Marriage & Divorce - 28 September 2007

my x cheated on all 4 wives. Walked out on #2, just left a note, married the girl he cheated with, she left him, he married me, cheated, walked out with new girl. Will he cheat on her????

2007-09-28 11:36:11 · 50 answers · asked by yp_deets_peralta 1

I am a Dallas resident and father of two going through a divorce. Does anyone know of support groups or other groups targeting divorced people in the area?

2007-09-28 11:29:06 · 5 answers · asked by DallasDad 1

hey, i'm a 13 year old girl looking for a job that pay a good amount a month. i'm desperate for a job. What can i do. i mean i can't help that i'm 13 and i need money. it isn't fair that i can't get pay because i'm only 13. Thank You!

2007-09-28 11:26:56 · 17 answers · asked by Mini Mutt 1

I am a fulltime working mother, who is struggling to juggle my busy life. I have two demanding Children, a demanding job and a greay hobbie i just dont want to give up. how do i fit in the housework???????????????? Oh yes and i have a husband who thinks sitting watching the tv or on the computer is helping. LOL
HELP PLEASE

2007-09-28 10:59:03 · 10 answers · asked by Hayley M 1

my hubby and i have been maried for six years and it does'nt feel like six i feel like i did when we were just going out is that a good thing or a bad thing?

2007-09-28 10:35:59 · 10 answers · asked by notyochic 6

Does anybody have any words of encouragement? It's been a month since my husband and I split...I just need to be cheered up a bit! Thanks in advance!!

2007-09-28 10:32:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Marriage at the age of 18....why do people condemn such decisions now-a-days?

2007-09-28 10:14:43 · 34 answers · asked by diana m 1

Pina Colada Lyrics

I was tired of my lady
We'd been together too long
Like a worn-out recording
Of a favorite song
So while she lay there sleeping
I read the paper in bed
And in the personal columns
There was this letter I read

"If you like Pina Coladas
And getting caught in the rain
If you're not into yoga
If you have half a brain
If you'd like making love at midnight
In the dunes on the Cape
Then I'm the love that you've looked for
Write to me and escape."

I didn't think about my lady
I know that sounds kind of mean
But me and my old lady
Have fallen into the same old dull routine
So I wrote to the paper
Took out a personal ad
And though I'm nobody's poet
I thought it wasn't half bad

"Yes I like Pina Coladas
And getting caught in the rain
I'm not much into health food
I am into champagne
I've got to meet you by tomorrow noon
And cut through all this red-tape
At a bar called O'Malley's
Where we'll plan our escape."

2007-09-28 10:14:09 · 9 answers · asked by LittleDaisy. 6

a good friend of mine is happily married but she said she always dreams of being with other men. she cant understand y she has sexual dreams about other men when she totally loves her husband and would never cheat! has anyone else have this problem?

2007-09-28 10:11:56 · 14 answers · asked by notyochic 6

married for 4 years with a 3 yr old child.
I am seperated because my husband has been abusive (he never beat me, but he did get physical a few times when he was drunk, he also has done doing drugs about 5 times sinse weve been married). He was a bit controling as well. I still love him and wish our family would be healthy but it seems unrealistic.

When I tell him im going out and if he could take our daughter he flips out. He automatically thinks the worst and its annoying, i cant even enjoy myself because he will cause problems, either the next day or go act stupid with my mom (if shes babysitting). I just wish he could be civil & let me be. If he wanted our marriage to work he would concentrate on getting help for himself and not worry about every little move I make.

he is "trying" to change by going to church, but he wants me to be right there supporting him, however i am unsure if i want to get back with him.

Is it wrong that I just want to do my own thing?

2007-09-28 10:06:43 · 22 answers · asked by None 1

for another one with a higher payment. He would have had it payed off in a little over a year. We aren't poor but far from rich I just keep getting medical bills in the mail yet he goes and gets something for his own self not for us or our baby.

2007-09-28 10:03:29 · 10 answers · asked by lucy diamond 6

My boyfriend and I have been dating for six years. We broke up twice, but we have been together for the past three years and have been living together for two and a half years. We had a huge fight about marriage. He said we are committed already and he loves me. Also, his brother just married and my bf thinks I only want to get married because of the recent wedding. My bf complained that we don't have sex enough and we fight too much. Every week someone askes me why we are not married and now all our friends are getting married. The recent wedding and engagements are not my reasons for wanting to get married, it just prevents me from putting the already painful thought out of my mind. Before, I would just try not to think of it. Now I feel rejected and extremely sad that he doesn't want to marry me. Before I asked him, I secretly hoped he was planning the proposal. Now, it really hurts me he doesn't plan to marry me and has no forseeable plan. I resent him and I can't help but cry.

2007-09-28 10:01:45 · 29 answers · asked by plsq 1

I am married for about five years.My problem is my husband receiver rather than giver,Sometimes it annoys me ,especially in case of oral sex he is receiving it but i dont .I want him to do it as well.I dont know why he is not doing it.I think i am guite pretty and clean I mean in hygienic way but i dont know what is a problem or how i can solve it? Are there any males who are not doing it if yes then why?

2007-09-28 09:53:54 · 18 answers · asked by lovebird 1

my ex fiance and i have a 3 month old baby boy. we have broken up and im trying to decide what to do about him with visitation of James.
my ex drinks alot of alcohol, people he lives with friends etc are into drugs he has not held james 5 times since hes been born he wont even play with him or feed a bottle? he has a very bad temper and i know if he got custody james would not be taken care of. and i cant bare the thought of being away from my child.i even have one picture of him really drunk.. what would you do? please help

2007-09-28 09:52:25 · 13 answers · asked by missyjai 1

we've been together for over a yr. he has had MANY financial and legal troubles that i have bailed him out on because i have always been level-headed, successful & saved all my money rather than throwing it away on partying. he has done a complete 180 and we are truly in love.

we have officially discussed marriage and plan to get married next yr. we rarely fight unless it's major issues like his financial messes that i clean up (i am out nearly 10k). i have no major financial or mental problems that cause us problems.

BUT when iiii have some small issue or want to openly communicate a problem before it becomes a prob. he always gets defensive & it turns into an argument. for the past yr, if we ever fight because of me, it's because he never hears me out. he always calls my probs. small and not worth discussion (because he has had SUCH BIG PRobs in his life).

yes he doesn't drink, do drugs, cheat, has a good heart, would be a wonderful husband & father except if this is going

2007-09-28 09:39:57 · 23 answers · asked by gaiam0 1

Someone was talking about me and assumed me and my husband would be divorced by now.

What is up with that? My husband and I are great and any problems we go through are no one elses business.

2007-09-28 09:36:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-28 09:34:31 · 12 answers · asked by j.pee69 6

we recently had a a friend coming and stayingg with us home and he is 78 years old (a widower staying alone). during his stay he always preferred chatting with my wife but one day when i came home i found the old man hugging and carressing my wife on bed. i asked my wife about this and she told me that one day when she came from bath with a only towel around her, he just pulled it off and started hugging her. begging her he pushed her to the bed and started fondling her but couldnt perform as he was not able to. my wife felt pitty for him and allowed him whenever he felt so (he only fondled and not perform).ihe too confessed to me that he was feeling comfort staying with us and begged me not to send away. too felt sad for the poor man as he had no other way at this age. is it wrong to provide a comfort to an old man about to die?

2007-09-28 09:26:23 · 24 answers · asked by orangeman 2

My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He has always avoided about talking about having kids. I finally got him to talk about it over the weekend, and he told me why he doesn't like to think about having kids. He does not want to risk having a female baby, because she would grow up to be a teenager. He said he remembers what he did with girls and got away with when he was a teenager (he's 33 now). So he doesn't want to risk having a little girl because he doesn't want to go through her growing up and becoming a teenager because he knows "what teenagers do." He said if there was a 100% chance of having a boy we would start trying to get pregnant right away. Does anyone have any advice on how I can try to talk to my husband about this or what I can do. I really want to have kids and I think my husband would be a wonderful father, but I don't know how to go about discussing this with him and reasoning with him. Any advice would be great, expecially from dads.

2007-09-28 09:08:11 · 20 answers · asked by Krisie 2

What do men do when they are scorned?

2007-09-28 09:02:32 · 14 answers · asked by angel 36 6

I had to leave town for 8 months and when i came back he had another woman, how do i win his love back?

2007-09-28 08:58:31 · 22 answers · asked by smilez13 1

Ok, so my husband and I are raising our six kids (two of which are his by his late wife) and we of course have lots of expenses as you can imagine. We actually own two houses right now and are desperately trying to sell his house where he lived before we were married. He has a 22yr old step daughter that is his late wife's daughter living there and she pays for NOTHING. No rent, utilities, phone, calbe....you get the point. My husband just lets her free load she has been there six months and the house is not selling. Realtor says we need it empty and fix it up, but my husband feels like the bad guy and meanwhile I am working everyday to pay the bills for that house and feel like I am working for her to sit on her rear and live off us....am I being selfish here or is my husband being a sissy? I think he should tell her it's time to move and quit sponging off us, we have six minor children to care for here, what do you guys think?

2007-09-28 08:57:59 · 20 answers · asked by LilSunbeam 4

2007-09-28 08:51:55 · 28 answers · asked by Chris C 3

A few days ago I got an email from our Anti-virus service informing me of activity on our computer. They provided me with a list of all of these pornographic websites. Apparently, my fiance has been going on porn sites in the middle of the night. And not just some pics of nude women....like videos of wild stuff.

I was soooo hurt! Our wedding is in 3 weeks. I told him I wanted to call it off. He apologized and told me that he would never do it again and he didn't realize how bad it would hurt me. But I don't think that's good enough.... I feel so disrespected! Am I overreacting? I am really struggling with this. I love him so much, but this is just not acceptable behavior to me.

2007-09-28 08:47:18 · 41 answers · asked by Keely L 1

Are there nicer areas than others?
Do you know off hand of any nice areas Upstate that's not too pricey...
Sorry this is not about Marriage & Divorce but I'm getting divorced and moving so it may qualify for this section...

thanks to all!!!!

2007-09-28 08:45:20 · 5 answers · asked by Angie 1

I am a twenty year old gay guy. last night while we were at at party, i got very drunk, and ended up having sex with a woman.
now I try to put that down to drink!, but then i had sex with her the following, morning, and I realy enjoyed it.

this is where I need your help,

do you think i could be still in denial and , that I am actually a lesbian,?

2007-09-28 08:38:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Long story.... but basically, my husband and I are both Christians and have pretty high standards about lust, he's had a history with porn, and ended up doing it again during our marriage, several times, and lying to my face about it. It wasn't the porn that was the biggest issue with me, but the lying.

Anyway, fast forward a few months, we've talked about this a lot, and I wanted to know what qualities he thought were more beautiful than me.... He said, smaller boobs (weird, huh?), bigger butt, darker eyes, and bigger lips....

Now, I am confident in my looks, I know that I'm attractive... but I am not confident in the way my husband views me. He says that he considers other women more beautiful, yeah, okay, I get that. Of course other women ar e more beautiful than me... but the fact that he has certain qualities that he considers more "beautiful" is upsetting.

It makes me so insecure, that I feel like I lost that spark we had in the beginning of our relationship. HELP!

2007-09-28 08:02:04 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

I haven't been in the mood( to make love) for a long time is there anything to do or take. I love my husband very much. I just don't know what to do, he get upset when I say no all the time.

2007-09-28 07:53:41 · 12 answers · asked by Jennie K 1

you a small fortune. or maybe even your marriage.

2007-09-28 07:52:21 · 11 answers · asked by louise d 6

I'm 38, healthy, fit, good looking and have many oportunities to cheat. I never have and never would. That being said, my wife and mine's sex life has been lacking, to say the least. She has lost interest and we only have it once per month.

So I've been taking matters into my own hands and after a few days, I have little choice but to relieve myself. I do so privately, but the last few times she found the bottle of Astroglide and put two and two together. She got super angy and started yelling at me, calling me a pervert and sicko and what not. Is she right in doing this?

2007-09-28 07:50:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous