Marriage & Divorce - 28 September 2007

Ever since my somewhat unhappiness and miserableness in my marriage life, I have lost all my faith in God/Jesus. Sometimes, me and my wife have extreme heated arguements. We both are not putting any effort for each other, whatsoever, in our marriage life. So because of my somewhat unhappiness, I quit living a Christian way of life.

2007-09-28 14:56:17 · 15 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2

Last week, I attended my friend's Birthday party. Drinks went a limit up and it played a fate. Me and a friend slept together. We are both married and never done such mistakes before. It hurts me a lot, because I cheated my loving husband. How to tell him about this? Or should I hide this from him?

2007-09-28 14:44:23 · 61 answers · asked by Anonymous

He says he did not talk to anyone, but I don't know why he did it to start with. He admitted he was curious about online dating, but he promised he would not do it again, and he loved me more than life itself. He said he would not jeopardize our marriage for it, what is your oppinion? I know he loves me, but am I just being insecure about his motives?

2007-09-28 14:10:59 · 19 answers · asked by dduty45 1

...do what wifey says? Seriously, if there's something I don't agree with, it's fruitless to argue, because of course men and women come from two different trains of thought. There were times that I just caved instead of speaking up fro myself more, just to avoid an argument I have no hope of winning. I've been asked to give up a couple of things that made NO SENSE to me whatsoever!

2007-09-28 13:58:04 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to know.

2007-09-28 13:47:20 · 13 answers · asked by David B 2

She says she dosent have any sex drive. Shes 23 years old. Somethings wrong here. She goes out alot with her girl friends--late. She wont get close, emotionally, with me anymore.

Should I be concerned?

2007-09-28 13:32:36 · 29 answers · asked by enigmatic1844 3

I have made some mistakes in my marriage.. I guess we all have to a various degree. But this question I pose to the men and women out they're in Yahoo land is ask because if you knew that, has the cheater, you would never do it again, would you be better off just not saying anything and learning from your mistake? Or do you take the honest route and tell he or she that you had an affair? I think if you told that person, you would have to understand that the trust would not be there anymore! Even if you never did it again! I know telling the truth is the right thing to do, but.. is it always the best thing to do in the overall scope of things?

2007-09-28 13:22:44 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am looking for documents in the state of PA. Is it possible to find them?

2007-09-28 13:21:52 · 5 answers · asked by Krissy 1

Relationship broke up 10 years ago. I moved out and my Ex remained in property rent free for 6 years. Paid nothing towards mortgage. moved out of property 4 years ago and has now turned up wanting money for share of property. Can she do this. There are no children involved.

2007-09-28 13:21:20 · 15 answers · asked by P B 2

Me and my husband have been together now for 5 years and married now for 1 we have a 2 month old boy & i recently discovered that he has been talking with other women on the internet and chatting with them trying to get to know them and then i went even further back and realized that he has been doing it throughout the entire course of our relationship he is my first love and first everything (if you know what i mean) i have confronted him about it and he said that he didnt think it was cheating because he never met face to face with them. He says he wont do it again and that he does not want to lose me but what goes through my head is that it was only 9 months ago that he did this. I just feel so hurt, all i can see is the things he wrote to these girls and how he told them their pics are beautiful & such...&here i am worried that i would not be able to give him a son ( i was having medical problems), i dont know if i can forgive him am i overreactting?

2007-09-28 13:16:39 · 30 answers · asked by Celeste W 1

at school

2007-09-28 13:16:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-28 13:14:46 · 8 answers · asked by marji129 1

I was talking to my boyfriend today while I was at work on instant messenger. He mentioned that he was having trouble deciding between three different things to get me for my birthday. He mentioned the first two, and the third was "a ring". Now we have talked about marriage before -- we've been living together for over six months and have been together over a year, so of course we've talked about getting married "eventually". Lately he has also been talking about wanting to buy a house when our lease is up. I was so shocked to see that he had said he was considering buying me a ring that I didn't respond back to his message for a good five minutes, and he said something along the lines of "you're baffled" and then got snippy when I talked about the other two things instead of the ring. Of course, I would say yes if he asked, but I don't want to assume that he is actually planning to propose. Part of me still really thinks it may still be too soon to get married. What should I do?

2007-09-28 13:07:23 · 6 answers · asked by somberll 1

My husband was watching a war movie in the living room. A specific scene showed a soldier dying with blood gushing from his neck. I told him that he needed to finish the show in our bedroom because it wasn't appropriate for our 10 year old daughter. So of course he gets his Marine attitude and tells me to shut my pie hole and stomps off into the bedroom. What do you do when your spouse acts like an *ss?

2007-09-28 12:52:02 · 25 answers · asked by 2Beagles 6

After my X wife left me and my two boys 9 years old to the street, And she got both Cars, Both houses, 4 rent house and all of the stuff, even the kids toys and beds and stuff. And we went to the street. " I am not sure how the judge did that one and got by with it". Well that has been 9 months ago and now she has came down with Cancer and lost Lots of weight.
Do you think that the under current of reaping what you sow has came back around and bit her? What is your opinion?

2007-09-28 12:49:41 · 27 answers · asked by faithfully 1

The following is from an actual 1950s Home Economics textbook intended for girls, teaching them how to prepare for married life:

1. Have dinner ready: Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal - on time. This is a way of letting him know that you have been thinking about him, and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospects of a good meal are part of the warm welcome needed.

2. Prepare yourself: Take 15 minutes to rest so you will be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people. Be a little gay and a little more interesting. His boring day may need a lift.

3. Clear away clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives, gathering up school books, toys, paper, etc. Then run a dust cloth over the tables. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too.

4. Prepare the children. Take a few minutes to wash the children's hands and faces if they are small, comb their hair, and if >>necessary, change their clothes. They are little treasures and he would like to see them playing the part.

5. Minimize the noise: At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise don't run the washer and dryer, or vacuum. Try to encourage the children to be quiet.Greet him with a warm smile and be glad to see him.

6. Some DON'TS: Don't greet him with problems or complaints. Don't complain if he's late for dinner. Count this as minor compared with what he might have gone through that day.

7. Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or suggest he lay down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him. Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soft, soothing and pleasant voice. Allow him to relax and unwind.

8. Listen to him: You may have a dozen things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first.

9. Make the evening his: Never complain if he does not take you out to dinner or to other places of entertainment; instead try to understand his world of strain and pressure and his need to be home and relax.

10. The Goal: try to make your home a place of peace and >>order where your husband can relax.

2007-09-28 12:43:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-28 12:42:07 · 4 answers · asked by montecer17 2

I have been married 14 years. Two years into the marriage, my husband cheated but did everything to try and fix the marriage. And did everything he could to try to make me trust him again. Anyway, that lasted for a while. Now he lies and I catch him in the lie and he says things like I had misunderstood him or I forgot and got things all mixed up or whatever. He desperately does not want to get divorced. Probably because of money. Help

2007-09-28 12:42:04 · 23 answers · asked by dianna 2

should I let him....tonight it is 7:30 and he says he will come later when his girlfriend gets off work...well I cant keep my son up allllll night for him and I myself need to go to bed at a reasonable time as for I have 3 other children and a husband who all get up in the morning at 6...YES even on the weekends...and no I cannot sleep in I am usualy up with the baby half the night tooo.....Is it OK for him to disregard my schedule? He already lets our son break EVERY rule I have ever set...like no hitting no bad movies etc.....oh and no he was not this type of man the 7 years we were together!

2007-09-28 12:40:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex and I broke up 2 years ago. We have a 5 year old child. I have him paying $1000.00 a month in child support and he complains about it even though he makes $2500.00 a month. What he pays is not even enough to feed, clothe, or pay rent for me and my child. Recently he recieved an inheritance of a large sum. Can I get more child support from him and am I entitled to some of his money? I can not afford a lawyer so and free advice would help.

2007-09-28 12:39:48 · 11 answers · asked by Equality for all! 2

mine does.. he says the meanest things to me.. and it hurts my feelings.. i don't understand why he says things that hurt my feelings.. i asked him that and he doesn't answer me at all.. i even cried infront of him because i could not take the pain anymore.. but he just sat there and didn't care at all that i was crying in pain.. i asked him if does it bother him even just a bit that i am crying.. he just told me he isn't moved a bit at all like he doesn't care at all..
i feel so hurt right now.. i don't know what to do with my feelings.. i want to make myself feel better but how..? we have a 2-year-old daughter and i love her so much..
i am aware that marriage has its ups and downs.. but shouldn't a good husband do anything to make her wife feel bad? if the husband really loves his wife that is..
i am hurting right now.. i want to feel better.. but i don't know how

2007-09-28 12:32:56 · 11 answers · asked by ~Amor~ 3

I worked 12 hours. Came home and my fiance is working on his garage and expects me to go get dinner. Should he go get dinner or should I let him continue working on the garage because he wants to get the garage done? Am I being shelfish for wanting him to get dinner because he is working on the garage?

2007-09-28 12:26:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

The Bible says to be fruitful and multiply, but I find peace in just knowing the word of God myself and not trying to evangelize others or feel the NEED to marry a man. I can live a peaceful life with just Jesus in my life, right? Without Jesus, I am a lustful woman who seeks out sex sex and more sex and even lust after married men. This is absolutely wrong of me.

2007-09-28 12:26:37 · 10 answers · asked by Martie 1

My friend just recently got a divorce. They had one kid together and she had another kid from a previous marriage. She moved straight out of their house together and into her boyfriends house. They have split the "mutual" kid up one week him, one week her. And the older child just gets to see his "dad" on the weekends. The older kid is acting out for obvious reasons. Is there anyway to get through to my friend and convince her that she had made a very BAD decision by moving in with her boyfriend without even taking a break?

2007-09-28 12:09:03 · 11 answers · asked by Curious 1

I am living far away from her guys. With my husband. I was in Australia before. But just moved to the UK last month. That butch is in France. I am stressed to the sky when I think abt her. I was depressed for the whole half of this year, just recovering from it.. And now that butch is trying to get in my way again..
She just cannot accept that I come from an Asian background and that I am different! I have lived in so many countries, met so many people, but I have never met someone like her. And why did it have to be my mother in law?????!
She wants me to be like .. what? typical french girl???!
FYI: She's had pretty harsh childhood. But I thought that's supposed to teach you to grow wiser! Am I wrong?

2007-09-28 12:00:08 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-28 11:54:49 · 11 answers · asked by faithfully 1

problems would you get counseling? Would your spouse/partner go with you?

2007-09-28 11:51:49 · 7 answers · asked by daljack -a girl 7

2007-09-28 11:44:12 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, here it is. My daughter Jolena is 3 and Shes been with me all her life and I just enrolled her in pre school.. Well her "father" lives with his other kids mom and he doesnt work. He eats, sleeps, plays his computer game 24/7 and she does everything for him, she runs the house and she pays his child support to keep him out of jail for 30 days.... He does get to see her but when I dont take her at the snap of thier finger, the kids mom will threaten me t call an attorney and fight for custody. This may be a stupid question, but she cant do that right. And jolena's dad doesnt even have a highschool diploma. Please give me uplifting advice

2007-09-28 11:39:34 · 11 answers · asked by Mindy R 1

2007-09-28 11:36:17 · 62 answers · asked by Anonymous