I haven't been in the mood( to make love) for a long time is there anything to do or take. I love my husband very much. I just don't know what to do, he get upset when I say no all the time.
2007-09-28 07:53:41 · 12 answers · asked by Jennie K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Make an appointment with your obgyn and tell them that you have a low sex drive. They can test you and tell if your hormones are low (females actually have testosterone and your's may be low). From what I have heard they prescribe a patch to be worn that time releases the hormone into your blood and you will begin to see an increase in your sex drive.
AND...just because your sex drive is low doesn't mean you can't do it. Marriage is about sacrafice....do it anyway and get to the doc asap so that you will enjoy it more.
Also, you ever think that maybe your husband is saying he wants another child just so that you will make love to him?
2007-09-28 10:27:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call your doctor today, schedule a check-up and tell him what you have said here.
It could merely be fatigue, something seasonal like allergies, or it may be something else entirely. If your physical comes up clear, you may be experiencing mild depression. Talk to your doctor or health care provider.
Another alternative may be that you are angry or unhappy with your husband for some reason and this is a way to "get back" at him. If your doctor gives you a clean bill of health, perhaps it would be worth talking to a marital counselor alone or with your husband. (Your doctor could give you some resources to find someone. If you have a religious afflication, your church or temple will likely have someone on staff that does counseling.)
The fact that you are taking steps to try and feel better is a very good sign. These first efforts to reach out are the hardest. It will get easier. Good-luck.
2007-09-28 08:06:36 · answer #2 · answered by smallbizperson 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny, there are over the counter medicines wal-mart has about 5 diffrent ones. You may want to call the doctor also and get a check-up, and talk to your doc about how you are feeling there light be something you are not facing... Also you might want to treat yourself to a no stress day and get a message or a day spa, and then you make the first move and things and that might help, also talking wiht your husband frankly may help him to understand about your feelings good luck...
2007-09-28 08:02:09 · answer #3 · answered by eeyore6838 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fake it til you make it. In other words, get started. Soon, you s/b in the mood. If not, has he done something to make you feel this way?
2007-09-28 08:21:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go see a doctor. You need to get over this. It is very important.
2007-09-28 12:07:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make time and plan a special evening and surprise him. This would be the first step in recovery...
2007-09-28 08:01:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your local pharmacy and ask the pharmycist about over the counter sexual aids for women.
2007-09-28 07:57:30 · answer #7 · answered by Kathy R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some horny goat weed is over the counter and try to have your husband give you a body massage and see where that takes you
2007-09-28 08:01:35 · answer #8 · answered by oh_jo123 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go see your doctor...your hormones could be out of whack for some reason.
2007-09-28 07:57:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
yes
just when he is expecting no tell him yes i promise that it will light a fire under you, because he is going to know that you want to please him but he is going to make sure that he is going to please you so that there will never be another NO night , just try to remember that you are not 18 because it going to be intense
DAOLEBOI
2007-09-28 08:07:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋