, its horrible

2007-09-28 06:56:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am having excrutiating marital problems with my wife. We are verging on separation/divorce, and the emotional roller coaster ride has me exhausted and stressed out beyond description. I need some support. Is there an online forum where people in my situation commiserate? Misery loves company ...

2007-09-28 06:40:38 · 18 answers · asked by Born in Bost 1

Its easy to torture mentally the wife in terms of dowry and even beat her.These things happen inside four walls , and these cruel husbands escape easily.Is there any way to punish the guilt?what evidence needed to prove this if we go to court?Any light on this will be gladly appreciated ty, have a nice day!!!
Ritu, India

2007-09-28 06:36:45 · 29 answers · asked by ritu s 1

2007-09-28 06:33:07 · 20 answers · asked by alamexia_06 2

i've been living with my boyfriend for 3 years (together for 4) . we love eachother and stuff. we're atheists and so we don't find marriage necessary part of life....but tax breaks, saving on insurance, and other legal rights are important. ok so my question is have any of you been in the situation (being perfectly happy shacked up) and finally married your partner only to be cursed by the negative stigma of marriage?

2007-09-28 06:14:15 · 18 answers · asked by .. 2

we had long distance relationship since our early teens... and I trust him with all of my heart... he is very giving, loving, caring, fun to be around... and he always makes me smile even if he is very far from me... we always talk on msn from evening to early morning and he never misses it no matter how tired he is... it been 3 yrs he been asking for me to marry him... but he live very far and it meant I had to leave my home town to be with him... so we broke up for a yr and I meet someone else which he did not approve and he was very hurt by my action.... and it been a month he has come to my home town to fix things between us... I broke up with this other guy I met and I don’t want to have any thing to do with him... he is a 100% loser... and he is happy living like one too.
how do I choose someone who truly loves me or my family... he says we will visit my home town as much as I like but sooner or later u have to leave ur parents home? It is true but not an easy thing to do. He has his business and house in London and I live in NY... which he hates... I am not so much fun of NY life too. But we are both 21 yrs old with a few family and family friends there... I feel I need my family every single day

2007-09-28 06:12:14 · 26 answers · asked by . 1

After my wife cheated on me.

2007-09-28 06:10:56 · 34 answers · asked by jonnyAirborne 1

Here is the short version: Last year, hubby did not invite his sister and bro-in-law to the kids b'day parties because of a huge fight. Fight being about how if we wouldnt let them babysit the kids, they didnt feel they should "have" to come to the parties. So, it was like fine, dont come. SOO, a year goes by, everyone seems to be getting along as in there are no fights( still dont allow them to babysit the kids) . Do we assume that they still feel the same and not invite them or just go ahead and invite them like nothing ever happened?

2007-09-28 05:57:28 · 16 answers · asked by undone 4

Iwas asked by a female friend why is it right for men to live by double standards,such as sleep around but expect there mate to be faithfull to them & understanding if there found out. Or be paid less for doing the same job or more, but get paid less .

2007-09-28 05:54:37 · 14 answers · asked by travling-man 1

I am so mad right now, my husband never wants sex and when he does its so one sided, he doesnt care about me at all, I never say anything because thats hard for me to talk about but finally i talked to him about how i felt and was nice about it because I know men think we are attacking them and all he said was" you look too far into things" and " we'll talk when you're not being stupid" he couldnt care less that I feel rejected and had nothing to justify why he never wants to have sex! Im sooo mad...am I being stupid or is he being an ***???

2007-09-28 05:54:17 · 17 answers · asked by must<3dogs 3

I don't want to hurt his feelings. He's not going to be working here after today, but will still be coming in every once in a while to do some small jobs. What should I tell him? He knows I'm married (he's also married) and that doesn't seem to stop him. I don't want this to turn into stalking! Should I just be rude and honest & tell him that he's just a friend/brother. Please help!! Don't respond if you're just going to say something stupid! This is serious for me.

2007-09-28 05:52:13 · 27 answers · asked by Jen 1

2007-09-28 05:51:50 · 38 answers · asked by bgx.. 1

(I know this doesn't apply to everyone, but i've seen a lot of people like this and I never knew the in's and out's and it) Why, when guys get married, they figure their life is over. Why'd they get married in the first place? Girls seem to be more easy going about this but still. I'm not trying to be sexist or anything, I was just wondering from married point of views.

2007-09-28 05:45:14 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

If so, how is it possible? If the couple can agree to "terms" themselves and don't have the money to hire divorce attorneys is it possible for them to do the petitioning, filing, etc. on their own. Where may they get their hands on these forms? What about if they are expecting a child? Is it possible for them to do it on their own if they agree to custody arrangements?

2007-09-28 05:43:55 · 12 answers · asked by seriously2sweet4u 2

at first few days we talk good we were okay,and suddenly next few days this person change the attitude..doesnt talk like before and i m wondering why but as far as i know i didnt do anything wrong when ask her question she keot quiet?but why?sometimes she approach me like in a distance doing things but not talking id dont understand...what does she wants..but she talks to others...why this person is doing this?

2007-09-28 05:41:33 · 9 answers · asked by truth set free 1

i thought i can trust this guy,but then he did something which upset me this time and i don't know why,he kind of betray me like taking my stuff from me even i helped him,but why he does this?when i confronted him he said that stuff was someone s one....but why he does that?he is also my co worker.he sometimes gets me puzzled

2007-09-28 05:36:50 · 13 answers · asked by truth set free 1

Its so different when you are just dating, you just don't recognize certain things about a person. My husband and I,
lived together 3 years before getting married, today we've been together 9 yr, married 6 with 2 boys, 1 and 5. I've considered going to marriage counselling, even went together a few times alone or with him, didn't stick with it for long though, I just quickly pick up on when they don't know what they are talking about. I tried for a while to get along with my husband and although he's not a cheat, we do everything equally, taking care of the boys, housework, he doesn't drink or hang out, just work & back home, I just don't like his personality, he's disorganized, quickly angered and negative about people, he's not easygoing & everything gets to him. He's like a child at times, I have to get at him sometimes so he can get important things done, with good intentions though. Sometimes if he gets stressed out he gets hysterical or have tantrums like a baby.

2007-09-28 05:36:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

If Mr. Blacksmith<(example) has treated you like a dog or beat the hell out of you, Why would you want to be called Ms. Blacksmith after you've divorced him?

2007-09-28 05:35:32 · 35 answers · asked by spankster 2

i married my husband in january and we have been living with his parents, he promised me he would find us somewhere to live but he still hasnt, we have a 4 month old baby, his parents have a trailer and our room feels like a closet it is so small, and the babys bout outgrew her cradle and a baby bed wont fit in here, his mom wont let me do anything like washing my own clothes or making the babys bottles i cant even take a bath after 10 and we pay all the bills my husband seems like he aint in a hurry to move i cant take it much longer i love him to death but this is just stupid what do u think i should do? be honest, oh and his parents dont help if i need someone to watch the baby i have to call my mom that lives 20 miles away

2007-09-28 05:34:14 · 13 answers · asked by Denise 1

My wife keeps bringing up celebrities that have "open marriages". For those who have never heard of this, it is when both the husband and wife has the option to see other people within the marriage. I DO NOT believe in this, and I do not like when my wife keeps bringing it up. Has anyone heard of this?

2007-09-28 05:27:42 · 35 answers · asked by akbar s 1

We have been married for about 2 months and I can't take it anymore. I have known my husband for over 7 years and we lived together for 2 years. He recently switched jobs and is always busy at work and I recently lost my job. A lot of times he stays out late and hangs out with his friends, even though he knows I am bored and alone at home. He says it's the pressure from the job that makes him stay out late and drink with his friends.
If I do something he thinks is wrong he gives me the silent treatment for a week until I beg him to talk to me. At this point I am so fed up and can't take it anymore. We recently moved and I have no friends and no job. I really can't turn to my family because they never wanted me to marry him in the first place.

I really do not know what to do.

2007-09-28 05:26:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband befriended a female 3 months ago when he asked her to be on his softball team. In the last 3 mths his texts have went ski high. And she calls him during the day, or he calls her. I have told my husband that it was getting out of hand. And it needs to cool off for a while. It got to the point he would text her when he left the house or was working over. I have read the texts and there is nothing there to say something is going on. The women is married, and I have meant her. I dont feel right about it.
Now the texts have gone down quit a bit, but more calling each other. Dont know how to deal with this. She wont text me unless I text first. She would rather talk to him all day. Her husband is fine with this but Iam not. Not sure if I should just sit back and keep my eyes and ears open? Im not a jealious person but I've never been through this before.... And advice?

2007-09-28 05:23:24 · 10 answers · asked by NERAK 1

he pays me the exact amount of money he is meant to, he works fulltime earning a good wage and he is with another woman who also works fulltime. i am on a disability pension and dont have another partner. it is just me and my 2 children aged 14 and 15 they both are at school fulltime and the 15 year old has just got a part time job on sataurday and thursday nights, what i want to know is would it be right for me to ask my ex to also help to pay for our kids braces for their teeth and school fees and costs and on school holidays to maybe pay for the kids to go to the movies every once in a while or some kind of entertainment for them. he never gives the kids any money for themselves or takes them anywhere or even has them for a night as his new girlfriend does not like our kids. they do not have any other kids together. before he met her he used to see the kids all the time and give them money and help me out with extra money if we needed it. but it has all stopped now so should i ask?

2007-09-28 05:08:35 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband asked for a divorce in November 2006. He said he needs his space, and that he feels that I am not helping with the household bills. He gets paid more then I and he said he will pay 70% of the bill and I pay 30%. After 5 years know he don't like it this way. Along with this his family fills as if I am keeping him from them. Yes, they are invited to our house when we have things. They don't like me and I have been okay with it. He also said we don't have the same out look in life. However, he filed for a divorce, but that's all he has done. Now he is asking to come back after almost a year. Yes I still love him and yes I let him go. I had to show him that I could things with or without him. IT just was better with tow peolpe. My question is, "Am I a foul if I let him back or If I do let him back should I be thinking in the back of my mind that one day he's going to ask to leave again"? Any advice, tell me what you think!!

2007-09-28 05:02:57 · 13 answers · asked by babygirlvic 1

Which do you think is worse...

First & second cousin getting married OR same sex couple getting married?

I think it is sad that more states allow you to marry your first cousin rather then your life partner that is the same sex as you.

Just curious

2007-09-28 04:56:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous