After my X wife left me and my two boys 9 years old to the street, And she got both Cars, Both houses, 4 rent house and all of the stuff, even the kids toys and beds and stuff. And we went to the street. " I am not sure how the judge did that one and got by with it". Well that has been 9 months ago and now she has came down with Cancer and lost Lots of weight.
Do you think that the under current of reaping what you sow has came back around and bit her? What is your opinion?
2007-09-28 12:49:41 · 27 answers · asked by faithfully 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sure, I believe in that. And if she's got cancer you've now got a better chance of getting all that stuff back, if she hasn't remarried, and even if she did you'll get the kids back.
Yep, Karma is a b*tch
xxx
2007-10-05 16:42:19 · answer #1 · answered by Shel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't belive that is why she got Cancer! because their is alot of people that get Cancer for No reason and Not because they have done something wong in there Life! There is innocent children and babys that get Cancer so, what did they do to get sick? Nothing!!! So therefore I don't belive this!!! I Also find it hard to belive that a Judge would give you Custody of your boys but yet give your wife everything else!! That is unheard of ! If you get the kids you also would get your home for them and a car !!! A judge wouldn't leave you homeless with two kids!! And if he did then you should of went back to court and seen if you could of had another Judge!!! This is just too crazy to be true to me! If she got everything then she should of got the kids too! Unless she knew the judge or had lots of money like rich but that still doesn't seem right to me! just being honest thas all !!
2007-10-05 23:07:43 · answer #2 · answered by monkeymomma46 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do believe that you reap what you sow and I believe in the power of forgiveness. Cancer isn't caused by doing something bad to someone. Alot of really good people get cancer. The best thing at this point is to remember she is the mother of your two boys and you should be wishing the best for her regardless of what she put you through. I have been through it myself and walked away from the divorce starting over with nothing. I would never wish anything bad on my kids mom. Be a good person and let go of what she has put you through, you will come out of it a much better person and it will be much better for your boys to see there dad forgiving there mom and knowing that you don't hate her. If nothing else, think of your boys and the fact its there mom and they still love her.
2007-09-28 20:21:59 · answer #3 · answered by The Wižard 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well you could be right that YOU REAP WHAT YOU SOW.
But if you are a God fearing person ,You should not rejoice regarding her present woes.
God is the only just judge of all humankind.If this is God's doing then you must still show her compassion.That is the religious thing to do as taught in many religions.
Also consider that after all, if she dies of cancer, you just might reclaim and regain the assets/wealth she took from you
NO NEED TO KICK A DYING HORSE,so they say.
2007-10-06 00:02:21 · answer #4 · answered by Truth Source 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ell, let me start by saying that I don't wish Cancer on anyone. And I do know a particular someone that I would LOVE to see get whats coming to them.
Having said that, I firmly believe in Karma.
You get what you give so to speak. You see, most people don't believe this, but God does repay the wrong. And he will usually do a much better job of it than we could ever imagine.
Example: My brothers and I use to go to a private Christian school. It was connected to a church. Our family did not have a lot of money and my Dad struggled to keep us in that school. Needless to say, we got treated differently than the kids whose family had money. The Pastor of the church was particularly hard on my oldest brother. He let others get away with major things while my brother was chastised for the most minor infraction. He made my brothers senior year hell. To the point where my brother was voted Homecoming King and refused it because he would not represent the school.
About 5 years after High school, that same Pastor called my house asking to speak with my brother. He had been diagnosed with cancer. It was all over his body and he had a short time to live. He called to apologise for his behaviour and to ask forgiveness from my brother. My brother is a good man. he forgave him and the man died 3 months later.
We DO reap what we sow!!!
2007-10-05 16:02:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
The part of me that has said that to my now Ex boyfriend of 11 years/ now roommate, wants to say YES, but in truth, No, I believe we are all here to learn lessons in life, that we are meant to go through what we go through, the good and the bad. I'm sure right now she may think the same as you said. You need to be the better person and go to her, tell her you forgive her for what she did. Not that you condone what she did, or will forget it, just that you let that pain go, for you, and for her peace. Let whatever time she may have be about re connecting her with the kids. maybe she'll be cured, and you can be co-parents in a better way. there is a reason why she got Cancer, a lesson for her, you, the kids. try and find it, and try and let go of what she did to you and the kids, I know it's hard, but you got the best of it, you got the kids, she got the empty house and material things. your kids will always know what a great Dad you are, and a great Dad would make sure he does everything he can to have their mom in there life, no matter what she did to him. Good luck
2007-09-28 20:21:01 · answer #6 · answered by cheryl c 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cancer is not a matter of getting what you sow. If you choose to think like that then nothing can change your mind. I really think what her test will be is now that she has cancer can she see the error of her ways and give you what you need to take care of those kids. She still has a maker to meet if you believe in heaven or hell.
2007-10-05 23:55:56 · answer #7 · answered by cinnamon35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
karma does exist.
also, it is a well known fact that the positive or negative thought you have, the things that you say and do. how you treat people does have an effect on your mind and body.
for someone who is nice to others and has a positive outlook on life will be healthier then the negative one who worries all the time is mean to others ect....
i'm not saying that he got cancer because of his choices in life but, it is a good possibility.
2007-10-06 19:13:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She got cancer because she was predisposed to it. You got the shaft cuz you had a crappy lawyer. NO ONE deserves cancer and you don't GET cancer because you were 'bad'. If that is the case, my mother, who was the most wonderful woman alive would still be with us. Go back to court with a different lawyer...seek free legal advice. And pray for her recovery.
Good luck.
2007-09-28 19:59:24 · answer #9 · answered by Gr8estluv 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
that is exactly what it is. God dont like ugly and it seems that she did you and the kid real dirty. but how did she get all that and you got the kid and nothing else. you need to be finding out now who will get what when she passes. you will get SS for the child and the child is her next of kin and still you have the kid you will be getting everything she took for you and more. see how that work. it doesnt pay to be mean and nasty to people. GodBless
2007-10-06 19:02:14 · answer #10 · answered by Crystal G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋