Marriage & Divorce - 28 September 2007

I met him when I was 27 & we got married when I was 29. I'm almost 35 now. We have a great relationship, I know he loves & cares for me. When I was 21 I was stupid & I got arrested for shoplifting. Im not even going to go into the circumstances b/c I knew it was wrong & there is no excuse. I feel so terrible about this. I feel like a horrible person. No one found out about it except the people i was with which I don't talk to anymore. My family doesn't know & my husband doesn't know. I want to tell him b/c It bothers me but I don't want him to know b/c I am so ashamed. I know God has forgiven me but I haven't forgiven myself & I feel like such a horrible person. What would you do?

2007-09-28 02:22:56 · 40 answers · asked by jon jon's girl 5

2007-09-28 02:16:19 · 16 answers · asked by Muslimah S 3

My husband is an overweight person and is never interested in sex though after 2 or 3 days he bcomes ready for sex but is never able to make me enjoy. I m not at all sexually satisfied if i say him to visit the doctor he alwayz says that he is allright. He does never care for my body requirement . I m so confused it was our love marriage and he does love me but why does he not understand my urge to enjoy sex. I have passed many nights crying. Since the day i married him i am not at all happy.
What shall i do plz help me ??

2007-09-28 02:13:36 · 31 answers · asked by honey 2

Recently, I discovered a side of myself I never knew existed, submission. My husband and I have begun to live a dominant-submissive lifestyle. We have educated ourselves on the topic and are very respectful to one another. This is voluntary submission on my part and should not in any way be confused with domestic violence.

I am a professional businesswoman, have been married 10 years, and have three children. But as far as submission goes, I find satisfaction waiting on my husband, whom I do consider my Master. I enjoy being punished (not violently) and serving him. I have never felt more "normal" in my life. But I am extremely aware of society's views about "kinky" relationships. Am I weird because I live and enjoy a lifestyle that most people would probably find repulsive?

2007-09-28 02:08:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Has anyone been in a situation where you are a man's "other women" and gotten pregnant by him in this affair? What happend, what are your views of the situation if so? Thank you.

2007-09-28 02:02:33 · 11 answers · asked by Yellowtulips 3

sometimes she dosent want me to kiss her or caress her and after the whole sex act is over she complains that i was selfish. how do you get aound this happening?

2007-09-28 02:00:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

i think i want out in my marriage,coz i feel unloved,and we always jus argue.on and off for 16 years.id like to be civilise and not messy devorce coz of the kids.

2007-09-28 01:56:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-28 01:55:48 · 17 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2

He has had heart surgery and has the beginning stages of emphzemya. Doctors tell him to stop smoking, he says he wants to but doesn't. I told him I would not buy him any more cigerrettes & he got so hateful with me that when he finally had me in tears I got them. He gets mad at me for buying a book or a brand name shampoo I like (less than $10) but he spends more than this a day on his bad habit. I asked to go to a family outing that is a couple of hours away and he complained about the cost of driving up there and the expense of eating out, etc. The entire cost of one day of family fun is less than what he spends all week on cigerettes. He smokes between 2 & 3 packs a day. He will yell & cuss if he doesn't have his cigerettes & gets mad at anyone who tells him he needs to stop (unless you are a doctor or nurse). I asked him if he cared enough about our family to try to improve his health to live longer. He didn't answer. I know it is a habit but he won't try to stop. Help!

2007-09-28 01:50:57 · 15 answers · asked by Love being a Mom 2

if i can i make him sleep onthe couch or i will....but i dontlike sleeping alone....he says he has to be the one toget sleep because he works....but i have to take care of 4kids....like i dont need sleep....even on the couch the snoring is just as loud...tried noise.....he blows right thru it....earplugs are a joke....anyone?

2007-09-28 01:42:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had someone tell me that the answer I had was probably BS and that I'm trying to impress people... Why is it so HARD to believe that there are people out there that have an awesome sex life?? Is it jealousy cuz that person doesn't have 1??

2007-09-28 01:39:54 · 9 answers · asked by NONAME 4

I am sad, and not sure what to do....I met someone on the internet and by choice, we waited to have sex until our wedding nite which was very recent. I know this is going to sound weird, but we still havent done anything because on the day of the wedding I took 3 hours getting ready, and when I came out after getting ready, my husband to be looked at me and said, "we have to go", not that I look pretty or anything. I'm not "gorgeous" but yes, pretty, and no dog. Then after we got married ( I thought he was just nervous) I dressed very nice (short skirt, tight top, etc) I had a suprise romantic dinner ordered, bought an expensive gown to wear to bed, and we had a drink and when we came back up to the room, he was "tired". I am so hurt. I feel rejected and still not sure what to do. When a gal is rejected on her wedding nite, that hurts. Any advice? I don't understand this at all.......

2007-09-28 01:35:22 · 11 answers · asked by hi_there_again 1

My husband and I are separated and he is not showing any intentions of getting a divorce. We already went through the processing once and even went to court. We didn't have the required paperwork and never went back. It ended up getting thrown out. My husband says that it's easier to not get divorced and he doesn't want to go through the process again.

He is living with his girlfriend/mistress again. He says that she's a great person but he also says he doesn't love her. How could he be with someone he doesn't love? I have met her and always wonder what they have in common. He doesn't seem emotionally attached to her, so I know it's just sexual with her. She even said that's all she thinks he wants from her. Why is he being so shallow and keeping her around if she's just sex to him and he doesn't love her?

I don't know if I want him back now, but I still love him. Sometimes I want him to come home to be a family with me and my daughter though.

2007-09-28 01:31:30 · 22 answers · asked by blue eyes 2

Well he might as well be! I'm a newlywed not even a year yet and my husband is completely addicted to World of Warcraft! I practically have to beg him to spend time with me. Today he didn't come to bed until 6:30in the morning!!! So not even an hour ago! He played the game for 11 hours straight! He got home from work around 7pm. I've talked to him about his playing habits before and it seemed to get better after our talk but about a month after he goes right back to his playing habbits! I'm tired of this and I'm tired of having to beg for his attention! I'm very tempted to just give him an ultimatum: the game or me. Please give me some advice on what I should do. Any questions please message me!

2007-09-28 01:26:06 · 29 answers · asked by CS 3

i'v been with this guy since i was 18 ,i married him when i was 27.he have always treated me bad ,when we got engaged he didnt propose to me he just said here's the ring put it on.he is always putting me down calling me lazy and other name plus calling me a s**t and a biT*h. he said i was before he met me so i am now. we have 2 kids together 10 and 4 ,one is like his dad now no respect.last night he told me dont ask for any of his money when he gets his cheque he'l pay few bills and thats it.i'm not working right now but i am looking and done a few interviews this week.and regards to lazy everything is tended to him even his meals .i never say no to him .we have seperate bedrooms says i snore and keeps him awake ,we only have sex when he wants it.i cry to myself alot.i want to leave but scared....

2007-09-28 01:22:26 · 22 answers · asked by browneyez 2

i love someone who is married,but he is seeking divorce from her wife,but he wants me to live with him since according to him it will take a long time to settle the case in indian courts,what should i do,my parents r not ready for this,he is ready to marry me once he get a divorce,his wife is not living with him from last 6 years,he has been a faithful lover ,we have been in relationship from last one year but we reside in diff. cities in india ,but now he can no longer be away from me and wants me to stay with him.my parents dont want me to marry him,his family has accepted me,and he has said that if i dont want to come to him i should leave him,i am really in a fix since i genuinly love him and want to marry him ,i dont want to leave him,i dont know what to do,plzzzzzz someone help me,he has told me that he will never leave me

2007-09-28 01:17:41 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Let's get to the point, My ex-wife and I started dating when I was 15 and she was 14. We managed to survive together all of high school and college!. We dated for 6yrs. Last yr. of college we engaged and married right out of college. we were married for 1 and half years and one day she came home and said she loved me but wasn't in love with me anymore. so we seperated then divorced. 5 months later she married and had a kid by this man she was seeing during our seperation. now 6yrs. has passed and out of the clear blue sky she is starting to call and say that she knows she messed up and that she didn't really love this man, they are getting divorced now. She says to me that she would like for us to get back together. during this time I haven't married. However, I am engaged to do so now. It took me 3 yrs. after our marrage for me to let go but now since her calling. my feelings are comming out. I don't know what to do. She has a kid by him when we should of had ours.should i not look bk

2007-09-28 01:03:48 · 22 answers · asked by fearlesswolf38 1

Honestly, its the story of my life! I'm not sure if I'm imagining it but I've had loads of guys after me since I started dating years ago. Some even proposed to me but I was not in love with them. Then there have been a few that I was crazy in love with but they were less into me and therefore I didn't get them. I'm now 40+ so I'm really beginning to think its like some sort of cruel destiny! What is going on? Someone please please help me to understand what appears to be a 'curse' on my love life

2007-09-28 00:50:12 · 20 answers · asked by must see 1

2007-09-28 00:45:38 · 9 answers · asked by kenny 6

The only time he stops playing is when eating, sleeping, going to work, go to the toilet, smoking and 1 hour a day spending with me and our kid.

2007-09-28 00:38:57 · 13 answers · asked by tinker77 3

Do you think by suspecting and controling their husbands that they can control them and make sure they don't cheat
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2007-09-28 00:37:29 · 16 answers · asked by ? 4

What is happening in our society today where values of respect and caring no longer the norm of the day? Just read the daily papers about children's nightmare.

2007-09-28 00:22:06 · 4 answers · asked by firemaster 1

2007-09-28 00:09:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

We know these people and do to curtian circumstances, this womens husband is not around. While he has been gone, she has been getting fatter and fatter. How can my wife let her know that its getting out of control?

2007-09-28 00:05:22 · 16 answers · asked by Adam P 3